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URGENT Body Language Question?

Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.

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1. Not sure why no one is answering this one. I find this interesting. Maybe listen to a high-pitched "hi!" When you are introduced. Watch her eyes, see if she gives you the once over. Blinking a lot shows stress. Eye contact is nice. If she looks away when you are talking to her, simply stop what you are saying (because she is not listening to you). Say, "Excuse me." then immediately get (walk fast) away. Make a point of not looking at her again for a few weeks. If she is interested, she will make things right after that. Crossed arms means she has closed you off, so you want to see an open stance. Church is a difficult place to meet girls. When you go to meet her, take someone that has a reputation for integrity, honesty and no-nonsense. Someone that has went to that church for a long time that will not try to move in on her. Remember, at church, all eyes will be watching you! I always prefered the small group settings if I was attracted to someone from the church. More intimate setting. Good luck.
2. Hi, you don't need to worry about Body language...its already there, the smiling, eye contact. Now its up to you..... go over to her, if she is with her family, make sure you say Hi to her Parents first, and say, "Do you mind if l have a word with ?" or " would it be OK to be introduced to your daughter"............... chose your own words- mine are just a (For instance) Remember, Respect.... means a lot to her Parents, so show it to them, and get off on the right foot. Who knows, maybe Daddy will be inviting you for tea before long. Don't rush her, just chat, "Did you enjoy the service" stuff like that. Asking her out comes later, get to know her first. Hope that helps.?