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URGENT Body Language question?
Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking?
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- Drooling.
- you should look for body language in your own country example: chinese people should look in china for chinese body language and so on
- She shouldnt be crossing her arms and neither should you. If she's fidgiting or messing with her hair its a good sign.
- make sure she's not making gagging motions or covering her eyes
- eye contact is good, but so is drooling ;)
- messing with her hair is a def +
- Eye contact. When you're both talking, make noticeable eye contact and see if she does the same. Study her behavior; such as smiling, laughing, etc. If you see this connection, then you will have no problem. Just remember her name!
- If you have a conversation with her and she is interested in you, she will be looking at you when you talk. If she likes you but is nervous look for her playing with her.
- well since she looked down after 2 seconds, im guessing shes shy. then, when you talk to her, she'll most likey try to look away, or avoid your stare. if u really want her to know that u are interested in her. give her a deep stare when talking.
- Body language is a very VERY useful thing to learn. However, there are some limitations. Each person is different, and there are no 100% answers when it comes to body language. However, when you talk with her some things you should look for are: 1. Are they listening intently? Or does it seem like they are half there, half somewhere else. The "thumbs up" sign is obvious here. 2. If they are listening, do they look you in the eye? If they maintain eye contact, its often a sign they are genuinely interested in what you have to say (exception: They may not look directly at you if they are shy) 3. Do they actively participate in the conversation? Do they ask you things about yourself (if the topic is about eachother). Again, if she is interested in what you have to say and are saying...well thats good. 4. If you are sitting down while talking, take note of the position of her body and the way she is sitting. Is she sitting with a general lean towards you? Or is she leaning away with some distance? If she sits relatively close and has a general lean towards you (something as simple as crossing her legs closest to you instead of away) this is a sign she is, again; interested in what you have to say. Thats the point you are at now. The ice breaking, seeing if there is any interest. Keep in mind everyone is different and their conscious mind may still override these natural signals if they have a reason to. All in all just talk to her, break the ice about something. If she immediately picks up the conversation and begins to participate in it, then you are off to a good start. If she ignores you...well its best to end it nicely and keep on your way. I really hope it goes well for you! Remember; Charisma and attitude are 2 lures that will always catch the girl. As long as you use them positively!
- how cute, well ur right that is a good sign. i suggest you TRY not to look at her tho it sounds weird, but it'll be easy to interpret if she likes you or not. a good idea would be to sit at a decent distance where you can see where she's looking and one row behind her in church. why? cuz if she turns to look at you, you'll be able to tell with out being to obvious looking for it. even if she does just an eye glance. if you talk to her, if anything start friendly and you if she seems to not stop smiling and trying not to look in your eyes constantly then it's a good bet that she thinks your cute. GOOD LUCK!
