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Are there any signs of gay body language that a guy can pick up ?

I wanna know if there are any other body language signs that a gay guy might unknowingly display. Im aware of the fact that when a gay guy senses that you might like him he will wiggle his middle finger against your hand palm when you greet to let you know that he wants more or that he will give you a naughty grin, wink and rub his crotch. If a guy is gay, will he wear an earing or a stud in his right or left ear ? Are there any more definate body language signs like the palm rubbing with wich a gay guy could let you know that he likes you. Please people I need some answers.

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  1. He puts his tounge in his own ear.
  2. just be urself
  3. Wow, you're ignorant. You should get out more.
  4. I have never heard of this "finger in palm" thing... I don't think the signs are any more different from the attraction signs between men and women that say "Hey I am trying to get to know you because I am interested in you."
  5. I don't know of anyone who does the palm thing - that's kind of eww. How do you develp Gaydar? It's in the eyes - it's a bit hard to explain - there's a bit of a distant look about it, a bit of the way your eyes meet, a bit of how long they meet, a bit of how they move.
  6. In all my years (and I'm way old) I've only had that handshake once. I think years ago, you could make some assumptions about ear rings. The old saying was "Left is right and right is wrong," said by straight people, meant that a ring in the right year indicated "gay." Today, everybody wears everything. I just think you need to talk to somebody, and from what he says, the eye contact he makes when he says it, if he wants you to know, you'll know.
  7. the finger & palm thing has not ben done since the late eighties.honey you need to get out & have some fun if you meet a guy who likes you - you'll know - by 'the look ' ,& his gestures , etc.
  8. no real signs otherthan the way he gazes inot another guy's eyes
  9. hmm, body language? Well, I can't speak for ALL gay men, because I'm sure not all gay men do this, but many of them walk with a more effiminate stride, shorter steps and walk more upright and confident with the chest out a bit (almost as if they are trying to show off a pair of breasts) but I think this goes for the more effiminate gay men.
  10. just scrutinize his gaze in2 your eyes... good luck! :)
  11. unusually long eye contact..if he touches his crotch at all....
  12. there are signs, but I don't rightly know if I could communicate them, it's like if a girl digs ya, but Gayer
  13. Being less than striaght is not as taboo so signs are not needed anymore.
  14. no
  15. If he frenches you, he's definitely gay.
  16. The "gay code" stuff has kinda died out big time. Piercings don't mean anything anymore and no one uses hankies or anything. If someone's into you, pay attention to eye contact. That's my big thing: past centuries have referred to it as "the gaze". Society has rules about how long two men are supposed to maintain eye contact. A confident gay man will maintain contact a little bit longer. A less confident gay man will keep looking over at you, even if averting eye contact. Try it in a club or something before you use it as a test; takes some getting used to.
  17. don't think so
  18. Eye contact is the best sign! Same with a girl and guy you can tell when the other is interested by the way they look into your eyes and smile. Other than that there certain camp things like waving your hand about at your wrist which i have noticed a lot of gay guys do or some put their hands on the hips in a certain way, But there isn't like a gay body language class you have to go to it tends to be personal mannerisms.
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