Fix body language
ladies need advice about body language confusion ?
Hello I have recently met a very nice lady she is about mid 40s just a few years older then me. She has made it very clear that she has been burnt badly in past relationships. Over the last 3 weeks the I have gotten to know her I have been very flirty now I know she knows for certain I am attracted to her as she is very intelligent. her body language seams to say I would like to get to know you better (slowly) but in emails she seams to try and refrain. I asked her out to a movie and she said yes this has yet to happen as she says no time for dating but still says she would like to go out and do somthing. As for the body language she often gives me this cute little hidden wave and grins when she sees me even several times in a day witch seams to be very different then the way she greats others. Often when we sit and talk she will angle towards or simply face me. We are taking dance classes together so some things are hard to say for certain like one time while dancing after only knowing her for a couple of days it felt as if she was trying to pull me closer. I have only gotten a couple of negative signals from her once I reached for the back of her hand and she recoiled. The other was at one of the dances as I sat down with her she kinda scooted her chair away a bit. but even after all that she still sends the same general positive signs. One day I was in a class that she wasnt but from time to time she could be seen sitting in the other room I made sure to put myself in a position where I could be seen but not see her at first (this was a test) I turned quickly to see if she was looking in and sure enough she was she grinned and waved like a kid. yes people watch the classes as they sit also but at this time there was no activity and it was just earlier that day I reached for her hand and got the recoil. So to the more mature ladies out there would you say this person is attracted, and perhaps just very unsure about how to proceed or am I nutz. Also any advice about how to proceed I get the feeling that about all I can do is give her time and keep showing her the same kindness and attention . I dont think there is anything I could say or do at this point to indicate that I might be different then the others. Any ideas or advice thanks so much!!!
Public Comments
- As a 35 year young female new to the dating scene having my share of broken egos as well....I'm definitely qualified to advise you on this matter. Just become her friend. If you are looking to "date", move on. Women who are recently coming out of bad relationships are not looking for another man to enter their lives and date until they get the sex they want and move on...adds to the broken ego. Instead befriending someone and taking the time necessary to build a rapport and trust with a man speaks volumes for the man willing to do so. You wont appear to be a p&*%y hound, you will be looked at as a gentlemen who is eager to know her, learn about her character and personality traits. It speaks Volumes, trust me.
