Fix body language
Why is he acting this way?
A few months ago we kissed for the first time but now he seems to act odd around me! he still stares and makes eye contact when he's around me but now it's like he doesn't know how to act or what to say and it has me confused. he contacted me a few weeks ago asking if I wanted to see him and I said yes but for an unfortunate reason it fell through but he apologized saying we would get together soon. We have known eachother for a while so the feeling between us is mutual and we're both interested in eachother but it seems like one time he will act hot towards me by giving me a ton of his time and attention and the next he'll act cold by not saying much at all but he still stares and we make eye contact but that's as far as it get's, we aren't officially dating but his body language and the way he has been with me in the past says it all and that he wants to take things further. He calls me sweet names and shows that he cares and acts like he wants me but is he confused or scared? help He is also the type of guy who is shy and he has been hurt in the past. Some insight would be nice because it seems like he doesn't know what he wants right now.
Public Comments
- Sounds like he likes you but is just shy and doesn't know how to act around you. Ask him to hang out again and then when you do ask him how he feels or what's going on with you two - there's nothing to lose.
- Maybe, the problem is to make your relationship "official". In this situation, you can express your feelings more openly to each other. You can re assure each other of your love. As of this time, its the apprehension that maybe sooner or later, one will be rejected by the other.
- Maybe you need to "take the bull by the horns" and find out what is bothering him. Maybe he is getting "mixed" feelings from you too. Invite him to someplace quiet and semiprivate for coffee or a bite and once you are seated, take hold of both his hands and tell him, "there is something I have to know". Then proceed to ask him why you are seeing different sides of him. Don't let go until you have discussed what is going on.
- just take to him, he will tell you if you ask him in a comfortable moment with just the two of you! and make sure hes doing the talking not you!
- y dont u ask him the questions that u are asking everybody else!!!
