I'm a 28 year old lesbian with no gaydar at all! I have this female I work with that I am attracted to but I'm not sure if she is gay. She works in another department so I don't see her too often. She is a few years older than me I think. She is also unmarried and has no kids. Also I think she might be flirting with me but I'm dense and unsure! One day we both grabbed for the same thing and her hand ended up on mine and she didn't take it away. I thought that strange. Plus she tends to get in my personal space. Any options? Would you take this as flirting? Thanks.....