Fix body language
Coffee date, what are the rules?
I’m meeting this one girl on Saturday around 6pm who I met last weekend through 2 friends (girls) who told me she wanted to meet me but never got a chance too. We hit it off pretty well and based on our physical contact and attraction, I think she likes me, her body language + verbal was all good. Since we really didn’t get to talk much at the club/restaurant with everyone there, I asked her to meet up to get to know each other a little more, she wanted the same based on what I heard from my friends and her reaction to me bringing that up. I offered to pick her up but she seemed unsure of what she wanted, so we decided to just meet up at the café. Afterwards, if things go well and we’re having a great time, would it be okay if I brought up hey we should drop your car off and go somewhere in mine? What kind of things can we do? Should I call her and say hey I’ll just pick you up or avoid that since we already have it set? Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Public Comments
- Go slow!!!!! First, if it's a "coffee date," nothing much is to be expected or required. I suggest paying for her coffee as a gentleman. Second, if things go well, ask her if she would like to take a walk or something non monetary. This is your first date, so don't put too much into it, she's just trying to feel you out. Third, if things do take off, there is always a follow up date. If she is meeting you, don't worry about the car thing. It allows her a degree of freedom. Besides, she may have things to do after your date. http://www.godofdesire.com
