Fix body language

What is his body language saying or something?

You talk with a guy with confidence, he always pauses as he stares into your eyes before he answers? He doesn't do this with other girls, he only does it to me. We're aquaintances that know each other a little. I think he's hot and stuff. I dress modestly. So what does it mean when you ask a guy about something general he just stares into your eyes and answers after 3 seconds? Additional Details 2 minutes ago Like I would ask him about how to fix the computer or tv. He'd tell me without offering to go into my room lol. Or if I ask him if he's into marketing degree. He'd stare into my eyes for a bit before answering.

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1. Eye contact is a sign of someone listening and concretrating just on you, so that's a good thing. The pauses are common signs that the person is thinking about what you are saying before responding. They are both common interviewing tactics, so it's up in the air whether this guy is for really or just running game on you, but if he is coming back with insightful answers, chance are he is being sincere. If you think he's hot, I'd try to feel outhow he feels about you and make a move! Good Luck!
2. He could just be slow, there have been studies done on this subject, let this be a clue to any gentlemen reading this. Women are much more attracted to people with eye contact versus people with out. At one time a woman had an interaction with a plumber, who stared deeply into her eyes after everything she said. She found herself deeply attracted to this man and could not find out why. She got to know this man more and eventually found out he was actually very slow; i.e. lower IQ level. Kind of dumb. She reviewed her interactions with this man and finally decided it was his level and duration of eye contact. When she asked him things he would take longer to answer because he actually had to think about the question longer than most people, almost even a blank stare. But any way in your situation he is either very shy and or slow and might be into you or your are imagining this special attention he is giving you, and he's just not that into you. Good luck, figuring out which. My money goes on the later scenario.
3. I would tend to think he is probably weighing out each word before he says it. Guys usually only give that kind of eye contact on people we like. When he takes his time to answer, he is probably just trying to avoid saying something that might offend you in some way. As to the guy who said people who take their time in answering are slow or low IQ, There has never been any scientific evidence what so ever to show that pause time between question and answer has anything to do with intelligence. The smartest people I know all take their time in answering anything. ever hear of Haste makes waste?
4. Stop being modest, If you think he might like you- he does. Trust me on this, you can tell. Go for it.
5. How do you know he doesn't do that with others? And stuff...
6. I think he's trying to put the best sentence together for you to impress you. Does he use big words that could easily be replaced by easy/lame ones? ie. instead of saying "it's 3 o'clock" he might say "it's currently approximately three pm in the afternoon"
7. He probably finds you a very attractive woman and wants to choose his response carefully so as not to offend you.