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URGENT Body Language Question?

Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.

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  1. Bitting her lips, try to fix her hair while talking....
  2. If the pupils of her eyes get bigger, if she batts her eyes at you, tilts her head and smiles at you or plays with her hair while talking to you. Also, I've heard if she shows you the palm of her hand or touches your arm. Good luck!!!
  3. here's something interesting: if she ever itches her wrist. it's "hard-wired" into girls
  4. it dnt matter, i wudnt like to date sum hot hot hot hot chick neway bcz i knw other guys wud b into her nd its jus nt gd
  5. Smiles. If she smiles when she talks to you or laughs at what you say she's into you. If she looks at you then that's good too. If she is looking behind you shes wants to get away, but if she looks down shes nervous. Just go talk to her. If she already looked and smiled shes interested. You don't need to prepare everything you're gonna say. Just try and shes probably gonna be into you because you seem cute all nervous and concerned.
  6. if she looks at you and you look at her and she holds your gaze for a while..You know she likes you or even if she looks at you and then looks away and when she thinks you're not looking, she looks at you again but you catch her looking.. Also, she bites her lips or licks her lips or even plays with her hair or fixes her hair or top.that's all i can think of. good luck hun! :)
  7. She will pay attention to what you are saying and smile. Eye contact is a plus.
  8. Well she will probaly be looking down alot if she is shy but if she is not a shy person then she will be looking you in the eye if shes interested
  9. 3hen yur tlkn to her look for a smile and if shes looking in yur eyes sometimes. most girls do dat like me
  10. Don't worry about the body language. You're in.
  11. Hey! How much does a polar bear weight? * Huh? ... Enough to break the ice! (Extends a hand for shaking) Hello, my name is _______, nice to meet you. What's your name?
  12. Laughing at any of your jokes, whether theyre good or not. Biting her lip, smiling a lot. Basically, if she looks really happy and excited to talk to you. Bad body language would be acting bored or tired, sighing, yawning, or if shes looking at other things while you talk to her. If shes into you, you will know right away. She will hang off your every word.
  13. mmm. a quick look down is always a shy attraction. i do it all the time. usually, a shy girl needs someone to confront her. don't do something too usual like ''hey what's your name?'' or ''hey where are you from?'' a compliment, unusual works well. say, ''you have such pretty hands.'' or, ''your eyes look like _____________ (whatever they look like.) works like a charm.
  14. A smile is good, but a genuine smile of excitement or a nervous smile, not a courtesy smile. Let me elaborate... If she's outgoing, she will be excited to talk to you b/c there's attraction. If she's shy, then she'll smile, but she'll be nervous and it might kind of seem awkward. If she's disinterested, she'll smile, but only to be nice and not come off as a jerk. A courtesy smile is best indicated by her refusing to make eye contact w/ you, possibly even looking over your shoulder for somewhere else to go. And along those same lines dismissing herself from the conversation rather early on. Another pretty basic thing is eye contact. If she's making eye contact then she's interested in the conversation. Eye contact isn't necessarily a guarantee that she's into you, but it means that she's definately not annoyed or disinterested in the conversation. Again, if she's shy, she might constantly be making eye contact and then quickly disengaging. Again, awkward, but again a sign that she likes you and is just not comfortable in such a social situation. Tell a joke, this will make it pretty easy. If it's not a very funny joke, but she's forcing herself to laugh it up, then she likes you. Also, if she touches you while laughing, particularly around the bicep area, this is a good sign. She might even pat or stroke your arm upon greeting you and say something like "It's good to see you," this is also a good sign. If she's checking out another guy at any point or calls over a friend, that's a bad sign. Unless you've been talking for a while and she wants the friend to meet you. This means that they will confer back later to assess you and see if you're a "good catch" You can encourage her to give off some of these tell tale signs by dishing out your own good vibes. When you pull her aside to chat, just casually put your hand on her back and guide her away from the group or whatever (try not to hit the bra straip, though). And don't grab her around the waist b/c that's too intimate for an "I'm asking you out" scenario. It sounds like you might be kinda nervous here, but remember to smile and just try to physically show that you are genuinely happy and excited to see her. b/c if you're too matter of fact, then she likely won't take reciprocate showing interest back.
  15. Telling if a person is "interested" is a little different than just plain feeling comfortable.. And it's not an exact science. So, while you can look for these things, you have to keep in mind that while she may exhibit some of these behaviors, it won't necessarily mean what they're supposed to mean. So, do keep that in mind. As silly as it may sound, how she places her arms is important (and this goes for anyone)- crossed arms on a person (folded), are generally an unconscious movement that means "I'm protecting myself". It's kinda like the person is closing themselves off because they're not completely comfortable. Instead, if she opens her body to you, especially when speaking, (as in you face each other straight on and her arms are down, comfortable at her sides, or even if her hands are clasped), that probably will signify that she's comfortable with you. A hand on the hip and the weight placed on the opposite leg while standing can go both ways, sometimes thought of as a sign of confidence towards the opposite sex, sometimes seen as aggressive. Another thing to look for, if you guys are standing talking to each other, is her posture... although, this depends on how secure of a person she is. Shoulders held back so that the chest is thrust a little forward as well as a chin slightly tilted up, is generally a sign of confidence. Just like animals will "puff" themselves up, women and men will do this as a way to show interest in the opposite sex. If you guys are sitting down side by side, if she crosses her legs with her top leg towards you - sometimes a sign of attraction. Also, again, if she opens her upper body towards you, it could signal security and maybe attraction. Another thing to look for - if she touches her neck. The neck is a sexual zone and can sometimes mean interest. And of course, keeping eye contact and smiling. :) Most importantly: DON'T ogle her, especially if you're looking for the arms/open body thing. Haha. But I hope this helped. Good luck!
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