Fix body language

Have you ever thought someone fancied you and?

It turned out that you where wrong? What did you get wrong? Was it reading the body language/signals? I’ve read a lot about flirting body language/signals on the internet, like if someone likes you they’ll try to be near you and stare at you a lot, as soon as you look they’ll quickly look away etc… But then a lot of people say if they like someone they’ll try not to look at them or even avoid them? I know different people have different body language etc… that’s why I just wanted to know did you go by the book and it turned out to be wrong? What did you get wrong and what did you do?

Public Comments

1. not yet and i hope it doesnt i aint reli the type ppl like neway coz i look like a dog lol at least i can admit it!!! lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2. i asked this guy if he liked me and he said only as a friend why? i (making it up on the spot) said oh, i'm taking a survey. i was sooooo embarassed. thank god i thought of that. i'm not sure he believed me though. lol.
3. lt's pretty tough! As you've stated every exhibits different signs... (plural - up to 6 signals to be sure! Also consider if those signals are out of character!- But if you don't actually know them use your instinct to suss them out - mind you could be wrong but then what else can you go on?) l do think that those websites (yes i read them too!) are nothing more than a guide line, don't get me wrong body language is very important, but i think a person's instinct is just as powerful (let's just hope ones' not confusing this with wishful thinking - i think that's when things turn sour!) That depends what you mean by 'turned out to be wrong' what means did you take to find out? Was it direct? Through asking a friend of the potential crush? Your own conclusion? Naturally it sucks when your eye candy doesn't reciprocate the same feelings and thoughts - but i tend to see it like this... it's 10 times sweeter when 1 guy does! l had many times when guys have misread - the avoidance thing and the looking away thing (unintentional!)- i didn't want to send the wrong message! l just wasn't interested (refer to the end of para. 2) On the contrary however (if i do like a guy however i do the classic stare and look away tactic ALOT!) confusing eh? part of the fun! lol! lt depends on the way the guy 'finds' out if they're reallly arrogant - then i just feel embarrassed for them - if they're really sweet and sincere i just let them down GENTLY and be positve - so even though you are rejecting him - he doesn't feel like a twat! (Their egos.... they'll appreciate that!) Lastly it could be harmless flirting - btw only do this when the other person is a) some one you'll never see again b) not a partner of someone your close to! Don't want to hurt them! C) Someone who'll understand that it's casual flirting - they're usually flirtacios themselves! lt's just practice until you catch a fish you truly want to lure! Have fun!
4. I had a girlfriend years ago and her friend another girl was always there. I split up with my girlfriend for a week and then we got back together but at that time I saw our other friend crying. I found out it was because she wanted to go out with me and missed out. I just left it how it was sorry to say now!
5. I got it wrong once or twice... ..now I make sure there are no mistakes.. They have to come to me and speak...use words..tell me what they want. No surprise in telling you I have been on my own for the past 15 years..lolol
6. im very bad at reading signals,there was one guy i askd how he felt bout me,he said just as afriend,was pretty embarassd but you get over it sooner or later,the only thing to remeber is that when guys flirt they make it so obvious