Can you tell if a girl is interested in you by her body language and words?
I get very nervous asking a girl out when I have no idea if she is interested in me or not. What are some types of body language and some things that a girl says that show she is interested in you. Would love to hear a woman's answer, since they would know better than us guys ;)
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- if you can fart up a stinker near her and she stays around till the smell dies then shes a keeper...lol
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- rubbing themselves sucking on a varity of odd objects while staring at you.
- if she turns towards you when she talks to you when you approached her and she was in a different conversation with someone else, i'd say it's a definite possibility that she likes you.
- Just go for it... It isn't that big of a deal. If you're at the age where you have to ask this, no offense, but you're probably going to have ALOT more situations like this. So just get over your fear and ask her if she wants to do anything this weekend!
- if she talks to you or starts converstations if she walks over just to be neaar you if she always smiles at you goes out of her way to say hi looks at you in a crowd touches your hands ..... trust me there easy i would know us girls think its obvious but for guys i guess its sometimes not
- well if shes bold enough to ask you herself, or hint that shes interested by complimenting you while batting her eyelashes, and stuff like that..but its hard to tell from shy or modest women, so you should just give it a try, and if its a no, dont take it to heart. just move on cuz chances are, you'll find someone wayy better...=) and beware of the one nighters...
- Reading Body Language Doesn't matter whether she is interested in you, you'll make her interested eventually anyway. But look for these signs to show you whether you're already making progress. It's also fun to look for these signs as a bystander, either in everyday situations or, for example, in a bar - when the guy earnestly believes he is being sooo smooth but the woman he is talking to isn't displaying any of the signs presented below, you can't help but have a chuckle about it. Body language is very simple to understand but there is A LOT to take in (as you can see from the length of this section) but once you have learnt the basics, there will be no stopping you. Her lips: • Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face. • Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth. • She wets her lips, some women use only a single-lip lick, wetting the upper or lower lip, while others run the tongue around the entire lip area. • She puts her fingernail between her teeth. • She protrudes her lips and thrust her breasts forward. Her eyes: • She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated. • She raises both eyebrows exaggeratedly for a couple of seconds, this is often combined with a smile and some eye contact. • She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance. • While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes. • Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile indicates interest in you. Her hair: • She pushes her fingers through her hair. This can be one hand movement or more of a stroking motion. • She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you. • She is throwing her hair back off her shoulders. Her clothing: • If she is wearing clothes that show her nipples underneath and you notice they are getting perky and erect. • The hem goes up to expose a little more leg. • She is fixing, patting or smoothing her outfit to make herself look better. While she is seated: • She moves in time to the music, with her eyes on you. • She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm. • She is sitting with her legs open. • She sits with her legs crossed in a manner to reveal her thigh. • Her legs are rubbing against each other. • Her legs are rubbing against the leg of the table. • Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you. Her hands: • She exposes the palms of her hand facing you. • While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up. • She rubs her wrists up and down. • She sits with one hand touching one of her breasts. • She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way. • She is fondling keys, sliding hands up and down a glass, playing with toys or other things on the table. • She plays with her jewellery, especially with stroking and pulling motions. • She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you (in case you already haven't started kino yourself, dummy). • She is pretending to look at her watch as you pass her. Her voice: • She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours. • She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours. • She laughs in unison with you. • In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you. Miscellaneous: • She mirrors your body language and body positions. • Her skin tone becomes red while being around you. • She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and toward you. • She leans over and speaks into her friend's ear, just like in junior high school. • She is standing with her head cocked slightly at an angle, one foot behind the other, hips slightly thrust forward. • At a party - every once in a while she seems to appear out of nowhere in your vicinity and if you move to another spot, soon she appears out of nowhere again, you catch her glancing in your general direction (actually, glancing at YOU dummy!), she bumps into you… accidentally, touches you… accidentally etc. When talking to a girl, these are some of the more important signs to watch for: • Can you keep conversation going with her? • Does she react well to kino? • Does she touch you? • Does she laugh? Now I don't have to explain what the answer "yes" to these questions means, do I? All these signs usually tell you that the girl is captivated by your charms. But before you get there, chances are that her body language changes as the discussion progresses. Make sure that you watch her closely and as soon as you get a sign that should be an indication that you are on the right track, keep going in that direction. If the opposite happens, just change the subject and see what happens.
- She may be interested in you if she: - touches your arm when she talks to you - flips her hair when you're both talking - sits with her legs crossed and has her foot (on the leg that's crossed over) pointing towards you - licks her lips when she's near you - seems to constantly be around you :) I read an article about body language a while ago and those were some of the signs that I can remember.
- Eye contact, definitely. If she's always looking over at you or you're always meeting her eye the she probably likes you. Also, when you talk to her if she seems really interested in what you have to say and can sustain the conversation, that too. If she comes up to talk to you, thats a good sign. If she hits you/taps you lightly/puts her hand on your arm while you're talking then thats good news. If she plays with her hair, even without realising it, then also good news. Hope this helps. Its what I do when I like a guy =)
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- OK well seance I'm a girl then i know how we act well how some of us act! When i like a boy I talk to them somtimes, and ingnore them other times cause it gets most boys wanting more......my body language is usally I strut with a hot walk, talk nicely or sweetly. my last boy friend said that it was my eyes that told him to ask me out cause he said that they had this love/like glare in them! but i always use my eyes to tell ppl how i am felling almost all girls do! I'm a really shy girl so i didn't talk much but when i did and i would say something like" Oh my gosh......." and he would say" What?" then i say" Oh never mind you robly don't want to know!"
- Well when I really like a guy, I try to be especially nice to him, maybe even joke around with him a lot if he has a good sense of humor, I smile a lot when he's around, etc. So, she'll smile at you and laugh at your jokes, give you good eye contact (if you can w/o being obvious, look at her pupils, if they are dialated then that means she is attracted to you because her pupils are enlarged to take more of you in--true!), lick her lips, play with her hair. Her body will be pointed towards you when she is talking. She may even gently touch you and she'll seem interested about your life and such. If she is shy she will smile and look at you but once eye contact is established she may blush and turn away. Good luck and God bless! :)
- I hope this will help you, Check her eyes If she's feeling stimulated by you (not just sexually), her pupils will dilate. That's because her body is programmed to want to see more of whatever's exciting her, so her brain tells her irises to let in more light. Also keep this in mind : Hold her gaze for a minute. If she's blinking more than normal (which is about 15 times a minute), there's a good chance she's on the Pill; women on birth control blink 32 percent more than those who aren't. Aside from the obvious, what does that mean for you? Put on your toughest, most confident mug as you look at her. Because of the shift in hormone levels, research says, women on the Pill are more attracted to men with rugged features, such as strong, wide jaws. .
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