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Female body language and confusion?

For example, my friend and I were watching TV with a group of friends and we ended up sitting next to to each other on the sofa. She seeemed to be very mindful of the fact that her blouse may be too revealing. So she was constantly fixing her shirt to make sure she wasn't showing her cleavage. I was alittle offended because (1) I wasn't even looking and (2) even if I wanted to, I would have tried very hard not to look and make her feel uncomfortable in that way. fyi - this is a girl friend who I'm not dating but have a crush on and my friends all think she likes me too. Bottomline: I just felt she was very conscious of the fact that she was close to me even though it wasn't a big deal for me. Is it because she's nervous around me? or does she want to make it clear she wants to make sure she doesn't lead me on? Any feedback from female perspective would be much appreciated! Thanks

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maybe she just felt uncomfortable with her blouse and did not have much to do with you
She is nervous. Totally. She didn't want you to see here like that because it may affect how you feel about her. Just wait and see how things play out.
Huh. Well maybe she just wanted you to not get the wrong impression of her. I've felt this way as a female. I pull up my blouse because I don't want guys to think i'm slu**y not because I think they are pervs who want some.
she probably was just uncomfortable with the shirt choice it probably had nothing to do with u personally...so if i were u i wldnt worry about it too much
I think she was just uncomfortable with her blouse nothing else.
It could be as simple as she is just very backward about her appearance. Ex.:I'm not use to wearing much (shirt wise)but big T-shirts so even when I just have a T-shirt on the fits me right,I figit with it the whole time I'm wearing it!! Or it could be that she just doesn't want you to think she is "that type". Either way I truely think that you are reading to much into this!!:o)
she probably didn't want u to think she always wore her clothes that low and revealing she likes u no doubt
Hmm..Did she know you like her? If yes may be she did that in front of you just to make you have deeper crash on her? This is what I feel..if she like you she's trying to sit close to you since your just next to her right? sorry this is what I think.
im betting its cuz she values your opinion of her and she didnt want you thinking she was slutty. another way to look at it is that by tugging repeatedly at her cleavage, she brings your attention to that area. maybe next time you catch her doing that, let her catch you looking and judge by her reaction whether she liked it or not. if you dont think she did, just say 'im a guy, we cant help ourselves sometimes.'
From an observers stand point there are really two options: (1) she does like you but she doesn't want to seem like she has to have you. (2) she doesn't like you and does not want to lead you on. Just ask her does she have any feelings or if she would like to go out on a date. just take is slow bro.
Like many girls, she's been given a heaping spoonfull of guilt and disgust for her body. Sex and sexuality is something she's been taught to keep under wraps. She's become so obsessed with being a modest little girl - it's now made her insecure. Find someone to spend time with that's more concerned about having a good time than worrying about the way her clothes fit.
She was fixing her blouse beacuse she's not a s lut. It had nothing to do with you she just doesnt want to reveal her boobs to the world. And she's a girl! Even though sitting next to her isnt a big deal for you, it is for her. Girls are strange. Just accept it
You didn't say, but I would guess that both of you are teenagers. Assuming that to be true, I'll make the following guess. Most teens are still growing up and out, if you know what I mean. Young teenage girls often have a favorite blouse that they really like to wear. Unfortunately, they also sometimes wear it after they have really outgrown it. Then, they go somewhere, sit down, and suddenly realize that the blouse is now too small, bulging out, and that they are showing too much to feel comfortable. Then they start fiddling with it, trying to not be too revealing. That is simple modesty. So, it probably had nothing to do with the way you were acting or looking. It was just a problem for her that she just realized. Give her the benefit of the doubt and don't take offense at the way she acted. .