Fix body language

Females Can you tell a real man from a wimp in a short matter of time?

The reason why I asked this is someone told me that women believe it or not can tell more about a man than he even knows about himself based on how she perceives him. An example, body language, way a man talks (confidence), shy, if he's boring or exciting to be around. I guess it's a vibe that they feel. Like they can tell if other females are attracted to you based on how she feels an attraction for you. She just knows if you're a ladies man or not...simply put! Also, females if a man were to fulfill your fantasy no matter what it may be? Not just anyman, can fulfill them...there has to be an attraction between you and him to even allow this to happen do you agree? In other words, if I said I'll fulfill your fantasy but you have no attraction for me, you wouldn't want me to fulfill it, you'd prefer another guy with the right attraction correct? Anyway, tell me how your opinion on all this, it can be long or short answers. I'm all ears! I like hearing what the females have to say too!

Public Comments

1. yeah we can but i try not to cause thats pre judging
2. It all depends on how observant you are. Some people are so wrapped up in themselves that they never notice what others are doing. Those who grew up not being popular have a lot more experience reading people and being able to see through any fake front that people put out because they were outside looking in a lot of the time.
3. Yes that's all correct. Aleast to me.
4. yes u can i can tell in about 1 week
5. yes, its very easy for a woman to tell what kind of a guy a guy is. unfortunately for you or not. haha.
6. This is true for me. I think maybe some females aren't perceptive, or are in denial.
7. Yes, atleast I am able to figure it out.. I've been able to figure out if a guy is good for me or not just from meeting him... I had met a guy once.. From the jump I knew he wasn't good for me at all... But I ignored my insticts and still went out w/ the guy... Eventually I was right and got rid of him.. My boyfriend now, I couldn't tell too much the kind of guy he is from the moment I met him, but just by talking on the phone and from our first date, I knew he's the kind of guy I should be with.. Been together for a year now... :)
8. Sensitivity is a good thing. I like a man with emotions as long as he isn't mushy and sappy. Passion and vulnerability are attractive in a man. Why not have a soft side? A good man will make good money or at least try to if he is not in a good position, he will want to improve his financial situation. It's not about finding some millionaire and using him for money, it's the difference between a provider who is financially secure and a scrub. It's not a 'buy me a house and a car' type of thing. Do you want an apartment or to split a room? Do you want him to put gas in the car, food on the table, take your for trips, pay some of the bills, buy a t.v., and buy you nice clothes, evenings out at restaurants and perfume?
9. Yes we can tell a man from a wimp just by body language. I didn't marry my husband because he's attractive, I married him because he's a man. I went for looks before and found that I was 6 months pregnant and on my own. I promised myself I would never do that again. I love my husband for the man he is and saw past his looks and together we have a beautiful baby girl! If I was just 10 years younger, I would say yes there has to be an attraction, but you have to grow up sometime!
10. Look....believe it or not, women are not that complicated. Most of us judge men after we get to know them. In my younger years I always dated the jocks and pretty boys, but eventually I grew up and learned to not judge a book by its cover. I am now married to a man that most by looking at him would say is a geek...glasses and all. But my husband is a Man among Men. He treats with with love and respect and is the best lover I've ever had. He fulfils every fantasy and more. I will admit I knew all this about him before we got together....as you said its a vibe. But as I said its not all that complicated. And as for how men talk, there is a difference between confidence and cocky...and believe women do pick up on that.