Fix body language

what is his body language? sexual? or loss of interest?

Ok me and my boyfriend don't see each other often because we are trying to stay abstinent, well mostly i am bc if i give in hes ready lol.... ok so i seen him after a while and i was wearing something sexy on top, but he kept talking about my top every couple minutes, and yes he tried touching me but i was playing games like dont touch me... but he had work in the morning and was tired from over hours but seemed quite in a hurry to get home? before i was leaving we kissed and he started touching more but he stopped himself and said "time to go"... im like ???? is it me? uninterest or what is it? im a little confused this is my bf of 4 yrs by the way we decided to stay abstinent for 1 yr now

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1. he is trying to show interest but you dont seem interested enough...or he is scared of being rejected. he could just be trying to leave before anything got too hard to get out of later.
2. uhhh..... u did tell him to stop touching you, im guessing he took the hint and went home
3. It sounds like he is trying not to go to far with you. Your trying to stay abstinent and he is trying to respect that.
4. It's not always cause he was at loss of interest but by the way you said it you told him hand off buddy a couple times. He probably just wanted to respect your desicion and lay off. Im sure he would have been more than willing to tap that...lol but you acted like you were interested. Also if you don't want him staring at your chest or talking about then dress more modest you can't blame him he didn't dress you.
5. Oh, I think he is interested for sure. If you don't want to have sex, then please stop teasing him, that isn't fair. I really think you 2 should wait, don't rush into something you both aren't ready for.
6. You gave him the impression you weren't interested in things going too far so he respected your wishes. You need to wait awhile before having sex. It complicates relationships and can be emotionally painful. It should also be reserved for someone you truly love and care for, who feels the same for you. Be careful not to wear outfits that turn heads too much, or you will get attention whether you want it or not. Respect yourself. Be honest with yourself and with others. Wait to have sex until you are ready. You do not sound ready. You may end up getting hurt.