Help I need to know what his body language means?
Help me out with this male body language please. My boyfriend will 1-Stand in front of me while im sitting and talk to me while looking down at me 2-He will start biting his nails after we kiss or cuddle 3-He's always trying to look me straight in the eyes but I've never really been comfortable looking people directly in the eyes so why does he do this? 4-If we're play fighting or something he always has to end up the winner or the one who restrains 5-He's always saying things like "if you do that again imma tackle you but I'd do it gently" 6-And we just started (french kissing) and when we're kissing he's always pushing his tounge in my mouth even when I'll back away a bit (where usually laying down watchin a movie when that happens) 7-And we will be sitting down like on a bad and he'll like playfully push me down onto the bed and lay all his weight on me. What does all this mean please help meh I've googled it but found nothing helpful- Thanks-Ashley~ I'm 15,16 in march he's 16,17 in late january.
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- sounds like hes a retard
- It doesnt sound like he's doing anything serious. He is probably just trying to have fun and muck around a bit. He might look you in the eyes hoping that you will feel comfortable enough too look back into his. But if you feel pressured or intimidated talk about it or leave him
- I think he is trying to tell you he wants to go a little bit further. Maybe not nothing like having sex, just fooling around to begin with. If you aren't comfortable with this "moving further" situation, tell him. If he doesn't understand you are not ready for these kind of things yet then kick him to the curb. No one wants a man that is pushy. Hope my advice could help and Good luck gurl.
- Is he on any kind of medication?
- must be young? maybe he has excess physical, sexual energy that he's ready for, to act on and would if you allowed him. be careful.
- Sounds to me that ALL of his body language says that he wants to be the "boss" and to stand over you while you are talking is a way of making you feel vunerable and this means he has the power, to put it all down to brass tacks it means that if you like being told what to do with your life then you'll be very happy. I'm sure that you are a very nice person and don't ever change hun I'm 49 and have been there and done that (hmmmmmmm maybe he has a twin lol) Take care Ashley
- 1. That means he probably wants you to give him a blow job, or he just likes to maintain dominace. 2. That means he probably wants to do something more with you and he is turned on, but he doesnt know what you would be comfortble with and doesnt want to make you uncomfortble. 3. He is showing you that he cares for you and wants you to recongnize it so he looks you in the eyes to show you that you are the only one that matters. 4. That means he likes to be dominate. 5. That means he would like to have sex with you but he is trying to see what you want so he is leaving you a hint. Also, he is saying he would be gentle and nice about it. However he is still wanting to be dominate. 6. He may just be a bad kisser, does he try and get on top of you? If he does then he wants to have sex with you, if he is just lying next to you and has his legs some what open then he wants you to touch his memeber. If he rolls over and is laying right next to you but not on top of you he either wants to touch your chest or your *cough* vagina. 7. He is trying to see how you react, ultimatly that seems like he wants to have sex with you while asserting his dominance. I gave you an answer to each one, ultimatly he wants to go further with you and i think have sex. Just talk to him about it, see what exactly he wants and decide how far you are willing to go and decide if he will be with you or not. Its the easiest way to go, otherwise if you ignore it he may get frustrated that you havnt picked up on any of the hints and get all crazy horny angry. ;) good luck. Thats all i got. More than likly if you were to have sex he would want to be on top just for clarification.
- For the MOST part, he's exhibiting dominant behavior. Males are sometimes like this, and they can sometimes enjoy being in control over you, by doing all of the listed things, though there are women who act like this too, such as myself, haha. I don't know what the nail biting part means though. However, the question remains if whether or not this is his true self...If it is, then be cautious, just in case. Don't let him push you around too much like this. Small things grow into bigger things. About the playfighting and tackling....if he has 100% victories, then he is probably the domineering type. Some guys don't like to lose, or feel like they're getting taken advantage of, even when playfighting. I think it's a subtle way of telling you that he's still physically stronger, and you're not. Some guys even like being taken down by a girl. Having my own boyfriend winning every playfight isn't fair to me, in particular, because I'm just as aggressive. With this guy, you have to be more firm about things. I don't know the whole story behind this...like how long you two were dating, or other things. When a guy looks at you straight in the eyes, it means he wants to make sure you understand everything he's saying. He's being direct, and is often urging you to take in what he says. Staring into each other's eyes is a form of communication. For some people, such as you, it may feel uncomfortable, but for others it may be that they use it as a tool more often. It can often mean that he's using his eyes to probe you for your emotions, thoughts, and maybe even expects something from you. who knows? Maybe he just likes looking into your eyes. Be a little more careful about the way he puts all his weight on you while laying down. Like I said, small things can turn into big things...and quite often, it's a bad sign. Don't take it too lightly, and keep an eye on him, just in case. Don't trust guys so much that they draw you in and start manipulating you. They can be sneaky. If you're enjoying your time with him, that's fine, but I'm just touching up on things about personal safety.
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