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Teenage Shy guys body language towrds girl?

He's shy we haven't spoken much but I think we have liked each other for about 2 years now!!!!!! He tries to play it cool around his frinds though like he wont look at me but sometimes like when he's on his own he will look at me (out of the corner of his eye for example then look awaY.) He also sometimes 'straightens out' his clothes when he walks past me.......What are the body language signs and other signs of a 16 shy guy who acts cool around his friends to say that he likes you ???? : )

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1. hers how you can tell 1Take notice of how many times he looks at you. Do you catch his eye every time you glance at him? If he is looking at you frequently and flashes his pearly whites when you look at him, there is definitely some interest on his part. A quick turn of his head when you've caught him looking at you is also a good sign. 2Step TwoCheck with your friends. Guys often take a greater interest in a girl's friends as a way to get closer to her. Find out if he is asking about you when you are not around. Sometimes guys are too shy to express their interest in you, so they will go about it in a roundabout way. 3Step ThreeDon't be offended if he is teasing or making fun of you. Guys are funny this way. Sometimes they do not know how to express themselves to their love interest, so they go about it by making up silly nicknames or teasing. Some guys will make fun of their friends in front of their crush to appear funny. 4Step FourTake a step into a guy's personal space. If he likes you, he will welcome this closeness with you. If he backs away, this is a definite sign that he is not interested in a relationship with you. 5Step FiveAsk him out on a date. If he accepts, you'll know he is interested. If a guy rejects a date without a good reason, he is probably not seeking a relationship with you. 6Step SixThink back on conversations you have had with him. Does he remember the little things that you said? Guys remember little insignificant pieces of conversations when they like you. They are letting you know that they are interested in everything about you. This is a good sign of his desire to have a relationship with you. 7Step SevenAsk him. If all else fails, let him know your feelings. After you have shared yours, ask him how he feels about you. Try not to act outwardly hurt if his feelings are not the same as yours; after all, you asked him. This is a great way to get hesitant guys to share their feelings and open up. Tips & Warnings Check him out. Take time to smile back at him if he is looking your way. Never stalk a guy that you like. It is just creepy and will turn him off. Be careful about coming on too strong also.....(sorry to make you read more) if he is ever sitting down and his leg ispointong towardsyou, you see him looking at you then turning away suddenly.....that is a sign he likes you or the girl in front of you.
2. LOL, OMG, I thought you were talking about my son there, for a minute...hey, maybe you are! I have a 16 year old son who is extremely shy around girls he is (especially) attracted to. He is very funny and "cool" around his friends but when he is around a girl that he likes, he gets nervous and starts acting a bit odd, from my perspective :). My son does this flipping of hair or sweeping his bangs back, his face tilts downward sometimes and he also gets red in the face at times...depending on how attracted he is to the girl. It's cute. He has told me many times that he can't bring himself to ask a girl out so he waits for them to ask him out...unfortunately, he has missed opportunities because of his shyness. It's too bad but as a mother, I feel that he has plenty of time to date so I am glad that he is the way he is. If you're interested in this boy, ask him out...or slip him your phone number with a little note. See if he calls. I mean, you make the first move to show your interest and he needs to make the second move to make it happen, if he is sooo shy that he is paralysed from connecting with another person, I would re-think pursuing the relationship because you don't always want to be the initiator or the dominant one or the decision maker....do you?