Fix body language

What does this body language mean?

If someone you're speaking with touches your arm--what does that mean exactly? Does it also depend on what context? Like say a friend, stranger or teacher? Does it also depend on if it's a man or a woman? What about a 2 second touch on the arm? Is it just to relax someone or show understanding or just being polite or showing that they care?

Public Comments

1. The people are using this body language to interpret their conveneince and advantage, it has no perfect proof.
2. maybe she wanted to show u she does believe in you words
3. It tottaly depends on the context of the conversation and the relationship you have with the person;like you cant have a stranger who is asking for directions touching you unless they are trying to get your attention,thats the way i see it anyway.
4. Context and manner of the touch are what should distinguish between a "friendly" touch of the arm, or a sleazy touch of the arm. Quite often (when people aren't being sleazy!), people do this to show the person that they acknowledge them as taking part in the conversation. It also may be a comforting gesture... hope that helps.
5. definently depends on the context of the conversation and who is speaking to you. a simple touch on the arm can indicate to you that they are listening and that if an emotional conversation that they understand where you are coming from. a stranger touching you on the arm can be a a bit inappropriate but a friend or teacher can just be understanding. however, if from your opinion the touch wasnt inappropriate then it can be a simple gesture of understanding and to inform you that they are listening. . . hope that helps :)
6. It means they are getting close.
7. I would say this would be the sign of an open, affectionate type of person. It really does not have anything to do with how they feel about you or that they are attracted to you although they may be. It is just how some people are, I am a touchy feely type. This can just be caring natured person.
8. It also depends on what type of person they are. Some people are touchy in conversation, it is there way of saying I'm here for you as a friend or individual. I care. On the other hand if it is someone that is that sincere about life, it might mean that they like you. It is really hard to tell without details.
9. Well if they touch you when they are talking to you its comfort and understanding. The placement is important too. If they are touching you in unappropriate ways then its interest and a comeon...lol But the arm or shoulder is fine...
10. Culture has a lot to do with it; Italians talk with their hands, South Americans get right in your face, etc. But generally, an uninvited touch is either a way to get your trust, or to make a point.
11. they r confident and feel comfortable around u!!
12. There is a lady i work with that will touch your arm no matter what if you are talking to her. I could ask her for a piece of gum and the moment I say her name she puts her hand lightly just above my elbow. I think for her it simply means "you have my attention"
13. I am a type of person who touches another when I am trying to get my point across or when I feel affectionate toward that person.I don't care if it's a friend,stranger or teacher,I do the same thing.
14. It depends on the person, the topic of conversation, the setting, the ethnic background etc. Some cultures touch people when they speak. In some settings like at parties, people touch. It doesn't necessarily mean anything. Yes the context matters.
15. My first assumption is that to get your full attention. To make sure you are with them, in their speaking.