Fix body language
body language to flirt with girls?
i like this girl who works at a food counter and i can't tell if she's gay and if she's flirting with me. i've tried to observe her with other customers but they all seem to be older ladies or middle aged men so it's impossible to compare her body language with them versus with me. she's always really friendly with me but is there any body language that i could look for that might indicate flirting rather than simply friendliness?
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- Making alot of eye contact, touching you alot, maybe acting shy sometimes. Just follow your instinct I suppose!
- Use your eyes, never underestimate the use of your eyes to tell a girl you like her. And then touch her arm lightly when you talk to her. And smile and bite your lip.
- Cmpare how she looks at you with the other customers. Or if you wanna know quick, you could do a compliment, smile and wink. She if she blushes or if she changes her behavior cuz it could be a sign of her success that she got your attention :) Hey could you give me our opinions to my question too?
- Subtle body language. When you speak to her, does she give you her full attention? (i.e. opening her eyes wider to, her body is facing you, she doesn't cross her arms when speaking to you, and actually listening) If she does like you she would turn her body so that it would face you. Also, if you look down, if her feet are pointing at you, that means that she shows interest to you. Another thing, if she keeps touching her hair and pulling it back behind her ears, this is a sign that she wants to hear you. If she is really likes you, most chicks will puff up their chest so that her breast are "available." It's a psychological thing. Anyway, if the girl keeps touching herself, like using her hand to rub her arm or keeps touching her face and hair, go ahead and touch her. She's inviting you to do it. Now than, she isn't interested with you if she crosses her arms when she speaks with you. This is a subconscious defense. It means that she's trying to protect her self, by holding herself. Or she could just be cold. OR she could be thinking that you're lying to her. Watch what you say, it's imprtant! If she leans back in her chair, she's not interested, just there to chit-chat, nothing much else than that. You have to watch when she firsts see's you and when she knows that you noticed her. She will brighten up, you'll see her glow. Another thing to add, he she instantly stands right up, corrects her posture I mean. If she tries to straighten her back, she's trying to look more attractive. Careful this could be her technique to sell stuff. But if it's only you she does this to, than she's really likes you.
