Fix body language
Interpret body language please ?!??
theres a lady that never had a father when she was little and her mother and step father emotionally abused her and was told she was ugly (when she is the most stunning women I have EVER seen) and she has low self confidence even though shes very talented and beautiful. her mom and step dad told her she would never make it big in life, and never said i love you to her. they told her she wasnt beautiful enough to be famous. whenever someone talks to her about her childhood or the father that died when she was 15 months old she starts blinking a little more, and she like moves her jaw sort of side to side slowely and licks her lips a little and sort of moves her tonge a little back and forth and her eyes just look really sad. its like she doesnt want to think of her past and remember it or be sad. what does this body language mean? what do you think she is thinking when she does that body language? p.s. this lady is 65.
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- I have a feeling that she wants to talk about it but perhaps does not trust the person or is afraid of their response, so she holds her thoughts. You describe the response of someone who has a lot to say about a powerful issue of their lives, for which they can talk for a long time, since it has moulded them in several ways. She may be embarrassed or doesn't feel she knows the person well enough, perhaps she doesn't trust their intentions or doesn't want to share something so hefty and not be received as she might expect. Nevertheless, she is hesitating because she wants to open her heart. Perhaps she's afraid that doing so will get her crying and she fears that. Given time and care, she might yet do, nonetheless, she should be made to feel that she is loved just as she is and then she will express herself voluntarily.
