Fix body language
He acts so weird... Do shy guys get THAT nervous?
My crush that I think likes me because even my sister and brother feels that he does too has been acting rather.. unseen lately. He's normally very outgoing and friendly with everyone, but with me it's a different story. I'm always the one to approach him, never the other way around, and when we talk he makes effort to carry on convo but of course its small talk and awkward silences atimes. I see body language of attraction, leaning towards me, a smile etc. He even remembered a compliment i gave him the week before, and repeated it the week after, well tried lol. But I feel like he just completely avoids talking to me although he has an opportunity to talk to me. He'll see me from afar but when passing me doesn't even take a gander. Atimes it just feels like he hates me although I've given him no reason to and it probably isn't the case, but just feels like it cuz of the way he acts. It frustrates me cuz I know how outgoing and sociable he can be, is he intimidated??
Public Comments
- not all shy people are the same. it really depends on the person.
- Haha that happened with my boyfriend and I! So what I did was talked to him on msn a lot more, so I could figure things out without him being so shy. Then when we decided to date eachtoher, as soon as I saw him I grabbed him and started making out with him!! Then he was much more comfortable because I boldly broke the ice like that I guess...plus maybe it secured him, I donno. I'm sure it wouldn't work on everyone though, good luck!!
