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How do I read female body language?

The question seems a little vague (to me at least), but I basically want to know what specific body actions from women mean. For instance: - what means she's interested in what I have to say? - what conveys the message of "back off"? - how do I know if she is physically attracted to me? Ya know, those types of things. Feel free to provide more examples if you want. That was just to give you an idea of what I seek. Thanks in advance. Lol, this was two parts because I was curious, and one part because I am bored.

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  1. well you see it is really hard to read women because the general population of us don't know what we want and that gives mixed signals. but if she hits you in the head with a frying pan that is a definite back off.
  2. -she looks at you when youre talking -she tries to ignore you -she stares at you alot
  3. I highly suggest that you don't try to decipher our body language. Because every girl is different, and her body language could have more to do with her mood that day or something else that is on her mind than it has to do with you. However, there are some very non-subtle things that usually remain the same. Like if you try to hug her and she back away, or if she is constantly moving farther away from you, that prob means back off.
  4. if she finds you physically appealing she will try to touch you a lot. like on the shoulder on hand. and if she is mad she will clench her jaw and face her torso away from you without making it obvious. if she makes a lot of eye contact and seems like she openly cares about what you are saying it is a sign that she is interested. hope this helps :)
  5. I got the book " The Definitive book of Body Langauge " by Allan an Barbara Pease from my local library . It covers just about anything you want to know about Body Langauge.
  6. You give me butterflies! Once you make eye contact with a woman, watch her for a few seconds after she looks away. If she does something that implies that she has become nervous due to you making eye contact, this means that she is interested in or attracted to you. For example, she will: play with her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry or fiddle with something in her hands. "read" her palms She will expose her wrists and palms of her hands only to people she is interested in. This is a subconscious display of being submissive to you, in which her body is saying "If you want me, you can have me". Locked on target Her shoulder orientation is one of the most obvious signs of attraction, so her upper body will most likely be facing you if she is interested. In essence, she points her shoulders at what she wants. The lean Leaning foward is also an easy sign to pick up. If her shoulders point at you and she is leaning towards you, then you can put your mind at ease, it's yours for the taking. You coming in or what? When her legs or feet are widened this means she is very comfortable with her surroundings and with you. Be careful when observing this, if there are other men in the area then it may not be you that is making her comfortable! Eyes are not just decoration Her pupils will dialate (get bigger) while looking at a person that she likes, and in turn will get smaller while looking at a person she does not. Keep in mind that lighting can greatly affect this. For instance, if you are outside when the sun is present her pupils may appear to be very small no matter how much she likes you, and vice versa. The best method to use for testing this is when you can view the change in her pupils when looking at you and then at someone else. Say "cheese" This is a no-brainer. If she smiles at you when you make eye contact, get over there and talk to her. When did I become funny? One of the best signs you can hope for is when she will laugh at just about every slick thing you try to say. You may begin to think that you might actually be pretty funny... but your wrong, she just likes you a lot and that's even better! As good as gold If she touches you multiple times while she is talking, like tapping you on the forearm when trying to make a point, then remember to tell her what you like for breakfast so she knows what to cook in the morning. You must do your duty She will make eye contact with you and hold it for a longer than usual period of time, almost uncomfortably long. Before looking away, remember to smile at her. This will let her know that you are interested and are a nice guy. Following this, you may also notice her glance at you occasionally. After the second or third look it should become obvious to you that she wants you to talk to her, so it is your duty as a player to give her what she wants :) The flip If you notice a woman flip her hair and immediately afterward glace your way, she is showing her interest in you and trying to get your attention focused on her by catching your eye. It's about time to "roll" on out Whenever a woman that you are gaming rolls her eyes it means that she is embarrassed by your presence and is attempting to display to everyone else that she is not interested in you. If this happens to you turn around and walk away, you have little (if any) chance of getting with her. X does not mark the spot Crossing her arms is a tell-tale sign that she is either agitated, nervous, uncomfortable or just does not like you. It's time to change your strategy, and quick. The great wall of vagina Crossing her legs is just as bad as crossing her arms, but can be worse because once her legs are crossed she will most likely cross her arms also. However, if her legs are crossed and pointing towards you (knee points toward you), this means that she is nervous but has interest in you. On the other hand, if her knee points away... you're in trouble. Just... get away The "lean back" is the most dreaded sign in all female body language. If she is leaning away from you and it is very noticeable, my advice is to forget her and move on to your next prospect. Only a very experienced (and lucky) player can warm up to a woman after noticing this type of behavior, but if you think you've got the skills then give it a try, you've got nothing to lose. Body Language Tricks You copycat! Here is a fun trick to use when you want to find out if a woman is checking you out: Look at your watch, count to 3, then look at her. If she looks at her watch also, then she was checking you out. It is a natural human reaction to mimic the actions of someone that you are interested in. By looking at your watch, you will spark her curiosity and she will be wondering what you are waiting for, and with no other source to gather information from she will look at her own watch to try to at least determi
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