Fix body language

Ladies: Is dating a game to you?

Ladies: Sometimes I'm confused... is dating a game to you? Do you like it when a guy is hard to get? Doesn't come across as desperate? Can women be complex? Will they give you reason to believe they are interested before they behave like they aren't? Or should a man go with his instincts and notice a few subtle body language she expresses when meeting him first? If so what are the obvious body cues he should pick up?

Public Comments

1. dating is a game, both the female and the guy need to know how to play it... you just suck at playing the game
2. It's a game where they try to find the guy with the most money. That's it.
3. Dating is a game somewhat. Determining the kind of game depends on the individual. Live and learn.
4. dating is a game to some but not to me i believe that when you're with someone u should try to make the most of it not just go on one date than move on to the next guy
5. how old r u?? and no girls dont play the game when there in love they just want you to go out with them and then we can star playing the game lolz!!!!
6. well of course dating is a game and to know it that it is a game don't really call / text msg / ....
7. not all of us are playing some game, I know a few things about body language if they lean away or arms crossed these aren't good signs, Be sure of yourself, have hobbies, things you like to do a life but be able to make time for your girl. To much at once seems needy and no one wants needy as for the complex its take a person with a personality to be complex so good huntin' there hope I helped a bit
8. dating is just a game. u don't just for a date the rules of the game is that u have to earn it. and u have to be hott, cuz if ur not, then screww u. unless u find tru love, then that's not a game,
9. for many girls, dating is NOT totally a game but for some...idk it depends on the girl! not everyone is the same! of course women are complex; everyone's complex! if a girl likes a guy she'll try to talk to him a lot, give him complements, help him out, and try to spend lots of time with him. obvious body cues: hmm.... i don't know about everyone but i grin, wink, or twirl my hair when i want a guy to notice me.
10. Dating is a game to some, and those are left for the shallow girls of our gender. Your first want to make sure they aren't by getting to know them otherwise there's no guarantee that it WON'T be a game... that's the sad truth in everything; nothings guaranteed to be true. Body cues: Staring, trying to get close, lotsa smiles... Sorry you've had that much bad luck
11. IT's not a game to me. But nonetheless, it is a game to most, and if ur successful, u'll win a lot...if not, u'll loose a lot. Most do some combination of both...and it's a learning experience. Hopefully when ur done playing, u'll like the prize u walk away with. No, I don't like it when a guy is hard to get. I like it when he just up and tells me how he feels...this is because I'm clueless to the cues of the opposite sex...because I'm not even looking for them...and I don't really know how to look either. No, it dosn't come accross desperate to me. I mean, if u want to date me, let me know...then u'll know if I feel the same and we can start dating. Instead of playing a game that leaves u guessing all the time! Yes, women...and men, can be very complex. Sometimes they do this. IT"s fun to flirt...but no one should take it too far, as it can hurt egos. Yes, men should notice body language from a woman and make a move. Even in this day...a woman likes to be asked out(most of them), so it's still a man's job to do that. Well, if I like a guy...he'll know! Unless he's clueless like me...then his friend will definately fill him in! I won't make eye contact(can't see...so it's hard), but I'll be blushing and smiling a lot. I'm shy too, so I'll turn away a lot too. Yeah, so, if a girl looks like rudolf with a goofy grin on her face as she's turning away...then it's a safe bet she likes u.
12. No dating isn't a game to me. Yes I do like a guy when he's hard to get.. Ya we can be complex..I mean come on we're women! XD Obvious cues we will show off is like flirting, or making the guy jealous or even just sometimes acting stupid just so the guy will help us out.. It's all a big plan :) Hope I helped!
13. To me?? Absolutely not. To some yes I think so, but certainly not all. I think I like a guy to not be to hard to get or to easy. I definately don't like one to push himself at me. Its more intruiging if I have to participate a little in the chase myself but not always. Sometimes its romantic to be pursued. I think more importantly if you don't over do it in any direction and leave room for the woman to express herself you will be ok on instinct or directness. I think men and woman can be complex. Yes some do give the misconception they are interested when not, sometimes its a game somestimes its just a way she has of being nice although she isnt interested not realizing its leaving the wrong message when she just doesnt want to be hurtful. I'd go on instincts if your able to d that but if your wrong you might miss out on a good catch or be slapped for being wrong kind of thing......... I think most woman, not all, but perhaps the majority, could handle a direct question of is there any feeling of more between us than social or friendship just so I don't travel the wrong road of misunderstanding. I think a lot of eye contact and direct smiling at and a lot of questions of interest in you personally might be of clue?
14. i take dating really seriously. if i take it as a game then i will be just wasting his time and mine. life is too short to take the good things for granted. i like it when the guy is aggressive, it makes me feel wanted. everyone wants to feel wanted, liked, or loved. a lot of other people are the same way. don`t take someones`s heart for a joke because it might leave them tainted for the rest of their life.
15. Some wome do like playing hard to get, if they can tell that the man is desperate enough, I think some men should look into body language and expressions more.There is this one guy, that if I smile at him just to be polite, he thinks that I'am in love with him.Other guys I have talked to when I said: "I just want to be friends."They seemed to hear "I like you, I will go out with you."When that is not what I meant.Listen to women carefully but, do not take everything they say literally if a woman says "I feel like i'm going crazy!!" She doesn't actually feel like that ,she just feels like that at the moment.Men I think often misinterpert women because when they tell you about there problems they use emphasis and drama to try and explain the emotion to you,but some men typically believe that the women is having a huge problem, because they've taken everything she said literally.Cues to if we like you is if they look at you then look away, talk to you, smile at you allot , flirting like maybe touching your hand or if theyre always happy to see you.Just because they laugh at allot of your jokes does not mean they like you, they could just think your funny.Just think of that and see if it helps.