Fix body language
can someone give me some flirting advice?????????
im not good at flirting, i met this new guy i really like, he likes soccer and so do i and we already talked about that! hes latino, hot, and only speaks spanish(i do too)can u give advice on how to flirt with him using body language and some speaking? also what are somethings we can talk about? ive talked to him like 4-5 times but not for long.... help me!
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- COME ON TO HIM
- ask him about himself. be yourself. act like u know u r the cutest thing
- just be a friend and it comes natural after awhile flirting
- Be touchy feely with him. Don't like jump on him or anything like that but like tap his arm, shrug and always smile. Talk about subjects that are appropriate for flirting...: 1.) Hobbies. 2.) Relationships. 3.) School activities. 4.) Concerts... (well, most topics are good for flirting.). Just make sure you listen.
- When you talk to him, don't break eye contact, smile a lot, touch him. Ask him questions about himself. Most people like to talk about themselves. When he is talking, act like whatever he is saying is the most interesting thing you have ever heard.
- Topics of discussion are less important than the passion you use to describe them. So talk about something you really want to talk about. But BEFORE you get into long conversations, you need to take care of step one--you need to make him care what you have to say. This part is weird. Basically, it's a push and pull game. You act like you don't care about talking to him, and that you could walk back over to your girlfriends at any time, yet you keep finding reasons to stay another second. You want to be smiling and look like you are someone who is nice to hang around with. When he seems interested, touch him, but not too sensually or for too long at once. Basically, you keep shifting between an attitude of "I don't need you" and "you are very interesting" (but don't actually say either of those things--attitude), usually at the opposite times he is doing the same to you. When he starts chasing after you (touching you back, asking about you, etc.), back off a couple times. Once you have played the opening games, there will be some attraction on both sides. Now you can talk about something you really enjoy, and start being real with each other. It stinks that those games are important, but they are--if you don't play them for ten or twenty minutes, you are going to be 'just friends'.
