I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 10 months now, but didn't get to spend much time together until about 4 months ago.. something about her is that she isn't very feminine in the sense that her body language isn't to sexual or provoking, also her personality is kinda hard but.. I started getting hints that we might have sex about 3 months ago so I started stepping up my visits to the gym and taking natural supplements, and reading on female antomy. Mainly because my sex life prior to her was basically 'hit and run' type situations and i didn't care about the girls I slept with, but her I wanted it to be special. Well this is my question.. The first time we had sex, to me it was more of a performance, which I quite enjoyed, everything went well and I got her to orgasm multiiple times and according to her did great orally, then she slept for about 3 hours afterwards. So now... her body language is completely different , almost as if she's inticing me to do it again so... Now she's almost subserviant to me... my question is ... Should I worry about this? She's still the same independant girl she always was.. but it just seems wierd for her to be so different. and just to get it out of the way, She wasn't a virgin Steph - the thought of her lying also crossed my mind, I don't think my sex life sucked before her but I never gave it this much effort