Fix body language - Girls

Girls - Why?

Have you ever noticed that when a guy stares at you? Your body language all the sudden goes into hyperdrive. Your hands want to play with your hair, and keep touching your face, when before you weren't. Or to start looking at things or in directions that do not make any sense. You start to fix your shirt or look at your pants. Is this some type of flirting that I'm supposed to react to. What should I do? Usually I smile at this point, but then it gets even more akward. Girls - has these things ever happened to you?

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were just caught off guard and feel flustered
of course duh
yes it does.. if I notice a guy checking me out I get nervous because I know he is looking at me.. but he also could be smiling because I have some smug on my face....
Haha. We just want to look good for you! Come talk to us!
that meens we like it and u should make a move
Once Chuck Norris looked at a girl...and she did all of those things you listed. Then he roundhouse kicked her in the face.
we want to make sure we look good. i am sure guys have something they do. like check if their fly is up or something.
It's hard not to wonder if something is wrong with your appearance when a cute boy is staring at you!
It's just embarassing to have someone staring at you and not know what to do, so we fidget.
It depends. Sometimes I get freaked out. The other day this creepy man kept staring at me and I felt extremely uncomfortable. But other times, I move in certain ways or flip my hair, shake my a$$ more as I walk to draw more attention from my admirers. I do that for fun, I don't want them to actually talk to me because I'm taken.
yes, but you can help that by just going to talk to this girl!! it helps when people are friendly. go ahead and smile, my guess is that they like you, too. just be yourself. you have to step in. being caught off gaurd is almost never fun, so you have to make it much more comfotable. that makes it as good as it can get.
I think that most girls are insecure and when we see a guy staring at us we get all nervous that there is something wrong with us or that we have something on our face or our hair is sticking up...We can't help it. It has happened to me and I feel very akward too. Try just going up and talking to her. She will be caught off guard, but will hopefully be interested in whatever witty thing you have just said!
DO? what should you DO? Just be yourself, Bubba. DO? Are you talking what can you do to manipulate the situation? I hope not. If you're a nice guy, they'll pick up on that. If you're friendly, they'll respond to that. If you lead with your creepy manipulative know-it-all slick come-ons, well, poor baby, they'll pick up on that in a microsecond. At least the kind worth knowing will. Do you feel lucky today?
well the first thing is that we have to make sure that you're not looking at us for something stupid like something on our face. smiling wouldn't be bad for me, but some might think that you are laughing at them, good luck on that.
We like you then.
course, it happens to every girl when you think that a guy is checking you out, you want to look good and you get all flustered so to take off mind off of that, you start fiddling with your clothes, hair, etc. we want to make yourselves look the best that it can be, but for some guys, it gets akward
When I catch a guy staring at me I smile and wave at him. This usually makes him act the way you discribed us girls as doing. If he smiles and waves back then we usually have something to talk about and I walk up and say hi. I've made alot of friends that way.
yeah it is fliting. it has happened to me and i like when i see a guy looking at me beacuse it makes me feel good about my self..i am like hey looking good...
well, if you are staring, its uderstandable! looking, glancing, making eye contact, all good, but staring makes it sound bad!
Staring is creepy, but short glances would be more appropriate.
well when a girl does that and she doesn't look at you at all after she notices that she's being looked at that means she knows she's being look at but isn't interested. if she was interested she'd look at you more than just the first time and probably smile.
it's because most girls get nervous and especially, if it is a guy they like or is really attractive to them, they don't want to look bad in front of him. Smile, it's a compliment. It means, she finds you attractive or thinks highly of you, possibly like she wants you to talk to her, but she doesn't want to do anything to seem lame to you, scare you off.
OF course they happen 2 us daily
this happens to like 95% of girls. I think it means they like you b/c it happens to me!~~~~~~~