Fix body language
Body language experts, interpret this?
So this girl was telling me she had not been on a date with anyone since her ex a while back. As she said it she scratched the back/top of her head briefly and after she said it her eyes, not her pupils but her entire eyes got bigger for a moment while she was looking at me. Was she telling the truth? Why the head scratch and eyes getting bigger? Here is another one, same girl: She was laying there and I asked her about her dating history and she closed her eyes, heart rate and breathing appeared to increase and she put both her hands on her forehead as a person would if they where frustrated with you not understanding and said "I told you I don't date, I don't even leave my house". Was she telling the truth? Why the eyes closing, increased heart rate and the hands touching the face like that?
Public Comments
- well, you are observant.....anyway I think she is telling the truth but she is anxious about your response and if you understand and accept her.
- You are stressing this girl out by asking her stuff like that. She's with you. What's the point of the third degree? Are you a control freak that has to know every detail about your companions? Frankly, it's not any of your business. Maybe she's reacting like that because her previous 'friend' WAS a control freak.
- well on the first one i think she was probably telling the truth and those things she did are just coincidence...and for the second part she was probably still telling the truth and she was just pissed because shes mad that she doesnt date much and doesnt get out as much as she would like to
- The eyes closing is a plea for help in complete desperation. She needs someone to believe her... and she may or may not be telling the truth, but she does want someone to believe it. She is at the"end of her rope" completely frustrated with her failure to get someone to believe her. And you may be her latest attempt at a solution. The eyes closing increased heart rate and hands touching her forehead is her way of pleading for a solution from you. Bet you a $100 to 1.00 she needs tenderness more than sex!
- hands to face doesn't necessarily mean insecurity, it could mean nervousness as well. Maybe she's not used to that type of confrontation, as far as a guy approaching her so bluntly. Try subtle ways to get to know her. Small Conversations first and talk about things that matter OK!
