Fix body language
Please explain this male behavior?
I meet this guy back in March. We have kept in communication via e-mail, text messages, & an occasional phone call. About 3 weeks ago we got together for a coffee, the next day for lunch & the very next week for dinner. He got in a car crash about 5 days after our last date. He got out ok, but his shoulder has been a bother. We R back to text message & maybe 3 or 4 phone calls in the last 3 weeks. I must say that he has called more in these past weeks than in the past months. He looked very into me during our dates, body language and conversation wise. About a week ago I send him a text & asked if he wanted to go out for a couple of beers, he was out with some friends & asked me to join them, I did. Here again he seemed into me. When he is with me he gets touchy (my legs and feet), but he wonders & looks @ other girls. Why would a guy keep talking to a girl for so many months and don’t make a move? PS: he’s 43, I’m 30. I know that since the accident he has been out w/his friends. If he is fine to go out with his bodies, why can’t he ask me out? Is it that he might have something else going on & has me in the side lines? answering mind2analyze: No, we are not doing nothing else than meeting in public places.
Public Comments
- he might already be taken honestly if not maybe hes just waiting for the right time some romantics are just like that
- I would guess you are throwing the vibe that he can have you whenever he is good and ready. He'll be good and ready if nothing better comes along. You sound like you are his "sure thing" if needed. Are you guys really doing anything else beyond the meeting in public places and hanging out kind of stuff?
- at 43 he probably carries a lot of past relationships that may not have worked out so well and he is afraid to make any type of commitment. Hang in there and try to reassure him that you can be the one that he has been looking for. At least he must be interested, since he has kept in touch and he doesn't mind you meeting his friends.
