Fix body language

If you have a lot of sexual energy,?

How do you become friends with a guy without him already thinking that you want to be more than friends. I am kind of sexual with my body language and the way I look at guys but it does not always mean that I am coming on to them...I know that it would be taken that way though.. How can I become closer with this guy without him automatically thinking that I want to pursue him but not have to act like a stick in the mud? So far I am getting answers that are expected. I am trying to see if there is a way to be a sensual woman but at the same time have guy friends. It seems that guys will automatically grab the chance to assume that if a woman is sexy then it means that she wants them to jump her bones. Are there any guys out there who can take this question to another, more interesting level?

Public Comments

1. wear more clothes :P
2. That is technically impossible.
3. well, if your treating all the guys like that...he might laugh it off if you try the same ol body language on him. Some guys need to feel you think they are special to you.
4. ask him to do something in a public place where nothing sexual can happen, that way he'll know its just friendly
5. You sound like the classic tease. Guys don't like that. You can't radiate sexuality and then tell a guy ...just kidding!!
6. Why not just great him with a simple "Hello" and talk about a neutral thing like music? No sexuality involved there, and in all honesty? It's worked great with me.
7. change your body language and please do not lead him on
8. Stop being a big FLIRT!!! That's the only way they would perceive you as trying to get into their pants...
9. yes I have lot of sexual energy
10. Well he speaks and understands the same language you do, tell him what you are telling us
11. I think the guy may be confused about what your intentions are, but just refer to him as a friend more than anything else lol. Use the word friend a lot, and they get the point. And I know what you mean... I don't dress immodestly or anything, but people always say I am flirting... I don't think I am, and my intentions aren't to be flirting, but I supposedly come across like I am coming onto people. Not in a hoochie way, but in a seductive way. Usually, as the guy gets to know you, he will realize you are like this with all guys, and will know it isn't that he is a certain special someone.
12. You're on your own with this one I know not of body language.