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Confusing Body Language

I have known this girl for years when I used to work with her. Bu I bumped into her a few months ago. We have hung out now and then mostly in groups and on friday night she wanted to go dancing with me and we did and AGAIN with a group. Now I have given MANY signals that I have an interest in her... to the point where I said to her on teh phone the other day (in a nervous voice) "Hey I had a really great time on friday night, I was wondering if you would like to go out to dinner tomorrow night". She said "Im busy all week.... how about Friday night. I said ok and I said "Grat I guess I will se you then", she said "Hey your near where I work you can come visit me for lunch or coffee". FOR MOST people it might seem obvious but her body language when face to face is very neutral. Im 27 and shes 25 so you think it would be easier or if she thought it was a date she could have said smethign then, i dont know im confused as hell. So I called her up last night. We had a quick lunch on Monday. So I asked her because of my interviews and her lectures. If she wanted a coffee. She said should be ok just have to check her timetable. And then she asked if we were still up for meeting on Friday because we met up on monday. Bah I'm so freaking confused

Public Comments

1. I think she defiently likes you otherwise she wouldnt have confirmed dinner on Friday and she would of never mentioned the lunches etc. As for being neutral when you see her, she is just getting to know you better instead of always being with you in a group. I am sure she will start the flirting once she has spent more alone time with you. She is taking it slow... thats the best!