Fix body language

A man kissed me today...?

I really only want friendship with him, I am not particularly attracted to him. I took him to see a ruin in the city where I live (most people in this city don't even know it exists). While we were there, he grabs my arm, turns me around and makes a move to kiss me. I had not flirted with him, I had not shown any sort of sexual interest in him. As I am not attracted to him, I am quite sure that my body language and unconscious singles would have put that across. This was completely uninvited and unexpected. I told him, "no, I don't think I want to..." And he said, "No, it's okay," then proceeded to kiss me. How can I describe this... a person needs roughage in their diet in order to keep their intenstines healthy, otherwise your breath starts to smell. You can brush your teeth, but the problem is that you are not healthy inside... I could taste his colon... when he kissed me; it was really gross. The only kiss I have had that was worse was from a smoker. Anyway... First, I am totally freaked out by the fact that I said no, and he forced himself on me. Second, I am not attracted to him Third, it was really gross. This cannot go any further, I have to get rid of this guy. How do I let him down gently, with out hurting his feelings? So, if you want to kiss Sly, have enough roughage in your diet and don't smoke!

Public Comments

1. Smack the pervie in the gob!
2. well the only thing u can do is to tell him that you wish to only be friends unfortunatly i want this to happen to me minus that whole breath thing lol but ye
3. A old lunch women kissed me and I am not saying anything. She had this BIG mole on her nase and it had hair growing out of it. It was black with a spot of red in the middle. She had makeup all around her face and she still look ugly. She used every color in the rainbow on her face and that is no lie. Wow!
4. Wow. That sounds so nasty. I know what you mean about someone forcing themselves on you; it's not a good situation. About letting him down... I would maybe avoid him a little bit... just for a few days, to make him see that what he did wasn't okay. Then when you talk to him again, tell him that him kissing you after you said no wasn't okay with you and you didn't like it. Say that when/if you hang out again, it would HAVE to be on a friends-only basis. And that's that. ....you might wanna mention the roughage thing too... (joking........ sort of) Good luck, hon!
5. Don't worry about being gentle ... be clear instead. He's obviously not picking up on your body language (or choosing not to). Tell him that you are not interested in him in that way, and you didn't appreciate him kissing you after you'd said no. If he can't respect that, then you'll have to end the friendship etc. Good luck (you man magnet! LOL)
6. Just be honest with him and tell him that you are not interested in a relationship with him. And since he forced himself on you, you may want to completely separate yourself from him. Don't call him to hang out or anything. I am so sorry that happened to you.
7. ..what is your question? lol..
8. Tell him off if he tries again... and EWWW!!
9. Don't go anywhere else with this man unless there are other people in a group. Make it clear that there is a boundary between you two that does not include touching in any way. Find a boyfriend who respects you and follows you dietary and oral hygiene requirements.