Fix body language

Do You Rely On Body Language, Or What A Person Says?

There is this 21 yr. old guy who works at a store across the street from me. I have talked with this guy for over a year now & I always get the impression that he is attracted to me. (I am 30.) I have flirted with him and told him he was cute. He was always very talkative and starring at me. His cousin started working there maybe 4 mos ago & he is drop dead gorgeous! Model material. Him & I have grown to be very good friends. (The cousin) He lets me use his car & lets me borrow money. He said I could have whatever I wanted. While we're joking & talking his cousin seems to get irritated and upset. I've questioned him about it & he really didnt deny being jealous. Other employees said they noticed it too. The cousin recently got engaged & the jealous one couldnt wait to tell me! I was standing in line & he brought over a picture of the 2 of them & told me about the wedding! He did it 2 days in a row! I asked him if he liked me & he said no but he acts like it. What do you think?

Public Comments

1. go to a new store
2. He's into you.
3. body language I'm thinking he likes you, wants you, but is waiting for you to take charge since you are 30 and he is much younger
4. What a person says
5. He's really sore that you found his cousin attractive, but he's had a long time to work up his courage to ask you (an older woman) out. Like they say, you snooze, you lose. So he's feeling like the loser. That's why he couldn't wait to tell you his cousin is getting married. He's trying to get even with you for liking his cousin and (in his mind) not giving him the chance to work up his courage to ask you out (or not quickly picking him over his cousin). Here's a link on body language: http://www.secret-solutions.com/BodyLanguagebyAllanPease.pdf