Fix body language

I guy i was involved with stop talking to me suddenly... What type of body language do guys in love display?

He just stopped talking to me suddenly. in a matter of hours. we've been friends for 2 yrs and intimate for 3 months. and suddenly he just cut ties with me. yesterday we're cool and the next he erased me and all my comments of his myspace. changed the password to the email i made for him. he won't return my calls. What happened. some may say he was playing me but his actions tell me different. whenever we are together his body language speaks volumes. his eyes. te way he looked at me. I feel deep in my heart that he really cares and i don't know what is wrong. he knows he can tell me anything. so why now can't he tell me? i didn't even get an " I hate you!" no goodbye or this won't work. nothing. girls that mean nothing to him get at least that. so whats up with him. We were supposed to be friends and thats all but although i didn't openly express it. i cared about him more than that. so i want to know WHAT KIND OF BODY LANGUAGE TO MEN/people IN LOVE PORTRAY? We've been friends for 2 yrs so i don't understand what it is that he can't tell me. He won't answer or return any of my calls and when i finally got in touch with him he acted like he didn't know what the problem was. yet he hasn't returned any of my calls after that? I totally confused by his actions. he won't even tell to leave him alone just nothing. when everything was fine the day before. he practically begged me to come over the night before. we did not have a fight or get in any serious argument. ( we joke around alot) and to add one more thing. i did not pressure him. i was never all in his business. if he mentioned another girl which he did i was like whatever. i never. begged him to see me or come to my house. I never called him my hubby or referred to myself as his wife. I never initiated and lovey dovey actions or behavior. it was always his doing. he called me everyday and if i didn't call him he was like where you been? he would tell me things like i don't trust him enough. he would want me to go to his family outings and when he came to mine he tried so hard to impress them. sometimes it was emabrrassing. Its not that i didn't care about him its just that he said he didn't want a relationship. this is what he wanted. i showed him affection when we were together just not as much as he showed me when we weren't together. And no i wasn't reading his mail. He asked me to make the mail for him. i did his resume. and contacted jobs for him because he didn't have a computer and when they emailed him back i'd call him and give him the info. so stop with all the judgement people. I was a good if not great friend to him

Public Comments

  1. hmm... thats kinda....ugh! well...the only thing i could suggest is confront him face to face. see if there's any dscomfort in the way he acts and if there is then find out why there's discomfort. and if there isnt, then let it be. because a guy that cant give you an answer is just not going to be worth it in the long run
  2. they smile, look at you a lot, treat you differently, and don't erase all your comments. really talk to him, confront him and ask what's up. someone probably told him something and that made him upset. tell him how you feel and he will hopefully open up. you have to talk about this in person if you can
  3. Usually in an open gesture. The arms are not folded across the chest. The chin is not held high, but straight ahead or lowered. If he's shy, then his eyes may be lowered as well, while sneaking a long gaze at you when you aren't looking. It's better to base what's going on in a relationship with other factors besides body language. However, if you can't get him to talk...what's a girl to do??? (Maybe he's pregnant [just kidding])
  4. Honey, men in love don't display body language. They tell you. This guy's finished with you, for whatever reason. Do you really want a guy who would treat you this way? Forget him, move on and ignore the fact that he's cut you off and broken your heart. Besides, if you can pull it off and act as if you don't care, you'll drive him crazy.
  5. "changed the password to the email i made for him" The only way you would know this is if you where reading his email, and why would you do that?
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