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Is it possible to fake body language?

I've known a man who, I know, had virtually only one wish - to have sex with me. What is disturbing me is his body language. I've read that particular signs, such as locking each other's fingers, touching with heads (not when kissing) etc., usually mean deeper feelings, not only physical attraction. I could think that he knows about these signs and deliberately shows them to me, however I'm almost100percent sure, he has no idea about body language... On the other hand, I'm also sure that all he feels for me is "sex, bed,f...". Maybe, except little sympathy.. Please, tell what you think about this.

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i think you should go for it
Is it possible to fake body language? Of course. That is what acting is all about! Why don't you just Fuc... him (unless you are a virgin) and see if your observations/opinions are correct.
body language is only one one tool to judge others, actions and words are very important. you are what you do, not just your posture and how you cross your legs. MIKE
Yes, anyone who has read a body language book and practiced hard at it can potentially fake his or her body language. But...and here's the key thing, when someone's acting it's impossible to keep it up always. Sooner or later, they will slip. Also, there will be other smaller, less obvious behavioral signs of insincerity that will tip you off. If you think he's only interested in sex, watch him with other women when you're not around. Does he flirt with them? Does he pull the same sort of stunts with them? I've noticed that people's eyes will give them away, you can always tell insincere people by their eyes coz it never changes in correspondence to what they say they are feeling. Never brightens, never dulls, etc. I always watch people's eyes.
there's a technique some counsellors use called mirroring - you match body language with your client and then, when you feel you are in rapport, you move to using more open posture/gesture. i've used it once and it was so effective i never used it again - felt way too manipulative...but try it on him and then ask about his intentions! =P
It is possible but like you said his one wish is to have sex with you. So he can pretend all he likes and is faking these signs to have sex with you. If you fall for it then you will be sorry. Like you said he is after, " Sex, bed F***." you know exactly what he wants and your instincts are tell you that follow your instincts he is wearing you down.
There are just some people that when they interact with others focus on that person only. I am like that...look directly at you, smile, touch your arm, make you feel like you are the only person on this earth. The question you should be asking is what do you want from this relationship with this man? Are you attracted to him? Do you want to have sex with him out of attraction or just for the sake of having sex? If you want to have sex with this man and are not expecting anything more than sex, then go for it! But if you are going into a sexual relationship with the expectations of a deeper relationship, you should be talking to this man before jumping into bed with him.
everything is possible.even orgasm can be faked, if your gut feeling tells you that this person is faking the signs or body languages as you said...go with your gut feeling....on the other hand ...giving him the benefit of the doubt....it is also possible that he like you deeply...and that you are misreading the languges...i dont know you or him...you can be the best evaluator of this guy....when you said that all he wants from you is to have sex with you or get you in bed and fu**....maybe if he get to do that and get what he wanted...he may start falling in love with you...with a better meaning of love...he probably just wanted to try the merchandize first before he buy it...hehehheh...but....on the other hand....a relationship whose foundation is sex...is very weak...not too many succeed...or very few work out ....i will still go with my gut feeling with this guy...good luck...or maybe....good...fu**...hehehheheheh...e mail me...if you like my suggestion
I think it is possible for someone to fake body language. Actors do it all the time. He admitted that all he wants you for is sex. He just wants to use you for his own self gratification, then he wants to toss you aside, like a rag doll. I think you should stay away from this loser and guard your heart. You weren't born to satisfy someone else's wishes. Stay pure until you're married.
you can only fake it with people who have poor social skills, normal people can see right through that