Fix body language

reading body language and signals to look for?

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1. What do you need to know? Ask away.... (person winking their right eye - means they're going to ask a stupid question)
2. a person pointing his arms at you with his hands clasped together using means theyre going to shoot you with the gun theyre holding
3. maintaining eye contact. leaning towards you if sitting across the table from you , when you are talking. not looking round the room when you are talking to the person when you should be maintaining eye contact. dont fold your arms, that is shutting them out . this is just the things i have learned. they will be many more.
4. well when you first meet a girl, watch out for her looking you up and down very quickly the very first time she sees you, its a sure fire way to tell she might like you if she has the palm of her hand pointing outward she feels comfortable around you!! that's basically i know good luck!
5. if a girl takes of her clothes and grabs your business and says 'give it to me stud' then my guess is that she might be trying to seduce you.
6. In the field of psychology this is a tricky concept. For instance we usually think that a person that avoids looking at you directly in the eye is being evasive or hiding something. However, in many Asian cultures direct eye contact is a sign of disrespect. So, body language is very culture bound. Perhaps the most respectful (and I think smartest) thing to do is look for body language that you think contradicts what the person is saying (I love my mother while thier fists are made tight and their face is flush red) and then ask about it without imposing your own ideas of what it might mean. Michael John Weaver, M.S.
7. Well it depends what sort of body language you are looking for, like if this person is attracted to you, whether they are lying, dislike, want to be your friend, or even how to use YOUR body language to decieve, give out the right signals, send out wrong signals or play around with someone (HAHA).. I cant write it all here, but a brilliant site that might help you with most of this stuff is www.allaboutbodylanguage.com
8. I studied NVC, non verbal communication, for a couple of years at college. Something i really enjoy doing. It all depends on what it is you want to look out for. We all do different things and have different body language for every emotion we feel, even though we don't realise. What exactly is it you want to know? The body is a dead giveaway if you know what to look for. It completely contradicts what comes out of your mouth. Great stuff.
9. Body language is a real science.Body and its mnovements tell a lot of things you donot say.For selection of persons for job ,some recruitment agencies consider body language also.You can learn it from many books available. In normal life inorder to understand the mental disposition of your partner/love/lover etc body language helps to you take the right move.