Fix body language
Dating conversation: how do I stop obsessing over bad dates?
My conversations at the last few dates I've been on haven't gone too well. I was at dinner with a girl that I had a massive crush on (who actually has a BF in another city), but she was flirting with me heavily with her body language. But during the date the conversation slowed down and she asked me "Come on, tell me some wild stories, you couldn't have been a good guy all your life". She had already told me about her past relationships and sex life (which I know is a no-no on dates, but this wasn't technically one), so I told her about a wild sexual encounter I had on spring break a year earlier. Later, told her a story about how a girl looked cute in a bar, but wasn't cute when I actually met her for a date later on - I was trying to be funny, but she suddenly thought I was being shallow. Although I don't care about this girl any more (because she was all confusing signals), I can't stop obsessing over how I screwed up and if there could have been a chance with her. How do I move on?
Public Comments
- move on by setting your goals for another girl to keep your mind off her if you dont like her now nothing should be wrong
