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Male behavior explained?

I meet this guy back in March. We have kept in communication via e-mail, text messages, & an occasional phone call. About 3 weeks ago we got together for a coffee, the next day for lunch & the very next week for dinner. He got in a car crash about 5 days after our last date. He got out ok, but his shoulder has been a bother. We R back to text message & maybe 3 or 4 phone calls in the last 3 weeks. I must say that he has called more in these past weeks than in the past months. He looked very into me during our dates, body language and conversation wise. About a week ago I send him a text & asked if he wanted to go out for a couple of beers, he was out with some friends & asked me to join them, I did. Here again he seemed into me. When he is with me he gets touchy (my legs and feet), but he wonders & looks @ other girls. Why would a guy keep talking to a girl for so many months and don’t make a move? By the way, we haven’t done anything else than just a kiss. I know that since the accident he has been out w/his friends. If he is fine to go out with his bodies, why can’t he ask me out? Is it that he might have something else going on & has me in the side lines?

Public Comments

1. he is gay
2. why dont you ask him instead of have us guess?
3. sounds like the guy might be gay lol . no maybe he's alil to shy to take it any futher ...
4. ask him! you wont know until you ask him. ask him how he feels about you, what he wants from you (a relationship, just friends?). talk to him about it. tell him your concerns. good luck! :)
5. he's probably just keeping you around buying time to see if he can find better.
6. I Myself have been in a simaler situation. He is either still tryong to get over someone, or he wants to be single and leave his options open while still having you there to make him feel special and needed.
7. ya'll aren't in a committed relationship.. ya'll are just talking and like each other... he can look at other girls... when you become his GiRLfRieND then you're allowed to have a problem with this but until then.... he's a free agent... don't go past kissing because he might just wanna touch and feel on you... or he might be waiting around for other reasons... he might not wanna feel the pressure to NOT be able to loook at other girls if he wishes. you should just ask him... or you make a funny comment and see what he says the next time he goes to kiss you say "sorry! i only kiss boys that i go out with now!" and smile... then see what he says... if he doesn't get the "hint" which he probably won't kuz he's a guy... lol.. you can either just settle and wait or just ask him wuz up... *KP*
8. It is obvious that he likes you a lot and would probably like to take it further, but he is shy or waiting on you to give him a more positive signal.
9. i think he is confused. give him some time.
10. One of the reasons he might be hesistant in making a move is because was probably hurt before he met you and he is scared and is not ready yet. Or he sees you as a long term girlfriend, and doesnt want to ruin it. One other thing is he can be looking at you as a friend only. You know what, you should do, is realize for the moment you are just a friend, and talk to him as one as well. Hide your feelings, and if he is not making any moves towards you, just dont worry about it. If you think you cant just be friends with him, then dont. I know it may be hard for you right now if thats the case. Since you guys have kissedm, what kind of kiss, if it was a long passionate kiss, then yeah, I would be wondering and asking him whats going on, if it was just a peck kiss, then I would take that as just nothing but a simple pleasure. Good luck.
11. It sounds like your friend is a casual guy, he won't rush into anything or make sudden commitments. This is good and bad for you for two reasons. The good news is you will get to know each other better, but the bad news is during a long courtship he might become interested in another woman. As far as the looking at other women goes, every straight man does it, and will continue to do it. Good luck!