Fix body language
Body language and phone conversation?
I have this serious problem of being shy. When I like a guy, I get all the more awkward and closed in, rather than being inviting, approachable, and smiling etc. As a result, most guys I dated assumed there was no chemistry from the beginning. How do I overcome this contradictory body signs to what I actually feel? I also want to ask you the same question about phone conversation. How can I sound more inviting and approachable? My problem apparently not only resides in body language but also in the way I talk. What kind of things should I say and how should I say them? Thank you, I hope for lots of constructive suggestions!
Public Comments
- well first of all u need to find a guy that will go at ure pace and u should have enough things in common to make u feel comfortable found him. if the guy is too confident then just stay away, if the guy is pretty confident then he may show some signs such as the constant eye contact whenever ure not looking. guys also love to tease but if there constantly joking about u with a smile, it means he is deffo thinking about u. i used to be so un-confident until i met my bf and we've been going out for 5 months now and not a single row or anything. he asked me and after a bit of going out i became interested as to why he liked me and he thought it was cute that i was pretty shy at times but he kept comforting me when he knew that i felt shy. you need to find a guy alike mine cus mine has reli boosted my confidence. just another quick tip, if u haven't already cus i dunno ure age but if u are able to, get a part time job if ure old enough cus tht also boosted my confidence :)
- Right, what your basically asking is, How should i act, How should i talk, And what should i say. For god sake just be yourself. If you just take the words of strangers about everything you should do, you will never become an individual, whatever is suggested on here will probably be what your thinking anyway, your just not sure how to go about it. Personally though, i prefer a girl who seems a little subdued, it makes "the chase" all the more interesting. Not only this but when you get with a guy your going to be more of a prize than you would be normally. (sorry if that seems a bit shallow, but it really isn't :D) Good Luck P.S. surely you would rather have a guy who wants you as you are
