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What are some male attraction body language signs? how can u tell if a guy is attracted to u by their body language?
Whats the most common Body Language signs used for attraction? i would really like to now what the most common body language signs that been used for or to attracting people( Liking someone)
body language?attraction?prefer girls opinion? Okay I keep hearing people say that body language is a key thing wen trying to get someone to notice u. What does that mean? What kind of body language?
teach me signs of secret attraction(body language etc)? one day he acts like he loves me,he cares about me and flirts with me then one day he doesnt even talk to me,acts like he doesnt even know my name.I want to know his true feeling about me.its really annoying
body language - attraction? I know when two people are attracted to each other they can often mirror each others body language. I am curious to know whether this can extend to tone of voice and copying certain phrases the other person uses; or would this be more of a coincidence?
Body language attraction signals? Ok, so I know it's supposed to be one of the signs of attraction if a guy spends a lot of time facing you or "pointing towards you" with his body when sitting or standing. Here's a weird one, though: suppose the guy crosses his legs? Does that mean that he's "pointing towards you" with the sole of his foot or is it the other way around? Thanks, in advance! I'm fascinated by this stuff.
Is there any way you can tell their body language suggests love rather than attraction? I've thought for sometime someone had feelings for me but wonder if its love or he just fancies me. I love him - we're not in a relationship just friends.
Ok what is the obvious body language of a lesbian attraction? eye contacts and so on... even if you don't know if she's a lesbian or not and haven't talked to her much
body language reveals attraction? do you think that body language really tells the truth??!! and is a better predictor than words? I see this good looking guy.. and when we cross paths, he will adjust his tie..play with his cufflinks and if we are standing next to one another, he will sideways glance at me, or he will full on look into my eyes and almost stare for 5 seconds BUT he totally ignored me and spoke to everyone else when we were in a small group!! In this case, do you think his body language shows he is attracted?
what are the signs of attraction that a male shows through body language towards a girl he likes? what are the signs of attraction that males show through body language to a girl that he finds interesting or likes? do they expose the palms to a girl just like girls expose their palms to guy they're interested in? sensible and helpful answers please!
what body language signals attraction from a male? what says he likes you and what says he doesn't?without asking him.
Is there any difference in body language towards being in love and that that suggests sexual attraction? I'm talking about someone being in love with someone and not coming out and saying it :)
Body language and attraction: Is it true that when? people are attracted to something, their pupils dilate? I flirt with this guy and I finally noticed his eyes were blue - what does that mean?
Rules of attraction? For any guys out there looking for a serious relationship...when you go out on the prowl, what would attract you to a girl both in body language and clothing? What would make you apprach a girl? Ooh another question...Style of dancing help?
what body language from a man? signals his attraction to a woman
hey LADIES! is attraction a choice? alot of guys are saying that women don,t choose who they are attracted to, that its all about a guy,s body language and personality I know I,M not all that great with women but I,M not sure I agree with some things I read in books and magazines And even I have a preferance regardless of a women,s looks or how smooth she can talk!!
girls, this is about attraction? when u FIRST see a guy,even if yer not attracted to his face/body, can u kinda be attracted to how they carry themselves? kinda like they show their confident and that translates thru their body language?
body language? This guy whom I like did give intresting signals but lately after a 4 months gap ( we met after this period) is behaving quite different, no glances, smiles and stuff this attraction is quite sutble from both of us. do u really think is a good idea if i talk 2 him directly? Also he is my collegue and quite senior, married even i am married. Do u guys think he must be scared due 2 professional reasons? or he's just not interested anymore? do virgo's react good to direct talks?
what is the typical body language for friendship? i need this for my seminar paper, so please help? we all know the signs for attraction, flirting, lying etc... but what body language is typical among friends engaging in conversation? any good links would be helpful ;) thanks a bunch!
Male/Female attraction? Most men think that are the first who make a move to women they are attracted to. But is said that actually it is women who make the first move through subtle signals/body language. Can anyone mention the signals/body language a woman use, for instance, in a bar/club to give a green light for a man she is attracted to approach her?
body language signs of attraction for guys? so my guy friend (crush, btw i told him i liked him a while bak n he said i guess we cud chill n see where it goes, no clear answer if he liked me but he kept smiling) lives above me and his roomies were makin all this noise in our dorm when i was trying to sleep! lol so i texted him saying they were loud in a jokingly type of way then he said for real im sorry. Next day in the cafeteria, as soon as i took off my jacket, he came up to me and moved his hand down across my back (missed my butt tho lol) and said im really sorry. then he just tapped my roomie on the shoulder n said sorry to her too. Is this a nonverbal way of tellin me he likes me? him n his friends were makin random jokes with me n he seemed to focus on me more than anyone else at my table....
Women, how do you show attraction for a guy at a party? If you are at a party or get together and a guy feels magnetic attraction towards you, do you sense that too and what do you usually do to show that you would enjoy talking more and learning more about the guy? What body language do you gals give off.
What are some body language signs of attraction?? I have a crush on this guy @ my HS. We have never talked b4 but i would like to get 2 know him but he has a GF who will be leaving this summer for an out of state college. In weights class we make eye contact and sometimes i catch him staring at me. When I pass him in the hallways we look right into each others eyes. At lunch he used to always stare back at me but now he doesn't do it that much. Now he will look at me like once or twice. But today in weights class when he was walking past me i looked into his eyes and we made eye contact and it was just a long stare he didn't turn away and i didn't.. it happened 2 X also @ lunch 2day i looked over at him and he was lookin at me but once i looked at him he looked away real quick. WHAT COULD THAT MEAN? when u make eye contact w/ the same person evryday is that good? does it mean something? Do you think he could think im weird for always looking at me?If that was the case would he still look back at me or not?
For a woman how important is a man physical apperance based on the attraction criteria can it be in percentage? 55% body language, 38% style of speaking and 7% on what you actually say. Eg iphysical appearance about 50%, body language 25%, 19% style of speaking and 6% for what you actually say?
Analyzing body language.? I was talking to this girl that I'm interested in today and I noticed that she would flip the pages in the book she was holding, which to me is a sign of nervousness. She would also do other fidgety things during the conversation. Is this nervousness a sign of attraction? Oh and also, I had her laughing most of the time so I don't think it was a boredom thing.
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what re some signs of attraction when it comes to female body language? any info will help links whatever
guys body language while watching a movie? i was watching a comedy w/ 2 friends- a guy and a girl. the girl sat in the chair and the guy and i sat on the couch. during the movie i stayed in the same spot- but he moved around a bit: when i licked my lips, out of the corner of my eye i saw him begin to do so(it's his house, so he could've gotten water if he wanted...) at certain points in the movie he would lift himself and move slightly closer to the opposite side of the couch that was empty. i'm pretty sure that there's a mutual attraction on some level, so-what does this mean?
What does this body language move mean? I was talking to this guy in an office, for about 40 minutes and having very good eye contact, he acted as if he was hanging on to my every word. I did the same thing and I actually caught him looking down at my chest then back in my eyes...It's been pretty clear that there's a lot of attraction there. As I got up to leave, we continued talking and I went to take notes of what he was saying, writing on my paper and steadying it on my hand (because I was wearing a low cut shirt and bending over to write on his desk would have...well, been too much.:)). When I looked up at him after taking notes (now I was standing), he was steadily looking to his left, with a half smile on his face...It was as if he had been looking at me the whole time but didn't want me to see it! It happened twice. Do guys try hard NOT to stare at a woman they find attractive (when the attraction is clearly prohibited, as in this case)? I know he's attracted to me, just not what the looking away to his side means. No, there was nothing to lie about, he was just giving me his professional opinion and Iw as taking notes. NO, I was not exposing my chest, I went out of my way NOT TO, by NOT using his desk to write on when I was standing - I wrote on my hand instead, continued to stand. I was not bending over, as I said, that would have been too much. Even a modest top (that's not too low cut, which is what I was wearing) would have been too revealing if I had bent over to use his desk! So I didn't...but still, he was looking away. Thanks to the last person -- you're right, it should have been under Singles and Dating! I just posted it there.
Please, can someone who actually knows what their talking about answer this question on Body language? Please. Will you give me big, easy signs on attraction and non-attraction, for highschool girls. This is not a lame question, there is a girl I talk to , and I don't know what she is saying. She is really shy. Any help on what to look for? ps. she usually folds her hands in a light fist under her chin when I talk to her, while standing. ? haha, yea I know, I am not ready for a relationship yet, so I won't ask that, I don't really see her alot, I've tried to set up movies with her and her best friend, but that never works, I'm still trying. The answers here are far more helpful. I appreciate most of the lower answers. Thanks alot. I will take most all of this into serious consideration.
Is it possible to fake body language? I've known a man who, I know, had virtually only one wish - to have sex with me. What is disturbing me is his body language. I've read that particular signs, such as locking each other's fingers, touching with heads (not when kissing) etc., usually mean deeper feelings, not only physical attraction. I could think that he knows about these signs and deliberately shows them to me, however I'm almost100percent sure, he has no idea about body language... On the other hand, I'm also sure that all he feels for me is "sex, bed,f...". Maybe, except little sympathy.. Please, tell what you think about this.
What is the meaning of the body language of "holding hands" and "kissing on the forehead". Could they just be from pure intention? Or do they convey attraction or love?
For a man how important is a woman physical apperance based on the attraction criteria can it be in percentage? 55% body language, 38% style of speaking and 7% on what you actually say. Eg iphysical appearance about 50%, body language 25%, 19% style of speaking and 6% for what you actually say?
URGENT Body Language question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking?
How do I know these are signs of attraction? So we "know" that, in general, when girls are attracted to a guy, they will point a foot at them maybe, they will smile at them, they will keep a conversation going, they will give long answers to questions, they will point their shoulders at the guy, their pupils will dilate (kill me, but I don't know how I'm supposed to watch for the radius of a girl's pupils expanding by 1mm while trying to listen to her at the same time, but anyways), they will play with their hair, etc. So there's a girl that gives me most of these signs. But my problem is, how do I know she doesn't just see me as a friend? Wouldn't she do all these things when she's talking to her girlfriends? I mean, what, is she going to cross her elbows, be unresponsive, and not smile at a friend? Is there specific body language for attraction? Maybe touching? She hasn't really done that, but she is also very shy, so you know how that can go...
GIRLS: What are your favorite body language for flirting? When you like a guy and when your near him what are some secret languages you show that you have an attraction for him.
Important Body Language question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
Some attractive body language? So ive got this lesson on body language. And ive committed myself to follow these steps. So far ive improved in these ways I walk tall and straight with a confident look on my face I stand striaght with my shoulders laid back Hands to my side, never hiding them When im sitting down Im not sure where to put my hands. How should i postion them to convey attraction? And how about talking? How should i move my hands?
Reading her Body Language when we are Alone? Whenever I hug this girl I like, she drops her head so that it rests upon my shoulder. Is it cause she trusts me or is avoiding a kiss?? Ive never had any other girl do it. How can I tell if its attraction or not?
Is there a deceptive body language? At my gym there is a guy and have noticed him looking at me and looking at me even while i am walking on the treadmill.however i never payed any heed...Do u think this itself is a signal of him liking me as u nowadays boys check all girls and try to flirt ..Also at a gym where u get conscious it becomes difficult to know who's thinking what?Are there any other clues or some kind of indirect body language which can make an attraction more obvious
how do i know it if my bf. is physicaly attraccted to me while sitting in a cafe through body language? body language singns of man's attraction....?i want soooo many answers;-)
What body languages should I look for in women that would suggestion attraction? There are ladies that would smile at me constantly while I am talking to them or when I make eye contact. They would play with their hair alot and look surprised if I catch them offguard. Are these good signals?
How did you learn about body language and "signals" and, God forbid, vibes? In the context of my unsuccessful dating life, whenever I ask a question, evryone talks about "maybe you're not showing him that your available", maybe it's the vibe you're giving off, it's your body language. Where did you learn about these rules of attraction? It seems evryon knows about their importance but me. My mother and friends never told me about any of this stuff yet somehow, evryoe else - exept me - seems to know instinctively about non-verbal signs that are exchanged between opposite sexes. I think most of the time peple are reading my intentions incorrectly from my body language. They are certainly not receiving the messages I want them to receive. I'm trying to appear mor approachbale but even guys who I know like me won't approach me for a date. What gives? It's very frustrating.
What body languages or verbal comments should I look for in women, that would suggest attraction? When you just met a complete stranger. For example meeting someone at the grocery store.
Is body language reliable with women? I found out through a mutual friend a girl I work with likes me. I had no clue, because whenever we spoke her eyes literally looked sideways. I thought "deep eye contact" meant attraction? Huh? Also, if she was talking to someone and I came by, she'd immediately leave. Why would someone who likes me not want to be around me, and not look me in the eye? Do you know? P.S. she isn't shy in the least.
Observing attraction clues? Some people would be able to sense if someone was attracted to them through hints in behaviour, unfortunately i get confused a lot! So i really need your help! but if you were to list body language/behaviour of attraction, especially for lesbians- how would you make distinctions between listed signs of flirting compared to signs of a deeper attraction? And if someone looks at you or talks to you whilst chewing their fingernail, what does it mean> is it due to nervousness or would you say its a seductive sign?
Ladies: Showing physical attraction...? Ladies: I'm trying to pick up body language from other women to see if they show physical attraction. Besides the 'most obvious' signs of physical attraction... are there women who show 'subtle signs of physical attraction without making it obvious? For example... OBVIOUS = A girl who is smiling too much.. staring.. glaring... staring more... smiling more... giving lots of winks... giggling... SUBTLE= A girl who looks once and holds her gaze until a guy catches her looking then she looks away. But the guy looks at her again and sees her looking at him then she looks away. Then it happens a third time. Does this mean the 'subtle girl' is also interested in the guy but is shy? The 'SUBTLE' situation happened to me today at a restaurant but I feel like I may be over analyzing. Am I wrong?
How do girls show their attraction for another guy? I know flirting, but any other ones? Body language? Use of smiling or laughing? GIRLS ONLY! =) ........................
lesbian flirting/attraction? What are typical signs of lesbian flirting and what are lesbian body language signs of attraction?
how to attract a guy???????? what are some ways to attract guys. like say if your sitting with your friends in a group and there is another group of just guys next to you, how can you attract them and make them talk to you? like some body language attractions???
what kind of relationship does this sound like? i hung out with this girl a couple of nights ago and we had a good time. she said she loved talking to me and was glad that she shared the night with me but she also said i was one of her heterosexual friends. anyways she said she wants to talk alot online and said it would be cool if i called her. she showed some signs of attraction through body language but she showed more towards my friend. she also asked me to hang out and didnt invite the other guy along. the two days after we hung out i felt alot of good feelings towards her but i havent been able to see her since. does this sound like a friendship that could possibly lead into something else? my feelings for her were mild but while in that state of mind she was the most beautiful person ive ever met. anybody have any insight into my situation?
Women feel different level of physical attraction towards different men? 1. when looking or in the company of a man a woman gives out positve body language( running had through hair, bite lips ,look in his eyes, etc) 2. when being with another man she does the same as above 3. Yet she will sleep only with the second man . Does this imply that a woman may find a man attractive to a certian extent , but not enough to sleep with him. Despite similar body language 4. and iam implying that both men earn equal money , have similar emotional connection with the woman , have equal socail status and are equal on every other count
Attraction? Do women who like other women show their initial attraction differently than they would show it to a man they were attracted to? You know, body language, flirty behaviour, etc...
He acts so weird... Do shy guys get THAT nervous? My crush that I think likes me because even my sister and brother feels that he does too has been acting rather.. unseen lately. He's normally very outgoing and friendly with everyone, but with me it's a different story. I'm always the one to approach him, never the other way around, and when we talk he makes effort to carry on convo but of course its small talk and awkward silences atimes. I see body language of attraction, leaning towards me, a smile etc. He even remembered a compliment i gave him the week before, and repeated it the week after, well tried lol. But I feel like he just completely avoids talking to me although he has an opportunity to talk to me. He'll see me from afar but when passing me doesn't even take a gander. Atimes it just feels like he hates me although I've given him no reason to and it probably isn't the case, but just feels like it cuz of the way he acts. It frustrates me cuz I know how outgoing and sociable he can be, is he intimidated??
Why is this not covered in sex ed? things like...? Seeing how the most common questions here are how to get guys /girls to like you, how do tell if some one likes you. How do you ask them out? What to do date wise... What does it mean whaen a girl does this or that or a guy. Why are things like attraction, dating, body language, why guys and girls commonly atracted to certian things (ie girls muscells, guys skimpy clothes), signals etc not covered in sex ed with sex ed covering many lessions... Also how to handle relatioships, things like if you best mate gets a boyfriend and you are left on own or not neglecting mate. Who to handle it whebn you get dumped or nice ways to separate and all that sort of stuff to stop people being hurt or missing out. Help people fall in love not get rejected or miss out. Give help which may help furture relstioships... Show girls that guys dont understand all the signs and hints etc and wont know how you feel unless you tell them. Plus other things like buys will be facinated by girls breasts... they cant help it. Both guys and girls toss off... girls will prefer things that vibrate. They are not perves or freaks... and no you dont get blind or hairy palms. That its fine for girls to ask guys out and make the first moves and that most decent guys will be very happy as they were bricking it trying to work out how to ask out the girl. Approapiate things for 14,15,16,17 year olds to be doing along the 1st,2,nd, 3rd (3rd levels 1,2,3) and fouth base and being realisitic too. etc Save us having to do it The pressure to grow up is there no matter what... Stuiff like this would actually take all the stress out of it... ie they wont be stressing on how to ask someone out... they will just do it. And things wont keep going worng and they will be better able to do it. And yes you include if you are ever in the least bit worried something went wrong sex wise that may put you in the slightest danger of getting pregnant... you go and run and get a morning after pill bnot waste 3 days asking questions here till too late. Likewise why are not all the you can get pregnant if the guy pulls out, standing up, on period, first time, if sperm on fingers, if he shoots over your girlie bits etc etc. And no (people actually believed this) tying a luminous watch arround you will will not stop a girl getting pregnant by the radiation in the paint killing the sperm on the way out... thats total bollocks and would only result in a girl being sore if it scrated her, the watch comming off ****************** How many times do you see kids asking the same stuff here? *************************** quote ' all those things u will pick up on the way thru life, it is hard but u will learn xx ' Many clearly do not simply pick up things... Many stuggle and end up very lonley and hurt ending up slitting their wrists or becoming annorexic or turning to alcohol or drugs as can't cope... They are not stupid maybe good with computers, machines, science etc But dont pick up social things so easy and cannot learn unless successful in their first place to get a girlfirned... then fall behind and never catch up as everyone is ahead then get slated for trying to date those much younger as they are the onely ones on the same emotional/expereice level, Hence all the lonley hearts and hurt folk... And as said many end up suicdal as a result or end up in abusive realtioshisp, or loose mates and all sorts of hurt as can't cope and not shown how to deal with all of this. .
Signs he might like me? What are some signs of attraction using body language? I Will award points ASAP
What are displays of attraction? Men Please? What body language signs or cues does a man give off when he is attracted and or/ nervous?
Do you think she likes me? Well the other day I had called my ex crushes 2nd best friend abotu my crush and we talked for about 20 mins from 8-8:20 then at 8:30 she called back and used the excuse "I feel like I left the wrong impression" and we talked from 8:30-10:30 Anyways despite the fact that the topic was a little awkward the conversation was kinda fun She subconciously flirts (not all body language is dictated by your mood) We occasionally hold eye contact We seem to like each other (I know I like her) but she seems to keep on hinting at her not wanting to liek me (she expresses attraction through body language however this could only be her natural friendliness) (she hasnt said anything about it but from answers to other questions people say that we seem not to want to liek each other but do anyways) Anyways we are 13 and share many classes Btw it wasnt my ex I called her abotu It was my former crush (A girl I used to like) And it turns otu that girl didnt like me so I am nto goign to waste time on it all Btw it wasnt my ex I called her abotu It was my former crush (A girl I used to like) And it turns otu that girl didnt like me so I am nto goign to waste time on it all
Sexual or Physical attraction? What kind of body language does a guy give off when he's sexually or physically attractive to a woman?
Women: Initial Attraction? So there I was in a suit.. feeling good and proud of myself today after nailing a couple of interviews. I was marching with pride. Glowing with confidence... and as always... there were the ladies S..T...A...R...I..N...G ! (aka staring!). Sometimes such attention make you proud. A couple kept eye contact... and smiled with that cute snicker then looked away. Others said, "Ohhh, nice suit you wearing today." A few looked shyly then left passing me at the same time brushing their hair. I don't know if these are great indicators but I think we have a lot of shy women in this country. They keep to themselves. You know? Oh, such attention is an ego boost! really! There was this one girl who i occasionally spotted as being shy around me and also glancing my way and looking sometimes and smiling a bit. I could tell because everytime I met her gaze she would slowly look down and then smile to herself. So I'm thinking should we really pay attention to a woman's body language?
Ladies: Is this initial attraction? So there I was in a suit.. feeling good and proud of myself today after nailing a couple of interviews. I was marching with pride. Glowing with confidence... and as always... there were the ladies S..T...A...R...I..N...G ! (aka staring!). Sometimes such attention make you proud. A couple kept eye contact... and smiled with that cute snicker then looked away. Others said, "Ohhh, nice suit you wearing today." A few looked shyly then left passing me at the same time brushing their hair. I don't know if these are great indicators but I think we have a lot of shy women in this country. They keep to themselves. You know? Oh, such attention is an ego boost! really! There was this one girl who i occasionally spotted as being shy around me and also glancing my way and looking sometimes and smiling a bit. I could tell because everytime I met her gaze she would slowly look down and then smile to herself. So I'm thinking should we really pay attention to a woman's body language? Great advice everyone! and to LISTA - yes, I do get this much attention even without the suit. So it has happened to me occasionally.
How can I get over the love of my life punishing me? Ok, here is my problem...unrequited love. I am gay. I met this guy 8 months ago who is a Barista in a coffee shop. He is 15 years younger than me. I am 35. He is 20. When we first met I immediately felt a chemistry of sexual attraction. I have excellent gaydar and always have. After getting to know him I believed he was discreetly gay or Bi. I am intelligent enough that I don’t stereotype people ever. I was in the closet until I met him and chose to come out to him thinking he might do the same and want to do something together. On two occasions when we were alone for a couple of minutes, he sent out signals or body language making me suspect he was gay. It was not flirting. He was pulling up his shirt and telling me to feel his muscles and bending down by me closely wrapping his arms around my legs showing me wrestling moves. This is a guy who does not like other people touching him by the way. Another time he was bending over giving me an *** shot then turning around and just staring at me for a few minutes. SO, we have become friends over this 8 month period and I have fallen in love with him. I was silent about how I felt about him until just a few weeks ago. He told me he was not in love with me because he is straight. I have been stuck with the uncertainty of these signals wondering if he was being cruel or just playing hi and low with my emotions. This is a guy who paints his toenails pink and wears them openly with sandals at work, his mom thinks he is gay, tells me when he sees a hot guy saying ‘dude he is hot’... He also tells me he loves the male physique but not in a sexual way because he is secure in his sexuality and has told me he has ****** two other guys 4 or 5 years ago. I think he could be bisexual, but he says your either gay or straight. So he met this woman who is 25. This woman he met is a student psychologist. I have seen a major change in him as if she controls him like a puppy on a leash. He claims after he had sex with her that he definately knew he was straight after having doubts about his sexuality for years. They have been living together for 4 months now. Him and his girlfriend are the only ones I have told I am gay. He promised me he will never tell anyone I am gay. He is really cocky and arrogant now and neglects all of his friends and family. His whole life just revolves around him and her 99% of the time. Now that he has moved in with her, he brags about the sex marathons and it just kills me. He knows I am in love with him and it pains me to see the two of them together. She also knows that I am in love with him and pours it on thick when they are around me. I have come to know him as my best friend. I feel for him 2 months before she came into the picture. However, he told me he loves me as a friend and that is as far as it will go. He says he is totally comfortable with me being gay. I have accepted this painful reality. He has told me age is just a number and he has lots of friends different ages. So our 15 year age gap is not even an issue with him. This I know for sure. So, I shift to the friendship part of this. I have put 8 long months into this friendship and thousands of dollars I have given to him and lots of great gifts because I truly love him as my best friend. I even give him a ride home after he gets off work all the time only to drop him off at her apartment. I have spent hundreds on gas just driving 20 miles to see him and 20 miles home. I always text him at least 3 times a week or come in to help him close at work and clean up the dirt and filth of the day while he counts the till. He says all his time goes to his girlfriend and I understand that. He said all he has time for me is to just sit and talk for an hour or so. So we sat down and had a long talk which he told me his heart was not in it to be best friends with me and afterwards I became very emotional and broke down and stormed off angry. Every since then he is ignoring me, not answering calls or texts, or anything knowing how bad I am hurting. My heart is broken and I feel so used and alone. Looking back he always accepted my gifts and money but never called me once to do anything friends do or initiated any texts unless it was a question about her. How can I get over this man who I am so in love with and heal my broken split in half heart? This was not infatuation but true love and man does this hurt. Oh, I can’t get him out of my life because he still has a room at a mutual friend of ours house that he has not completely moved out of and wants to keep it as a place to “hang his hat” as he says if he ever needs to. My life has been turned upside down. I can’t sleep or anything else without thinking of him. My heart hurts so bad and I have cried enough tears to fill a lake. It doesn’t seem like he even cares about me as a friend as his omission of silence is so cruel. I am being punished by him for expressing my true feelings and who I am as a human being and it hurts. I feel like a piece of discarded garbage. Please help...NO HATERS...SERIOUS ANSWERS FOR A HURTING HEART PLEASE!
URGENT Body Language Question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
URGENT Body Language Question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
URGENT Body Language Question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
URGENT body language question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
URGENT Body Language Question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
Urgent Body Language Question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
Urgent Body Language Question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
IMPORTANT Body Language Question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
What does this body language move mean? I was talking to this guy in an office, for about 40 minutes and having very good eye contact, he acted as if he was hanging on to my every word. I did the same thing and I actually caught him looking down at my chest then back in my eyes...It's been pretty clear that there's a lot of attraction there. As I got up to leave, we continued talking and I went to take notes of what he was saying, writing on my paper and steadying it on my hand (because I was wearing a low cut shirt and bending over to write on his desk would have...well, been too much.:)). When I looked up at him after taking notes (now I was standing), he was steadily looking to his left, with a half smile on his face...It was as if he had been looking at me the whole time but didn't want me to see it! It happened twice. Do guys try hard NOT to stare at a woman they find attractive (when the attraction is clearly prohibited, as in this case)? I know he's attracted to me, just not what the looking away to his side means. No, there was nothing to lie about, he was just giving me his professional opinion and Iw as taking notes. NO, I was not exposing my chest, I went out of my way NOT TO, by NOT using his desk to write on when I was standing - I wrote on my hand instead, continued to stand. I was not bending over, as I said, that would have been too much. Even a modest top (that's not too low cut, which is what I was wearing) would have been too revealing if I had bent over to use his desk! So I didn't...but still, he was looking away. HAHAHA...I was standing up because I was leaving! He's the one who kept the conversation going and giving me more details to write about...That was funny, thanks! :)
Reading her Body Language when we are Alone? Whenever I hug this girl I like, she drops her head so that it rests upon my shoulder. Is it cause she trusts me or is avoiding a kiss?? Ive never had any other girl do it. How can I tell if its attraction or not?
lesbian flirting/attraction? What are typical signs of lesbian flirting and what are lesbian body language signs of attraction?
Girls: sounds kind of weird...but is avoidence a sign of attraction? I've noticed that some girls will show signs of ignorance when they pass me, like look away, or pull out thier cellphone and check the time, or do the "scratch the side of the face while looking the other way" thing...I've even had some girls that will be looking all over the place and then look staright ahead as they pass me to aviod eye contact? I guess Im horible at reading body language. I just want to know if girls will avoid eye contact if they like a guy? Secondly, If a girl if avoiding eye contact, how would you feel is the best way to grab her attention? I feel like a "hey" might work but It might also be creepy.
please somebody review this english my secongd language? INTEGRATION OF LOVE AND SCIENCE Jeanette Winterson, in the book written on the body, used the language of science to integrate love and science. At the beginning of the book on (pg9), she used science of weather to explain the dryness, narrating how tree were growing their root deep into the dry ground, and not producing grapes. She relates this when she wrote, “Not this year the pleasure of rolling blue grapes between the finger and thumb juicing my palm with musk.” Here she used word pleasure meaning love. On (pg18), she used the word quantum physicist when she tells of infinite pleasure and time without end. Here she is comparing love with time and the importance of love and time. She also used the month June On (pg 20) which she describes as moist, looking for love. She also said on (pg 26) “I open the can of lentils and listen to ‘science now’ on the wireless.” She in the book describe Jacqueline her lover who was working in the Zoo and comparing how Jacqueline was treating her like big cat, and was proud of her. This incorporate, wildlife science with real love, experienced by lover’s everyday. Science of doctors is also used in the book, to heighten to the readers the integration with love. When she talk of Bathsheba who was a dentist, (pg25) she wrote she could not predict romance in a woman, because of the love she had with Bathsheba. She wrote about the science of bio molecular and the chemical bond formed comparing it with the union between lovers. Here she meant Louise, Elgin wife. Elgin was a doctor, who worked in Switzerland scientific laboratory, where he uses computer science for his study of diseases and cell multiplications, where he saw gene therapy as sexy, thus integrating love with science of medicine. In addition, his dad worked as chemist and owned a chemist shop, and his mum died of cancer. Jeanette Winterson also integrated language of science with love, when she talks of clap clinics (pg20) describing venereal diseases, which are associated with love, and love making. Also, her talk of Nitric acid, cloning acid, which as her mention is used For cloning lovers, cleaning the past, and making the future of love fresh. She wonders also what causes, or the force that attracts people towards each other’s. She tries to answer by assuming chemistry or biological drive plays the roll to choose the good lover. This proves how she put science in love or love in science, making them one to one partners. She explains science of Cell division (mitosis) which spearheads the body growth, and maintaining healthy body by replacing worn out cell. Here, she explains Louise health condition, because Louise is diagnosed with leukemia: multiplication of white blood cell in her body in large number, which results to tremendous danger of the body. She curves the love she wonders whether she can go inside Louise and block the mass production of the cell. This She wonder because of the love for Louise She had. The books also discuss about the naked eye, which cannot see the cell of the body without the aid of tools. Love language integrated by telling how she has enjoyed seeing the parts of her naked body, calling thee body “landing strip.” Mouth is discussed when the book narrate the lining and how well the narrator know Louise mouth through kissing. In the mouth she talk of teeth which “after sex you tiger –tear your food…” this show how well the language of love and science is well used in the book. Cavity, She discuss it by starting with the phrase “let me penetrate you “here She talk of how Louise was smart and how She was fond of her, and how She has held Louise head with desire to excavate her skin. She also talks of her eyes, ears, nostril, cheekbones and the hair. Science is used to show how much she loved Louise, when in the book her talk of herself being inside all Louise body cavity. Skin, dermis and Epidermis discussed using love language when she tell how dead cell protect body from attack, and compare her to outside attack. Thus, telling of her skin taste when she runs her tongue on her body and the hair on breast. Love is integrated when She talk of how their skin with Louise are sensitive f heir touching one another, and their body bruises of making love. SHE also integrate love and science when She talk of clavicle/collar bone, calling it “the largest sexual attraction” the narrator choose the science as way of proofing, how She integrated love with science in a sense to proofing how Louise body was amazing and erotic to her. This embracing science and love proved how well the narrator integrated both.
If a female is looking at you and does a slight toss with her hair is it a subconcious sign of attraction? I've been reading things about body language and i saw something about flipping hair. it was saying if the female loks at you and flips her hair it can be that she's doing it without realizing because she wants the person to notice her. would it count if i was scanning a room and i saw her staring at me and in the same instant she did a slight toss of with her hair? when she did it i got this feeling of openeness as if she was saying "i'm open" the first time i saw her i was staring so hard so she realized i wasn't giving her a casual look. she then started sitting at the table behind mine and when the teacher called my name for attendance out the corner of my eye i saw her head turn in my direction mine which made me wonder. the last time she sat there as i was walking by she was taking her seat and i saw her looking up at me when i was looking at her i was the only one turned around....it was her face staring in my direction that made me look at her before i turned around. her hair wasn't in her eyes i'm positive...she had just gotten it done
women feel different level of physical attraction towards different men? 1. when looking or in the company of a man a woman gives out positve body language( running had through hair, bite lips ,look in his eyes, etc) 2. when being with another man she does the same as above 3. Yet she will sleep only with the second man . Does this imply that a woman may find a man attractive to a certian extent , but not enough to sleep with him. Despite similar body language
If a female is looking at you and does a slight toss with her hair is it a subconcious sign of attraction? I've been reading things about body language and i saw something about flipping hair. it was saying if the female looks at you and flips her hair it can be that she's doing it without realizing because she wants the person to notice her. would it count if i was scanning a room and i saw her staring at me and in the same instant she did a slight toss with her hair? when she did it i got this feeling of openeness as if she was saying "i'm open".the first time i saw her i was staring so hard so she realized i wasn't giving her a casual look. she then started sitting at the table behind mine and when the teacher called my name for attendance out the corner of my eye i saw her head turn in my direction mine which made me wonder. the last time she sat there as i was walking by she was taking her seat and i saw her looking up at me but i played it off as if i didn't notice. no her hair wasn't in her eye...matter of fact i was the only person turned around in front. the only reason i noticed her was because i saw her staring in my direction....i didn't even know she was in the room
Important Body Language Question? Ok, so on Saturday I'm approaching the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen and already know what I'm gonna say. I'm doing it in church and have no idea what her name is or anything about her. I just wanna make sure I know if the conversation will be going good or bad. We already made eye contact before and smiled at each other for 2 seconds then she looked down......which I heard means there's attraction. My question is what types of body language should I be looking for to know that she's into me while were talking? I'm 18 by the way.
rules of attraction? what are your body languages like can you tell if someone likes you. in psycholgy it has been said that women give off more hints do you thing this is true
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What does it mean if a girl folds her hands under her chin in a light fist while standing? No stupid answers, if you dont' have a good answer then don't write anything. - no her head is not heavy! have read a few articles on body language but I still don't know for sure what stuff means. Maybe I don't see her often enough to know. She is really shy toward most everyone, any suggestions on what her body language would be for both attraction and non-attraction? Do you know of any big easy signs that I can look for? There are so many small ones that I don't know what she's saying. Seriously think about it don't just write on a whim. I usually only answer questions that I think are relevant and that I could help. Do me the same courtesy won't you. Yea thanks buddy, you've really enlightened me I'll stop trying to do what's natural and "enjoy life" dude, I'm not overanalyzing, I enjoy most of life, if you don't have anything intelligent to say, don't say it, you only make yourself look stupid, even if your anonymous. ps. if you ever have any q's I'll answer them the best I can, because I'm not a "butthead" I have a very regularly shaped head thank you very much. Yea thanks buddy, you've really enlightened me I'll stop trying to do what's natural and "enjoy life" dude, I'm not overanalyzing, I enjoy most of life, if you don't have anything intelligent to say, don't say it, you only make yourself look stupid, even if your anonymous. ps. if you ever have any q's I'll answer them the best I can, because I'm not a "butthead" I have a very regularly shaped head thank you very much. It's not thinking too much when a simple person hides what they mean in complicated silence. Surfergirl, I will be more than happy to answer your question, but, A. you havn't asked it yet, B. I won't be here long enough to answer it within like 8 hours, and C. I can't email you to keep in contact. But all of you can email me.
Would it be okay to do additional things after the café? I’m meeting this one girl on Saturday around 6pm who I met last weekend through 2 friends (girls) who told me she wanted to meet me but never got a chance too. We hit it off pretty well and based on our physical contact and attraction, I think she likes me, her body language + verbal was all good. Since we really didn’t get to talk much at the club/restaurant with everyone there, I asked her to meet up to get to know each other a little more, she wanted the same based on what I heard from my friends and her reaction to me bringing that up. I offered to pick her up but she seemed unsure of what she wanted, so we decided to just meet up at the café. Afterwards, if things go well and we’re having a great time, would it be okay if I brought up hey we should drop your car off and go somewhere in mine? What kind of things can we do? Should I call her and say hey I’ll just pick you up or avoid that since we already have it set? Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Coffee date, what are the rules? I’m meeting this one girl on Saturday around 6pm who I met last weekend through 2 friends (girls) who told me she wanted to meet me but never got a chance too. We hit it off pretty well and based on our physical contact and attraction, I think she likes me, her body language + verbal was all good. Since we really didn’t get to talk much at the club/restaurant with everyone there, I asked her to meet up to get to know each other a little more, she wanted the same based on what I heard from my friends and her reaction to me bringing that up. I offered to pick her up but she seemed unsure of what she wanted, so we decided to just meet up at the café. Afterwards, if things go well and we’re having a great time, would it be okay if I brought up hey we should drop your car off and go somewhere in mine? What kind of things can we do? Should I call her and say hey I’ll just pick you up or avoid that since we already have it set? Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Crushing on a professor!? I know this has been played out a million times, but I need to tell someone and I am too embaressed to tell my friends. I have a major crush on my French professor and sometimes I feel like he has an attraction too. Someone said pay attention to body language and often he stands right in front of my desk when asking questions. Also, almost always when we start class or start a new exercise he asks me the first question, and I sit in a random seat so it doesn't really make sense for him to ask me all of the time. After practically every question I feel like he looks at me and makes eye contact, and of all the students he calls on me most (and it's extremely rare that I raise my hand). Why do you think he does this? I doubt that I would ever act on my feelings (especially not while he is still my teacher) but I just think that he may be trying to be a little flirty without being too obvious. What do you think, am I overanalyzing or does that seem a little out of the ordinary? I just want to add that I am in college, not high school and he will not be my professor anymore when the semester is over (in like a month). Also, I am only 21 but I am living on my own, paying rent and bills, and working so I feel that I am at least a little more mature than others my age.
Would it be okay to do additional things after the café? I’m meeting this one girl on Saturday around 6pm who I met last weekend through 2 friends (girls) who told me she wanted to meet me but never got a chance too. We hit it off pretty well and based on our physical contact and attraction, I think she likes me, her body language + verbal was all good. Since we really didn’t get to talk much at the club/restaurant with everyone there, I asked her to meet up to get to know each other a little more, she wanted the same based on what I heard from my friends and her reaction to me bringing that up. I offered to pick her up but she seemed unsure of what she wanted, so we decided to just meet up at the café. Afterwards, if things go well and we’re having a great time, would it be okay if I brought up hey we should drop your car off and go somewhere in mine? What kind of things can we do? Should I call her and say hey I’ll just pick you up or avoid that since we already have it set? Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What happens when......? a guy is married and a woman is married (separate relationships), but this guy and this woman have an intense attraction to each other? They barely speak but the body language and eye contact tells on them. Neither would ever go any further with it. EVER! They both would love to in their own minds and the sexual part of it would be fabulous because its been burning for a long time, or even just a kiss the passion would be tremendous but it won't ever happen!!! How do you forget if its always there? Just wondering nothing personal
what does this mean? ok so this really good guy friend of mine whom i like and i were working in chemistry and these girls started teasing him about how he says my name every 2 seconds and he was like i only say her name all the time........ because i'm bored. and the girls were like yah right right. this went on 4 awhile and i tried 2 ignore it untill i started laughing really hard and the guy stormed off. so yah....does this mean anything or am i overanalyzing? he DOES say my name seriously every other minute so what do u think?o and if 2 people who r sitting next 2 each other cross their legs toward each other and their body language is geared toward each other does that mean theres an attraction or something?
Coffee date, what are the rules? I’m meeting this one girl on Saturday around 6pm who I met last weekend through 2 friends (girls) who told me she wanted to meet me but never got a chance too. We hit it off pretty well and based on our physical contact and attraction, I think she likes me, her body language + verbal was all good. Since we really didn’t get to talk much at the club/restaurant with everyone there, I asked her to meet up to get to know each other a little more, she wanted the same based on what I heard from my friends and her reaction to me bringing that up. I offered to pick her up but she seemed unsure of what she wanted, so we decided to just meet up at the café. Afterwards, if things go well and we’re having a great time, would it be okay if I brought up hey we should drop your car off and go somewhere in mine? What kind of things can we do? Should I call her and say hey I’ll just pick you up or avoid that since we already have it set? Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Females Can you tell a real man from a wimp in a short matter of time? The reason why I asked this is someone told me that women believe it or not can tell more about a man than he even knows about himself based on how she perceives him. An example, body language, way a man talks (confidence), shy, if he's boring or exciting to be around. I guess it's a vibe that they feel. Like they can tell if other females are attracted to you based on how she feels an attraction for you. She just knows if you're a ladies man or not...simply put! Also, females if a man were to fulfill your fantasy no matter what it may be? Not just anyman, can fulfill them...there has to be an attraction between you and him to even allow this to happen do you agree? In other words, if I said I'll fulfill your fantasy but you have no attraction for me, you wouldn't want me to fulfill it, you'd prefer another guy with the right attraction correct? Anyway, tell me how your opinion on all this, it can be long or short answers. I'm all ears! I like hearing what the females have to say too!
What to do about friend? About six years back my friend "Ted" was hooked up with my Best Friend "Jane". When Ted and Jane were first dating, you could tell by their body language that they were both completely into each other. Ted was giddy with his attraction to Jane. After they've been married for about four years and had a kid, they've both seemed less attracted than before. Jane has stopped sexual activity all together and it's frustrating Ted. She even told him to stop staring at her boobs when she bathed! When me and our mutual friends took Ted out one night to cheer him up, a really hot guy started flirting with him and, surprise, Ted got that giddiness he had when he was first dating Jane. We have come to the conclusion that Ted isn't actually attracted to the person, but the kinkiness (long story, less than 100 characters left). Now, my main question is... with things going so obviously wrong, should I try and promote a mutual break? And... which one should I support, Ted or Jane? Edit: I don't think it's very fair to just abandon two dear friends because it's "their stuff". Would you stand by and let your child run into a wall because it's their problem?
?confused with these 2 guys? alright, so there are these 2 quite attractive guys (brothers) that i know. we'll call them guy #1 and guy #2. guy #1 and guy #2 both show what (could) be signs of attraction to me. for example~~~ guy #1: stares/ glances alot, seems excited when i am around, positive body language (points his body at me if i am around) guy #2: stares/ glances alot, seems to be where ever i am more often than not, grins if i smile at him but most of the time, i feel like its one or the other, like one day i'll feel its guy #1 all the way but the next day im not so sure about guy #1 and guy #2 looks like the one. so im actually wondering a few things... do you guys think its one, or the other, or both? or do you know a way that i can casually, non-chalantly find out which one it really is on my own? whether its either of them at all? thank you guys so much :) <3
Interaction difference between friends and something more? As boys seem to be communicationally inept, we girls often have to read the body language and see signs that a boy is digging you in the initial stages of attraction. But, as seems to be the case with me, such judgment doesn't work in my own, personal scenarios. I can read a guy who is interested in my friend IMMEDIATELY. Yet, I'm oblivious to flirting that is hoisted my way. So, boys and girls, are there sure fire signs that he is beyond the friend zone? (Examples: We wrestle around a lot, he playing teases me--friends, right? But then, we went to dinner together and he got out of his car to come and hug me the other day--something more? Maybe?)
confused about 2 guys...? sorry this is so long... alright, so there are these 2 quite attractive guys (brothers) that i know. we'll call them guy #1 and guy #2. guy #1 and guy #2 both show me what (could) be signs of attraction to me. for example~~~ guy #1: stares/ glances alot, seems really happy when i am around, like jumpy/excited happy, positive body language (points his body at me if i am around) guy #2: stares/ glances alot, seems to be where ever i am more often than not, grins if i smile at him, rubs his chin ALOT if iam near but most of the time, i feel like its one or the other, like one day i'll feel its guy #1 all the way but the next day im not so sure about guy #1 and guy #2 looks like he's obsessed. lol. so im actually wondering a few things... do you guys think its one, or the other, or both? or do you know a way that i can casually, non-chalantly find out which one it really is on my own? whether its either of them at all? thank you guys so much :) <3
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