Fix body language

is there a dating body language guru out there.?

need a female point of view on this body language question.? i went out to dinner with this girl. the table had 4 chairs. and instead of her siting in front of me. she sit on the chair to the right. i didnt think too much about it at that time, i am just wondering what does it mean. i am not too good on body language. i havent called her. not shore if i should. i think this may be a bad sign.. please help me.

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1. i don't see it as a bad sign, especially if it was a noisy place. she may have just wanted to be able to hear you better, or not have to talk so loud across the table.
2. She sat next to you, that's a good thing
3. Don't read too much into her actions, it will mess up your mindset. What matters more is if she communicates with you. If you guys have great conversations, she's into you. If she is aloof or tries to avoid you, find some other girl. To answer your question, sitting next to each other doesn't exactly discourage eye contact, so don't let it discourage you.
4. It could be one of several things: A). She could be nervous. It is WAAAY easier to sit next to someone than across from them if you fear you'll be anxious (dating jitters). If you are sitting next to someone, you don't have to worry about them looking at you - you are both looking at the restaurant scene. It reduces the number of awkward moments and silences. B). Sitting next to someone is more 'romantic' (in a sense) than sitting across. For example, if you are sitting with someone of the same gender (and you are not gay), you would never sit beside them if there are other seats available. Sitting next to someone suggests more intimacy. (Have you seen people sitting at restaurants arm in arm or kissing each other - kinda awkward to do across the table.)