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Guys - What body language / flirting tactics do you use to attract the ladies?

Guys.. How do you all attract/show interest in the ladies? What sort of body language do you use to attract them? (Do you smile at them or whatever?) How do you filrt with the ladies, are you lot usually the first to say "Hi" to them? Or do you wait for them to say hello first. Please help me out on this one please i have been told in the past my body language is all wrong and i am useless at flirting. That in my opinion is what is holding me back. Guys please tell me your secrets here?? Please tell me what to do?? Really need sensible honest answers, because i am really lost here :(

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  1. I smile at them and look into their eyes, and when they look at me I smile and look away. This isnt a "tactic" though, it just seems to happen. If I like them I notice im doing it.
  2. Nice smile, eye contact, it doesnt matter who starts the conversation. But above all, listen to what they are saying and show interest.
  3. make like a spider in its web. keep in the shadows, but make sure you can be seen. use an expensive cologne. Dont be noisy. Its called-your own personal allure---and never fails. Girls sometimes are VERY attracted to the mysterious man.
  4. this will help, it's not about tactics, if you aren't hitting on a woman who is interested in you. you have to first establish who might be interested first. here is a fool proof method I have used for years. next time you are in a crowd, a party or a bar, anywhere there is alot of women, stretch a bit and let out a yawn. you see yawns are contagious so afterwards look around, if you see a woman yawning she was watching you a moment ago and is probably interested. good luck!
  5. Just lick your eyebrows from time to time ... never fails to impress.
  6. all i do is i make sure i smile alot, girl dont want to be with a guy who is a downer all the time. make sure you talk alot too, but not about yourself or you will seem arrogant. As far as flirting there are many different thing you can do, just dont use a pick up line they never work and never will. flirting is more of just talking and makeing her laugh, tell a joke or two and just converse with her, she will def get the hint, and tell her in the middle of a conversation, preferably you should interupt her when she is talking and tell her she looks really pretty today or whatever, and then after you do it say sorry to interupt you but i just felt i needed to say it and laugh a little bit. If you do all of this your bacy language will follow and so will the girls
  7. I just talk openly and listen intently to anything the lady (emphasis "lady") has to say. No bullsh*t, lots of smiles, open doors. No problem.
  8. Smile and eye contact....when talking maintain good eye contact and say things flattering but not corny....and have a sense of humour, make them laugh.....certainly works for me.
  9. Firstly don't be needy! Never be needy and third don't be needy! Ok now. Lets imagine a pub (bar) be smartly dressed but casual, smell nice. You need a mate and then enter and stand in the centre of the room for a moment surveying the most likely woman or women. Women will give little glances or if they're drunk or drugged long stares these are the easy ones. The hard ones are the little glances. With these, don't pounce like a needy nerd, just wander by closely and say "Hi I'm So n so (yer name) you'll know within seconds if its going to get beyond that! Never offer to buy a drink be cheeky, never offer to get them a chair! In fact just introduce yerself being cheeky without being arrogant and never ever, ever being needy. However you're more likely to meet a woman thru shared interests, IE work, church, evening classes. Try Salsa cos you get to grips with em. Very sexy! So remember now never be needy and always smell nice.
  10. Smiling is good ,but if you don't have teeth its bad . But if she also has no teeth maybe its good. Id say its best if you both have teeth or it could get a bit complicated. Although she could get turned on by no teeth and a nervous lip. Sorry - just read the last bit of the question - sensible. PS. I was being honest .
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