Fix body language

How do I handle mixed messages? She says one thing but her body language tells different.?

I really like her, and told her many times; yet I keep getting the same answer, "just friends, no dating, no relationship" yet she dates other friends. yet when I try to move on, ignore her, just do the basic cordial but just "hello & goodbye", her body language tells otherwise. After a while, she tries to reach out, get talkative. I gave the cold shoulder for quite sometime now. No dinners, no long phone talks, etc. Recently she saw me twice in social settings with another woman; I could tell it was a blow. I see her at least three times a week in a work setting. Yet every time I bring it up, I get rejected. Should I move on for good?

Public Comments

1. Start listening to her words and quit playing her game. She has told you many times "just friends, no dating, no relationship" -- so move on already and stop being her patsy.
2. Sounds like the girls got game and likes when you chase after her, but she won't be caught. She really doesn't care about your happiness if it upsets her that you are having a good time with others and not chasing her. Try moving on for good with a woman who won't play games.
3. Move on. She is playing you and YOU are letting her. Move on. Move on. Move on. She is full of bull.
4. it sounds like she's playing mind games......if u don't feel right move on don't wait around for her
5. i think its best for u to move on....but still b a good friend to her....bcuz it seems that she only sees u as a frends....but its better to hav her as a good frend than to not hav her at all...
6. Listen to her and pay more attention to her even if u don't want to hear a damn word she says.
7. Maybe she just want to be JUST friends. Why can't guys get that. Just because you made a move on her and got rejected. That shouldn't have to be any reason for you to stop talking to her. See that it she likes you but only as a friend and since she sees that your giving her the cold shoulder she doesn't want things to change between you.
8. Leave her and get a girl there are plenty of girls that are single. Ignore her for ever, that tells her what you are
9. yess just go on living your life as you are and if she ever talks to you ask her to be open with you about her feelings because your getting on with life with or without her allways do whats right for you play no games treat he as a friend .
10. yes. basically... she nos you're interested and if she was too.. she WOULD tell you. please get over yourself and stop imagining that her "body language" is telling you otherwise. She's just being friendly but you're interpreting it differently. you definitely need to move on.
11. I don't know the answer to this quandry either. I am currently suffering the same problem with a woman that wants to be "just freinds". Tho, her body language says something totally different . . . i.e. enlarged pupils, mimicing, open body posture, long gazes etc... I have also made my move and gotton rejected. I can't figure out if she is playing a game or is totally confused about me. Whatever is happening with her thogh, has realy little bearing with me. I'm moving on trying to find another romantic intrest. You sound like you are doing the right thing for you too.