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URGENT Body Language Question?
Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
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- start out by just chatting with her. then maybe go out as a group and get to know her better. Time will show if she's into you. If time passes and she seems like she's not ask her.
- When she sits with her back against the wall and her legs apart, you know you have a winner.
- Stop trying to read body language. Just talk to her and see what she says. Don't obsess over things like body language.
- playing with her hair...smiling...maybe avoiding eye contact because of shyness...seems like you're pretty much in there anyways.....a good church girl too.....BINGO !!!
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- well shed be relaxxed or over nervous and fumble a lot. shell maybe get er toungs tied or make a few mistakes that would hint she likes u casue of the nervousnes and also if she looks at you and then looks down while u guys are talking good luck
- Smiling, leaning near you. If she touches you in anyway on the arm or anything even if it seems like nothing that means she likes you. Good for you for taking a risk. I hope it works out!
- Hmm... sorry, pal but if I were you, I'd go oral (in a pure way,ha) and say 'hello' to break the silence barrier. I don't know what kind of church you attend., but if possible you might sit near her at the service and a conversation might come up naturally at the end. Most churches have youth groups or social activities... you can invite her to one of those and talk about them... that's a safe start.
- Whoa, how many times are you going to post this question? You've asked 38 times so far. Guess you didn't like any of the previous answers so here's what to look for the next time, watch her hands and see if the middle finger motions upwards; that would be an indication to leave her alone. In the meantime you should seek a mental health professional such as a psychiatrist, psychologist. (\__/) (='.'=) (")-(") ♥Šωèé†íé♥
- she'll look at you and then turn away and she'll laugh at you, her pupils will look really large andif shes siting her knees will be turned towards you and she'll touch you a lot somewhere non sexual like on an arm
- I dunno, we use words here in Kentucky, I don't speak body language. Get a grip!
- You lucky bastard...LOL!!! I'm actually reading a book on body language and that is the exact chapter I'm on now... LUCKY YOU....LOL Okay seriously, with body language (B.L) you can't just look at one salitary body jester and know what she's thinking. But from what you have writen (eye contact) I'll base by analysis off of that. She is most likely at leat curious (or feels a at lest a small level of attraction) about you. When she looked down it's wasn't because of shyness it was because it was your signal to approach her, she probably looked at you again to resend the signal but you more than likely missed it. Women are 10 times better at reading and giving B.L signals than men. Also was her body facing you, was her feet pointing toward you, did she touch her hair, lick her lips (subtly), was her head tilted to the side or back, did she expose her palms to you, did she raise her eyebrows while simultaneously lower her eye lids..... Like I said B.L has to be more than just one jester I also study psychology so this is my advice to you, don't drive yourself crazy staring at her trying to analysis her and if she is interested in you, just go up to her and say "I noticed you last week and decided you were someone "Might" be someone worth getting to know.... (your name)" Okay listen it may not be your style (it's mine) but this exact wording shows strength and confidence. Don't smile too much, don't slump your shoulders or hestitate walking toward her, be completely confident.... Remember she is only judging you based off your looks so your job when you speak to her is not to mess that up but to amplify that attraction/curiousity. Oh and don't say hi, my name is, just after you use the approach I gave you, stick you hand out and say (with full confidence while looking her in the eye - a small smirk is ok-) your name. Body Language is divided into two parts: 1). the actual movements of the body 2). the tone, volume, projection, smoothness, bass (deepness) and confidence of the voice
