Fix body language

are you good at reading body language?

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1. yep, sure am x
2. yh i can tell a lot abot a person from their body language. for example i can tell when someone is trying to hide something or lying.
3. Yes, though it is something you can learn.
4. Love that. Judi James is my idol, and she is an expert. It's amazing what you can learn about a person by watching their body language. So much of it has to do with what people do with their hands and their eyes.
5. Used to be very good at it. Have not used it much lately, so might be a tad rusty.
6. I deal with a lot of people each day and am pretty good at it.
7. there's no need for that kind of language. i'll be gone in a minute. you can stop being sick now.
8. Yes, please, stand still and take a breath you are talking way too fast for me. :)
9. Moderately, but if she's cute, I prefer to read her in braille.
10. Yes, I see what is obvious and also looking in people eyes says a lot
11. i like to think so and my favourite is to look them in the eye for starters and then see if they fold their arms or put their hands in their pockets or fidget or indeed wipe their face with their hand --- there is all sorts of "languages" associated with the body . good luck .
12. Yep.!!
13. Yes, very much so.
14. The key to reading body language is to keep an open mind.. Never assume anything as gospel...only use it as a reference! Its fair to say that body language makes up a large part of our communications. and generally its noticable if someone is happy sad..etc..however a far more accurate way of gauging a communication is through tonality! Tonality of language is massivly over looked...have you ever said " it wasnt what he said...just the way that he said it"??... listen to the tones, the raises and the lowerings of the tones in the language...if a sentence raises up..it could be a question statement..if it is flat and doesnt raise or lower its often a value statement to the speaker...and if the tone drops off at the end of the sentence then it could be an "order" or direction statement... once you get a sense of the mood through tonality, begin to notice and ask, "does the tones match the posture"?? language is key too..i have worked with those who laugh when describing heavy traumas...that isnt congruent..and is mis matched to the severety of the content!..it should have a degree of matching to the tone and body posture to get a truer picture of the communication! if someone is high toned but the body is slumped and low...then that could be seen as incongruent and mis-matched, however if the tones are high and the body is high and outward, then the communication is congruent or truer! Sitting is a big one...are they happy or sad? who knows...some people sit in introverted positions merely as they are comfortable so exercise caution here! the eyes...ahh yes...you cant tell if someone is lying here, but you can tell if they are matching the language and the posture.....low eyes low body and low tone...obviouslty could mean low emotional state...where central, open eyes with higher tones and up posturing may indicate higher emotional state! ASK! "does the tones, the posture, the language said and the eyes all fit together" if not then dont assume...just be curious! good luck!
15. yep, braille... ;o)
16. I would say so yes now you want me to make mad passionate love to you ....... wrong again ah well we live in hope ha ha.
17. with some pple yeah i can read u like a book
18. U can know a lot from body language of a person like his confidence, his sincerity and his relability and above all his inner strength..
19. i'm almost as good as john
20. Nope !! Not at All !!! I could be looking at a girl with "Come n Get me Crusha" on her shirt and I'd still need a verbal Invitation?!?!?!?!