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What are some examples of sexual body language? that a guy does when interested?

what are some examples of sexual body language? interested!!!

women and sexual body language? Would a women sit right next to you with her legs wide open and right next to your leg? I mean is this flirting

Male sexual body language? any examples?

How is body language an important part of sexual expression ? Please explain this. for example... they flirt with ppl, " hair flip " , show they r interested or trying to get attention .. any other ideass ? thanks :)

“How can you create sexual attraction through body language?

body language? sexual? loss of interest? i forgot to add in my previous post that it is my boyfriend of 4 years we don't see each other often because we are trying to stay abstinent and it is about 1 year now, well mostly i am bc if i give in hes ready lol.... ok so i seen him after a while and i was wearing something sexy on top, but he kept talking about my top every couple minutes, and yes he tried touching me but i was playing games like dont touch me... but he had work in the morning and was tired from over hours but seemed quite in a hurry to get home? before i was leaving we kissed and he started touching more but he stopped himself and said "time to go"... im like ???? is it me? uninterest or what is it? im a little confused because he only stayed with me for an hour and if it is because i teased him then why after i let him kiss and touch he stopped me in the middle of it?

what is his body language? sexual? or loss of interest? Ok me and my boyfriend don't see each other often because we are trying to stay abstinent, well mostly i am bc if i give in hes ready lol.... ok so i seen him after a while and i was wearing something sexy on top, but he kept talking about my top every couple minutes, and yes he tried touching me but i was playing games like dont touch me... but he had work in the morning and was tired from over hours but seemed quite in a hurry to get home? before i was leaving we kissed and he started touching more but he stopped himself and said "time to go"... im like ???? is it me? uninterest or what is it? im a little confused this is my bf of 4 yrs by the way we decided to stay abstinent for 1 yr now

What was the first body part you learned to say in a foreign language? I speak a little Russian and the first one I learned was "Polovoy Shlen", or "Sexual Member" (penis). I obviously didn't learn in school! You guys suck! If you're gonna learn a new language I say pick one ya want, not just because it's required for second semester, or whatever, and of course learn the words you like best first. And I think most people probably look at gross body parts and cuss words.

Omg this girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!? I'm in 8th grade and me and his girl liked way other since like 6th grade. Now we are claimed to be just friends but I feel we still like each other. She does things like giving me sexual body language during class and she texts me and stuff. But she always texts and flirts with my best friend!!! She told me she doesn't like him but the whole class and even the teacher does! I think they both know it bothers me but they do it anyway. It almost seems as if they are trying to get me mad or jealous. Idk what to do. I dont think I should play the same game they're playing but idk what ever it takes to get all of this I will do. Pls help

How can you spot sexual..................? tension between two friends? Do they act hostile at times? And what is the difference between sexual tension between two people and just flirting? Can you spot the difference from body language etc?

question about women and body language??? confused o0 10 points? ok so i was just wondering if women show sexual body language just because they know that will get a guys attention or it is differnet than the normal way they try to get a guys attention. im talking about myself: situations such as>> streching out many times acting as if she wanted to keep reaching out and touch me where i was sitting (next to her) then she crossed her legs towards me and started rubbing her legs alot , was wearing a skirt im quite average looking, so i dont see why that would be the case.

How do you spot sexual...........................? tension between two friends? Do they act hostile at times? And what is the difference between sexual tension between two people and just flirting? Can you spot the difference from body language etc?

how do i spot a sl*t, and a bi sexual girl? Without knowing much about them how would i tell if a girl is a sl*t by the way she behaves, and the same with a bi sexual girl, femme or butch? As in body language, clothing, the way she talks, anything that would help be a early detection tool for both types of women.

what is body language? What this term 'body language' really means. Does this really impact on our daily life and have impact on others too? What is the role of body language in sexual relationship and marriage as well?

How do you spot sexual.........................? tension between two friends? Do they act hostile at times? And what is the difference between sexual tension between two people and just flirting? Can you spot the difference from body language etc?

can you recommend a book for learning to interpret and to give sexual interest signals? i am a straight man, recently divorced and looking to find a woman to date and marry. i need to learn body language of women i meet socially and see if anyone interested in me.

were a christian that went before the Lord first to destroy your sexual language and receive a new one? why NOT? I assume many men are like me and like the opposite sex. Do you seek God to destroy the opposite sex and your desire for the many and your own body as your wisdom desires to give your body to many. And seek God for heaven and one woman? If the eye be single the body is full of light. Who has only one woman in the eyes, even if you were lost on a desert Island never to see you wife again and were surrounded by "beautiful" naked woman, you would "not" even be TEMPTED because you are healed from the body. Who is free from the slavery of sex? were you a christian that recieved your Godly sexual language instead of that of the beast?

What does it mean when a Mature Women or Milf does this? I notice a older women maybe late 30s to mid 40s staring at me ALOT maybe checkin me out so i make eye contact and she starts bending down giving me a glimpse of her butt,etc.. She keeps doing sexual body language ? What does it mean? Im used to getting attention from 18 to 25 girls and they usually never come off like that..lol..? So what was she tellin me?

Sometimes girls think i am gay, is my body language suggesting that? I have a problem because when I talk to girls at work, or when I'm out places, I don't give out any vibes. This is tough to describe. I don't give the impression that i like girls. Or the impression that you are a woman and I am a man, you have your special parts, I have mine, and... Meanwhile, guys at my job have no problem getting with whoever they want. I don't know what they do, do they say something, act a certain way, what? It's frustrating because I haven't been with many girls and I'm 28, so I'm obviously doing something wrong. Sometimes girls ask if I'm gay. I don't know why they would think that, unless I am putting out a gay vibe? I want to be like a normal human being, a sexual being, and not put any doubts in a woman's mind as to whom I am attracted to. Follow me? Please help. This is a serious question!

Girls why arnt u interested in me? Kk im very attractive i know that from other people. I aint had problems with girls until now. A girl would normally show shes interested in me by obvious things, talking to me all the time, body language, sexual talk/jokes, touching me blah blah blah. Well for the past year no girl has shown interestt. I asked my girl mate (we aint ever dated and she dont fancy me) if i am attractive and they said 'oh yeh definetly, your not a player, your smart, attractive, well dressed, funny and a good talker'. What the hell is the problem then? Im at a new skool and im 17. Any ideas on whats happened and how to solve it?

How can I tell by certain statements or body language if someone had been raped or molested? I have a friend who used to work with my current boss. She worked with him briefly, about a week. When I have asked her about working again in the same place, she had strongly refused, saying accusations about my boss, saying things like, "If you only knew what he did to me", "he could have gotten in a lot of trouble for what he did", and so forth. I've tried prying to find out what happened but she clearly does not want to admit what happened, or is embarrassed to. I want to help her but I feel I would need to know more before I take action. Naturally, I have no evidence or strong reason to assume whatever happened was sexual in nature or not, but one has to wonder... Partially for my own curiosity, I would like to know if there are any "tells" that could drop hints to what may or may not have happened, or could help me judge the severity of the situation.

How do I act "Trashy"? I know weird question right? So here's my dilemma, I was watching a movie with this guy I've been seeing and he mentioned that he really liked "trashy girls" after the women in the movie made a very dirty (sexual) comment to a man. So what are some suggestions you have on how I can be more trashy in the bedroom? Like things I could say, wear, body language, sexual positions and anything else you got. Oh and I'm a pretty shy person so nothing too over the top. If can't be an adult and give a serious answer then don't respond at all! Also I realize he likes me the way I am but there's nothing wrong with a little role play.

How do I get my wife to be 50% of the sexual relationship.? My wife says she wants sex more often but RARELY does anything to let me know. I am completely turned off by women who are sexually passive so I find it hard to initiate 80-100% of the time and still be attracted to her. I can easily do 50-60% Also, her body language and mannerisms repel sexual advances. She finds that men do not respond to her sexually. I think this is affecting her work and personal life. 90% of what we say is in our body language but she won't hear it. She insists that she 'is who she is'. That sounds like a cop-out. People change and grow every day. I don't mind if she doesn't use body language to look attractive or to attract me, but I can't take her demanding that I and other men respond as if she is, when she isn't. Do all women expect results from nothing? I personally don't care if we have sex again... But I don't want to be scolded for not thinking mediocre is wonderful. If you want to be considered wonderful, then BE wonderful... no? Steph2... I'm an adult... not a maid... 50/50 on everything... I don't need a child, I need an adult who responds to reason and who is adult enough to insist on pulling their weight. Bobby Jim, I tried that for 18 months... she just got more selfish. Besides I don't enjoy sex if I always have to do the work... and I am not 'instant on'. You guys kill me! Me doing more is has been tried and it failed... I want to be pursued myself. I am tired of having a sexually lazy partner. I do housework, I have treated her like a queen... what the h--- does she do for me in bed let alone the rest of our life??? I want her to get off her lazy rump and be half of this relationship... I don't need advice as to how I can DO MORE. My goodness women... have you no self respect... shy don't YOU do some romantic things. I took her on hundreds of romantic dates and left notes etc... She never asked me on a romantic date... never left me love notes... it's all one-way with her. She has her head in the clouds and won't budge. I am good looking, fit, supportive, a good father. I do most of the housework and earning of income... is it really to much to ask for HER to pursue me romantically/sexually? Did I mention she gained 50 lbs, doesn't do her hair or make-up unless she is going out and has terrible personal hygiene! I can't be her daddy and hold her hand through life stroking her ego ALL the time... some of it has to be because she is an adult... no?

Can body language or facial expression give women the wrong message? I have a little bit of an issue trying to find dates. I can't figure out what it is I am doing wrong. I would think most women would be interest in a guy like me; I always keep up with my appearance , I am always dressing up(bad habit), I am always a gentlemen or try, basically I know it has nothing to do with my appearance or being mean or rude. A buddy of mine told me that he notices that I will never look at them and that may be give the message that I have no interest; reason is I some how got the idea that it is rude and I admit, I avoid trying to let them know I have interest. I know that I usually have a serious look on my face which is a habit from my job. Basically what I asking is do particular body movement, facial expressions give women the wrong message. Should I work on giving more eye contact or show more interest? I know not to look at them in a sexual and more in there general appearance. Any additional tips or suggestions would be great.

how do you know when a girl is interested in you? I wanna know im sick of paying for sexual favours. body language anything. Im mentally challenged when it comes up to love.

What does it mean when girls start talking to you more out of nowhere? Like a girl you talk to one day and she is casual as you talk to her. Maybe a few weeks later she is bubbly and more talkative. I'm only asking because I read an article about women's body languages. The part I read said some things about when it s 2 weeks after a girls period she is most sexual/ horny. Does that relate on any way with girls talking to you more during a certain time in the month. I may be 16 but it does not hurt to know more about versatile stuff.

Black women in rap videos? Why is it that when discussing hip hop videos, it's "degrating" and "disrespectful" for black women to shake their rumps and use sexual body language, but when watching an episode of Girls Gone Wild, Playboy, or mainstream porno exposing and using white women's bodies it is not (generally) "degrating" for them? Why hasn't anyone defended the majority yet?

body language signs to tell that somebody likes you? i dont mean in a sexual way just in general and can there be any hidden signs?

How do you deal with someone who acts "slutty"? I have a cousin who will almost always bring up something sexual in any given conversation, no matter what the topic is. She acts as though she has no clue that what she says is inappropriate, however; I get the feeling that she does it on purpose. Her words make conversations a bit awkward to say the least. These situations ONLY occur within family events, I couldn't tell you what she does with her friends. She does tell us stories about what her friends do with their boyfriends and how a lot of guys call her a sl*t. None of us (cousins) care to hear any of this and we make it apparent with obvious body language. I also get the feeling that she doesn't "fit in" exactly with her group of friends. I should also mention that she is 16 and we are all in the 14-19 range. Recently we took a family vacation, and since she always jokes with us about her being a sl*t, someone said "yeah you are a sl*t" (or something to that effect). She ran out of the room crying. Why does she act this way?

why does this happen to me? whenever i smile for a guy in the streets or in a restaurant or a bar.. he just approaches me and starts very sexual hints like caressing or kisses or asking me to go to his place...straight right of the hook without even trying to date me or anything. i dress very modetly and don't show no skin AT ALL. i don't wear alot of make up and i don't send sexual body language like biting the lips etc... everyone says im kind and direct.. why do guys approach me only for one nights stand? and what can i do to attract the right kind?

How can you tell if someone has a strong Sexual energy? i.e. Someone is a virgin or has a lot of casual sex? Are there fool proof subtle cues in human body language, voice tone (physiology) that indicate sexual energy? Obviously it may be tough to discern, as there are shy people and people that may try to hide it on purpose to cover it or in shame?

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According to the National Center for Health Statistics, the rate of divorce in the U.S. is 3.6 divorces per 1,000 people; the rate peaked at 5.3 per 1,000 in 1981. Notably, divorce rates are highest in states where many conservative Christians live, including Arkansas and Mississippi, while the percentage dips in the more liberal Northeast and upper Midwest. What accounts for the overall decline in divorce rates? Many experts attribute it to a combination of the rise in cohabitation, the older age of marriage, and the overall decline in the marriage rate -- a whopping 30 percent since the mid-1980s. Others factors in income and education levels. Some, like Pastor Wirth, believe lower divorce rates somehow relates to higher sexual activitiy. 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How to know if she is sexual aroused by you? how do you know(body language signs) if a girl is sexual aroused if you two talk in class?

What body language does a guy show to a girl? he's interested in? I have this cute repairman come over to fix something and he explains the problem with the warped bolt by making a hole with his finger and thumb and sticking his index finger in it. Was this some sort of subconscious sexual indication?

please help..body language of the ? the girl who understands the men 's sexual need but she is not interested and also does not allow him to go else where

Male body language: Guys interacting with other guys? Okay, I have a question and I guess it'd be kinda weird. But here goes. I've seen sooo many pictures of guys.. and it will always be two guys in the pic and then one guy will put his hand on the guys left thigh with his right hand, and the second guy will put his left hand on the guys right thigh. Or knee. And they'll take the photo like that. I don't get it. And i don't think it has anything sexual to do with it. Anyone know what this body language could mean?

What are some examples of sexual body language? that a guy does when interested?

Black women in rap/hip hop videos? Why is it that when discussing hip hop videos, it's "degrating" and "disrespectful" for black women to shake their rumps and use sexual body language, but when watching an episode of Girls Gone Wild, Playboy, or mainstream porno exploiting white women's bodies it is not (generally) "degrating" for them? Why hasn't anyone defended the majority yet?

download the ebook for free “Attraction Isn’t A Choice? hey i badly need this book by David |Deangelo " Attraction Isn’t A Choice: How To Use "Secret" Communication And Sexual Body Language To Attract Women . i dont have a credit card and this book is not available on torrent and rapidshare completely.

If you have a lot of sexual energy,? How do you become friends with a guy without him already thinking that you want to be more than friends. I am kind of sexual with my body language and the way I look at guys but it does not always mean that I am coming on to them...I know that it would be taken that way though.. How can I become closer with this guy without him automatically thinking that I want to pursue him but not have to act like a stick in the mud? So far I am getting answers that are expected. I am trying to see if there is a way to be a sensual woman but at the same time have guy friends. It seems that guys will automatically grab the chance to assume that if a woman is sexy then it means that she wants them to jump her bones. Are there any guys out there who can take this question to another, more interesting level?

what kinds of body language lets a guy know a girl is interested??? Ok we're talking non-sexual so don't post stupid stuff! Like...tell me specifically. I'm not wanting to know what turns a guy on but what things (besides just talking about it) can let a guy know that the girl is interested in being more than friends? like for example, putting your head on his shoulder, hugging him often..etc. is that enough to let guys know you like them?

how do i tell if someone is in love with me from body language? i've had a lot of female friends, sometimes they seem too close to me that i often times can't get the real meaning of their closeness, i sometimes go the extra miles of having sex with them courtesy of their nature, but the fact remains that at times they fuck me out of their sex starved imagination and not because they really love me and i've held on for so long still trying to see if i can find a girl that can love me the way i want, but each time this sexual feeling comes to me i think of nothing than my female friends, can i see this and insinuate that they love me or they just enjoy the fun? what do i do? presently, i'm madly in love with one of them but she'll never give me a chance, i've tried my best but to no avail, how do i really let her know that i love her without raising suspicion and how do i know that she loves me if there has to be any body language displayed by her?

Question about guys and sex? When we're having sex, the guy that I'm with looks into my eyes, clasps his hands around mine, holds my body close, at times we're forehead to forehead (which is pretty intimate to me considering he's not a bf), we kiss passionately, and he likes it when I run my fingers through his hair. I'm confused because he doesn't want a serious relationship and just wants to have fun but his sexual body language comes across intimate like a bf. Is he into me in more than a sexual way or not? How can I tell?

Playing with your breasts in front of a man a sexual act? When a woman sits there in front of you and plays with her breasts. As in, puts her hand down her top and begins to cup and fiddles with her breasts, is this a sexual act? Why would she do this and what would be running through her mind? I read on a body language website that ' Touching the breast(s) draws further attention to it. When a woman does this in front of a man it makes the man think of doing this and is thus a highly suggestive and flirtatious act.

How can you tell if a woman likes you, or is just looking for an ego boost? Hey I'm 25 and this 43 year old girl I work with has been giving me these seductive stares, and telling me things in a deep voice like how good I am at my job. I only see her twice a day on average, so its hard to tell if shes just a natural flirt or if shes into me. But its really quite over the top (licking her lips, continuous staring at me, flipping her hair etc.). Almost 100% sexual body language. OK I dont wanna make a fool of myself by asking her out because itd be weird if she is just doing this for attention, since I then have to face her everyday. I am considered handsome by friends but kind of dorky/nervous around women. Perhaps she knows I feel a bit nervous around her and is torturing me for fun(lol)? Is there any way to find out what her true intentions are before making a move on her? Something I might say to "test" just how into me she is, or if shes just playing games?

When a girl teases a guy with body language such as poses and such, how does the girl get horny? There's this girl where she always teases me with body language, I could tell shes doing to me on purpose. I apoligize if I sound explicit, but she bends down very often, when she yawns she streches her whole body, everytime she stands she leans to make herself look curvy(she already is), and at times her butt line is showing slightly(Im sorry). I could tell shes doing it to me on purpose. One time she was washing the chalkboard(10th grade)... im not going to even start the sick various poses that occured >.>''. Anyway, us guys know how our body reacts when we get horny. As for women, after you do these teases that drive guys absolutely CRAZY(damn-it!!), does your body react to it as well. When you get horny how does your body react, is it similar to men. You can sound as explicit as you want, I wont get affended. I know Im too young to be asking such, or knowing sexual postures, but please and my question to the best of ur ability. Thanks, much appreciated! When a guy gets horny their penis harden and sometimes become wet(which has happened on many occasionans) and we get pleasure 100% of the process. What about girls? To they get pleasure when they get horny(how?)?

how can someone make their every action sexual without noticing? I had watched a show called parental control and the parents had said that their son's girlfriend makes her every move sexual. What movements do people often make to say hey just come and get it because it is already yours to have and I am open. How would a guy and a girl imply to the opposite sex that hey it is here and I am easy without knowing that they are really saying that with their movements clothes, beauty,body language. It also make everyone think that person does it on purpose but that is just what people thoughts lead them in the direction to believe.

Is there a difference between the "kiss me" body language to the "take me to bed" body language? I've been reading a lot about telling if a woman "likes" you or "is intrested" but I would think that once you estiblish that, there would be a different set of signals for if they wanted to get "physical" (other then grabbing for the sexual organs).

Simple body language translation with the opposite sex? In my case, I want to know simple things a boy/male/man whatever seems either interested in a girl, likes her a lot, wants to kiss her or .... stuff I'd rather do when I'm engaged and or married lol Here's my story. I'm 14 (15 in 12 days) xD And I know how boys are this age, I know sex is all boys usually think about. And I've been told a lot of times that I am not ugly and I have a very nice body... and a lot of boys have tried to have sex with me but usually I can never tell if a boy likes me or just wants to get in my pants. I don't like it when all boys want from me is sex. I just want to make sure with the boy I like doesn't like me only in a sexual way. I would really appreciate if someone would help me with simple body language techniques when it comes to what a boy whats from me.. Please help :P

deciphering guy language? When a guy said that he hopes to see me again after a goodbye hug, did he mean it? When he put his hand on behind my hip to pose for a pic,(he was standing behind me) was that a sexual or friendly body language? I touched his upper arm and squeezed to assure him that we would def see eachother again and he just smiled blushed a bit maybe. He also made sure that I gave my email address to his sister-but he never emailed me. So I'm just wondering if all of this is just friendly and mature behavior?

Can ppl feel other ppls sexual energy? I wonder do some ppl have strong sexual energy than others, that women and men can sense? I would like to know how they sense it though could it be body language or conversation (which I doubt) or could it be in their voice.

Body language question help? When a woman is talking about a sexual topic even for a few seconds and she gets bedroom eyes looking at the ground while talking to a guy friend does it automatically mean that she is thinking dirty things she could do with him or not necessarily? (Bedroom eyes are like sexy eyes)

Serious - I think these people are ex-Nazi? Please, serious answers only. We've got these weird next-door-neighbours, and we seriously believe they are ex-Nazis. Because they are in their late 80s/early 90s, and they don't like us, and always shout things at us - really distasteful things like, "you'd enjoy that" and "she deserves more ... hmmm" (combined with obvious sexual body language), and even "back then, we knew what to do with people like you". They also play Wagner. I seriously think their crazy aggression and all these signs add up to this conclusion? Can you please tell me what we can do, who we can report them to, who do we contact who are interested in investigating whether these people are seriously ex-Nazis? Serious answers only, please. Yeh, thanks for your lack of help - so far, all. We wouldn't be asking if we weren't seriously hassled by them, would we? Omniscience, you think it's harmless that every time we go into our garden, they run out and scream abuse and threats at us? Like, "Back then, we knew what to do with people like you!" Geez, admitting it practically! THREE times they have hidden behind their fence, where we didn't even know they were hiding, snuck up behind us and physically swung metal rakes and hoes at our heads? We've had the police onto them, and they've been given warnings. So, Kelly, yes, they've not only repeatedly threatened us ("I'm going to shoot you", he always says to us), but tried to assault us with these metal garden tools. They've also smashed our side gate in. But obviously the attempted assaults and threats are the real scary stuff. Maybe if someone asks for help here, you might do better not to give answers if you're not going to take their questions seriously!

Is this sexual assault? My friend is having me post this under my account because she does not have her own and does not want her parents to know. She is 17 years old, and works in a restaurant. One of her wo-workers there has always been very nice to her, and she considered him a good friend. He is at least 23, but she doesn't know his exact age. He could be in his 30s. yesterday at work, he pulled her into the back room and started kissing her neck and face, and she kept turning away so tha he couldn't kiss her lips. He whispered that he loved her, and pulled her down the stairs into the basement. She told him at least 3 times that she needed to get back to work, and her body language enforced this. He unbuttoned her pants and fondled her, and placed her hand on his genitals, over his pants, and made me grab it. He also tried to insert his penis inside of her, but someone came downstairs, and he pushed her off, and she ran upstairs. Under NJ law, is this sexual assault? rape? She has already spoken to her manager, and he didn't ask for names, and he told her to ignore him, and if he ever tries anything to scream for someone's attention. She doesn't want to file a police report unless it happens again, because he didn't seem very violent. They usually say that rape has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with feeling powerful. But according to her, he was being extremely sexual, and forceful, but not violent. He was kissing her neck and cheek and chest while he tried to have intercourse with her. The only thing that stopped him from successfully entering her was their body positions. They were both standing up, and he was determined to penetrate her but couldn't, and he didn't stop trying until someone came downstairs.

What are some examples of sexual body language? that a guy does when interested?

SExual tension? What does it mean when a man touches you in a nonsexual way tenderly and you are not lovers but like each other and there is ''sexual stress'' going on? It is like we can't keep our hands off but we musn't touch improperly. I touch his arm and he touches my shoulder. Now and then. What body signals are these. I am interested in body language..what is your take?

Here is a rough version of the first chapter of my book? Chapter 1 “No! I will not stay here and deal with her! We live like such fools! Forget your regrets about the divorce! I’m not going to come running to you either! I’m leaving for good!” Candace yelled into the receiver. “Well, you’re going to have to stay, whether you like it or not. What is your other choice?” Mr. Timmons insisted in a frustrated tone. He was becoming increasingly impatient with Candace and her demands. “I have had it with both you and Mom! I am just going to leave!” she screamed. She slammed the receiver down on the desk. Her face, as swollen as a bad mosquito bite, wrote a story of anger and tearful disappointment. Candace felt betrayed by her father’s refusal to allow her to live on her own in apartment, or else, take her into his home. The predominant coldness of her mother had finally pushed her to the cliff’s edge. Leaning over precariously while looking down at the valley below, she thought about jumping off sometimes. Her desire to get out of her living situation seemed stronger than ever. She was putting her escape plans into effect. Thanks heavens I probably won’t be staying here much longer. I can go stay with Dad or Auntie and really work on my paintings. Her hazel eyes met with her mother’s cold steel blue eyes. Candace stared right through her, as if she were a mirage instead of a desert oasis. A righteous rage penetrated her mother slowly, but she chose to ignore her interests as usual. Warning, symbols and body language meant little to her because of her emotional vacancy. “So I guess you will be happy now. You’ve finally got what you wanted. Don’t bother to say goodbye and I will see my way out,” Candace announced coolly. You always use people and then pretend that you didn’t do anything to them, or that you’re really sorry about your actions. Mrs. Timmons hardly looked up from her spot. She jerked to the right in her chair for some reason, maybe from shock. Candace couldn’t really tell what was going on in her mind. She waited for a response from her mother. Finally, Mrs. Timmons took a deep breath and let out an exasperated sigh. “Fine. Leave the keys with me. Take what you need and nothing else,” Mrs. Timmons responded icily, as she crossed her arms over her chest. She stared at the floor instead of raising her head to look at her daughter. “Well, you always get what you want now, don’t you? One way or another, you manage to manipulate my life. Sometimes I can’t even believe what you’ve managed to get away with. If Dad only knew the whole story,” she moaned as she trailed off, twisting her left fingers into her hair. Mrs. Timmons defiantly looked away for a moment. She took a deep breath while her eyes moved back and forth from one side of the room to the other. Candace waited for her to say that last comment she usually made whenever they disagreed. I’m not the one who has to win the arguments, she thought to herself. “Well, do what you want. You are always full of nonsense. Just go pack up your things and leave then, if you’re not happy. It’s not like I want to hold you up,” she announced coldly after a few minutes had passed. “Fine.” Candace retorted without hesitation. I won’t waste my time on someone who doesn’t care, because if I wanted to, I would stay. She furiously fled out of the living room. Rushing across the hall, she headed for the far staircase. Since she had lost this round of gunfire, she decided that she would no longer fight in this war of words between her mother and her father. Her intention was to leave this house, once and for all. This time, her determination to leave seemed genuine. Her strawberry-blonde hair flew through the air in streams as she nearly catapulted herself out of the room. Her mother and sisters stared behind her as she made her way out. She was always the first and last one in the room to make a scene. Her mother put her book down on the side table, got up out of her rocking chair and walked to the middle of the Persian carpet that lined the hardwood floor. She watched as her eldest daughter stomped up the stairs to her room on the third floor. “Don’t bother saying goodbye! I don’t want to see you ever again!” she yelled down the stairs as she crossed the loft into her room. There was no response. Her words echoed through the entire house. The usual realization of her indifference caused little grief to Candace, since she had spent years putting up with her mother’s attempts at using her to get more money out of her father. They had been divorced since she was eleven. Their separation wasn’t unpleasant, and neither was their marriage. Her father was simply a classic workaholic. He stayed at the office till 8 p.m. or later on a typical weeknight. This Friday, she managed to get a hold of him before 9 p.m. That was unusual for her. Initially, she had hoped her mother might actually respond in her favor. As usual, her dreams were dashed. She had decided to just hang up without saying anything else to her father. Her father didn’t make most of the decisions simply because he wasn’t around. Because of his lack of involvement, she had put up with her mother’s meddling for years. Tears rolled down her eyes as she stormed up the stairs to the attic above. Her temper was like a brooding tempest that waited in the outer edges of the horizon, closing in slowly on a warm, clear sky. She continuously shocked all the members of her family with her outbursts. They could never predict how, when or why she would let her demons loose. The bedroom door slammed behind her. She dropped onto her bed, placed her head on her pillows for a moment, then let out a sigh. She rested there for a few minutes. Then exasperation took over, so she decided to take a quick shower. As she stripped each layer of clothing and placing them in a pile on the bathroom floor, she slid into the hot shower she had just started. Quickly she lathered up the soap and began washing herself. The warm water rinsed away her salty tears that had started streaming down her cheeks. She was relieved to be upstairs, just so that she could avoid crying in front of her mother. Mrs. Timmons had disapproved of any public display of emotion. This was one of the many so-called attributes of hers that annoyed Candace greatly. As polar opposites, they didn’t have much in common to begin with. She wasn’t obsessed with clothes, but her mother had to have the finest designer clothing from all the expensive shops downtown. As a child, she had been fascinated occasionally by a beautiful dress for a special occasion, but as soon as she hit her teens, she started buying baby doll dresses and seventies-style clothing from old thrift shops or else, the mall. Once in a while she went to a large boutique when they had a sale, but she didn’t shop on a daily basis. Her mother was nearly addicted to high fashion and had racked up huge bills every month. When she realized the allowance wasn’t enough to pay for all the items she bought, she went to court to demand more money. At one point, she even had to take out a second mortgage just to pay off her credit line. She had read their files, budget plans and online portfolio. She thought about these details as she washed and conditioned her hair. She let the water rinse her thoroughly, then finally stood in the shower for a while just to feel the warm water fall on her body. She thought that was a sensual experience of sorts. She wasn’t a virgin anymore, so she was fascinated by every opportunity to experience some kind of sexual or sensual pleasure. Finally, she got out of the shower, brushed out her hair and dried off her body with a towel. For a moment, she looked at herself in the mirror. She was thankful that her appearance was so different from her mother. With her light reddish blonde hair and dark hazel eyes, she resembled her patriarchal grandmother far more than the woman who gave birth to her. With the release of a sigh, she picked up a tube of concealer. As she dotted the makeup over her circles, she started examining the situation. Candace had wanted out of the family for a long time. The only members she got along with, other than her little sisters, were her aunts and uncles. Her grandparents had passed during the first nine years of her childhood. She figured she would go stay with them for awhile, since they would not mention that she was staying with them. They lived six hours away along the coast. During her teenage years, she had tossed around the idea of running away, which seemed glamorous and wild. Occasionally, she read the newspaper. One of the featured stories might mention teenagers arrested by police officers, kids in juvenile hall, and occasionally, something about kids on the street. She had decided against such an existence. Now she was older. Her main focus now was to get off this battlefield of anger, simmering discontent and veiled hostility. She would not wear a mask of calmness over her anger like her mother.

Project to do and stuck for answers......? To all you experts out there who have been brilliant to me in the past, I have two questions (because I am a total cheapskate :)) Firstly, if you are carrying an object and while you are talking to a member of the opposite sex, they touch the object,(its an innocent thing now....) what does that mean in body language terms?Power? Sexual? Insecurity? Secondly, if a woman touches a man on his arm, quiet slowly and deliberately while talking to him, what would this convey to the man in specific terms.? Have a go and tell me what you think. Have a project to do and am stuck.I have good idea myself, but could be wrong

Ladies?? Please answer this question about females and sex? I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 10 months now, but didn't get to spend much time together until about 4 months ago.. something about her is that she isn't very feminine in the sense that her body language isn't to sexual or provoking, also her personality is kinda hard but.. I started getting hints that we might have sex about 3 months ago so I started stepping up my visits to the gym and taking natural supplements, and reading on female antomy. Mainly because my sex life prior to her was basically 'hit and run' type situations and i didn't care about the girls I slept with, but her I wanted it to be special. Well this is my question.. The first time we had sex, to me it was more of a performance, which I quite enjoyed, everything went well and I got her to orgasm multiiple times and according to her did great orally, then she slept for about 3 hours afterwards. So now... her body language is completely different , almost as if she's inticing me to do it again so... Now she's almost subserviant to me... my question is ... Should I worry about this? She's still the same independant girl she always was.. but it just seems wierd for her to be so different. and just to get it out of the way, She wasn't a virgin Steph - the thought of her lying also crossed my mind, I don't think my sex life sucked before her but I never gave it this much effort

Sexual tension with a crush? I have a crush on this guy. I've never told anyone how much I'm into him. I have always gotten a vibe from him, like very strong sexual tension. Like I said, I've never told anyone because I kind of thought it was all in my head and should just stay there. The other day my friend and I ran into him. I think I acted completley normal, but I could still feel that tension. When we were walking away, my friend said she could sense the tension. She said his body language spoke volumes, and that it was obvious to her that he was into me. Do you think it's possible that she was just picking up on my feelings for him, or do you think he could be into me too?

Can you describe a scenario where sexual chemistry between two individuals is obviously present? What I am asking here is that I'd like your views on this. I was sat in a bar in town and I saw two seperate people walk in. One was stood at one end of the bar and the lady was at the othe other talking to friends, however every now and then she would turn her head and stare at this guy... it took over 1 hour for him to go over and say hello. What do you feel are the obvious body language signs ? Girls or Guys what's your views ?

girls can you answer this.? cunfused as hell? aight me and this girl talk every once and awhile,and everytime we do there's that sexual tension ,,,,uncontrolable smiling,body language ,etc. but she never seems to meet my eyes back at a distance..(across the room at work) also she doesn't reply to messages or comments on myspace. she did once but stopped out of nowhere... i latter unblocked her top 12friends (its hidden);i was the 12 th person.she has 170+ friends jus keep getting mixed signals what do you think? also she's not shy but i've never heard of her having a boyfriend. known about her for almost 2 yrs.shes 18. only see her a few times a week at work...

Comparing and contrasting Television from the past and today? I have to write a compare and contrast essay on the history of television shows. I have to pick out main points for the body paragraphs. So far I have: -Television shows today are much more violent. -More raunchier, more sexual. -Foul language. -Reality shows/Instant celebrity. Any other ideas? And does anyone know where I can find research for my main points? Like statistics and such?

How can someone make out that a girl is turned on and looking for the guy to act first? How can someone read the body language of a woman who wants sexual intimacy? what are the gustures/signs to look for?

Has your common politeness or civil greeting ever been taken for some kind of sexual advance? In real life, I know it can easily happen online because people can't see your expression or body language.

Sexual or Physical attraction? What kind of body language does a guy give off when he's sexually or physically attractive to a woman?

please somebody review this english my secongd language? INTEGRATION OF LOVE AND SCIENCE Jeanette Winterson, in the book written on the body, used the language of science to integrate love and science. At the beginning of the book on (pg9), she used science of weather to explain the dryness, narrating how tree were growing their root deep into the dry ground, and not producing grapes. She relates this when she wrote, “Not this year the pleasure of rolling blue grapes between the finger and thumb juicing my palm with musk.” Here she used word pleasure meaning love. On (pg18), she used the word quantum physicist when she tells of infinite pleasure and time without end. Here she is comparing love with time and the importance of love and time. She also used the month June On (pg 20) which she describes as moist, looking for love. She also said on (pg 26) “I open the can of lentils and listen to ‘science now’ on the wireless.” She in the book describe Jacqueline her lover who was working in the Zoo and comparing how Jacqueline was treating her like big cat, and was proud of her. This incorporate, wildlife science with real love, experienced by lover’s everyday. Science of doctors is also used in the book, to heighten to the readers the integration with love. When she talk of Bathsheba who was a dentist, (pg25) she wrote she could not predict romance in a woman, because of the love she had with Bathsheba. She wrote about the science of bio molecular and the chemical bond formed comparing it with the union between lovers. Here she meant Louise, Elgin wife. Elgin was a doctor, who worked in Switzerland scientific laboratory, where he uses computer science for his study of diseases and cell multiplications, where he saw gene therapy as sexy, thus integrating love with science of medicine. In addition, his dad worked as chemist and owned a chemist shop, and his mum died of cancer. Jeanette Winterson also integrated language of science with love, when she talks of clap clinics (pg20) describing venereal diseases, which are associated with love, and love making. Also, her talk of Nitric acid, cloning acid, which as her mention is used For cloning lovers, cleaning the past, and making the future of love fresh. She wonders also what causes, or the force that attracts people towards each other’s. She tries to answer by assuming chemistry or biological drive plays the roll to choose the good lover. This proves how she put science in love or love in science, making them one to one partners. She explains science of Cell division (mitosis) which spearheads the body growth, and maintaining healthy body by replacing worn out cell. Here, she explains Louise health condition, because Louise is diagnosed with leukemia: multiplication of white blood cell in her body in large number, which results to tremendous danger of the body. She curves the love she wonders whether she can go inside Louise and block the mass production of the cell. This She wonder because of the love for Louise She had. The books also discuss about the naked eye, which cannot see the cell of the body without the aid of tools. Love language integrated by telling how she has enjoyed seeing the parts of her naked body, calling thee body “landing strip.” Mouth is discussed when the book narrate the lining and how well the narrator know Louise mouth through kissing. In the mouth she talk of teeth which “after sex you tiger –tear your food…” this show how well the language of love and science is well used in the book. Cavity, She discuss it by starting with the phrase “let me penetrate you “here She talk of how Louise was smart and how She was fond of her, and how She has held Louise head with desire to excavate her skin. She also talks of her eyes, ears, nostril, cheekbones and the hair. Science is used to show how much she loved Louise, when in the book her talk of herself being inside all Louise body cavity. Skin, dermis and Epidermis discussed using love language when she tell how dead cell protect body from attack, and compare her to outside attack. Thus, telling of her skin taste when she runs her tongue on her body and the hair on breast. Love is integrated when She talk of how their skin with Louise are sensitive f heir touching one another, and their body bruises of making love. SHE also integrate love and science when She talk of clavicle/collar bone, calling it “the largest sexual attraction” the narrator choose the science as way of proofing, how She integrated love with science in a sense to proofing how Louise body was amazing and erotic to her. This embracing science and love proved how well the narrator integrated both.

How can I get over the love of my life punishing me? Ok, here is my problem...unrequited love. I am gay. I met this guy 8 months ago who is a Barista in a coffee shop. He is 15 years younger than me. I am 35. He is 20. When we first met I immediately felt a chemistry of sexual attraction. I have excellent gaydar and always have. After getting to know him I believed he was discreetly gay or Bi. I am intelligent enough that I don’t stereotype people ever. I was in the closet until I met him and chose to come out to him thinking he might do the same and want to do something together. On two occasions when we were alone for a couple of minutes, he sent out signals or body language making me suspect he was gay. It was not flirting. He was pulling up his shirt and telling me to feel his muscles and bending down by me closely wrapping his arms around my legs showing me wrestling moves. This is a guy who does not like other people touching him by the way. Another time he was bending over giving me an *** shot then turning around and just staring at me for a few minutes. SO, we have become friends over this 8 month period and I have fallen in love with him. I was silent about how I felt about him until just a few weeks ago. He told me he was not in love with me because he is straight. I have been stuck with the uncertainty of these signals wondering if he was being cruel or just playing hi and low with my emotions. This is a guy who paints his toenails pink and wears them openly with sandals at work, his mom thinks he is gay, tells me when he sees a hot guy saying ‘dude he is hot’... He also tells me he loves the male physique but not in a sexual way because he is secure in his sexuality and has told me he has ****** two other guys 4 or 5 years ago. I think he could be bisexual, but he says your either gay or straight. So he met this woman who is 25. This woman he met is a student psychologist. I have seen a major change in him as if she controls him like a puppy on a leash. He claims after he had sex with her that he definately knew he was straight after having doubts about his sexuality for years. They have been living together for 4 months now. Him and his girlfriend are the only ones I have told I am gay. He promised me he will never tell anyone I am gay. He is really cocky and arrogant now and neglects all of his friends and family. His whole life just revolves around him and her 99% of the time. Now that he has moved in with her, he brags about the sex marathons and it just kills me. He knows I am in love with him and it pains me to see the two of them together. She also knows that I am in love with him and pours it on thick when they are around me. I have come to know him as my best friend. I feel for him 2 months before she came into the picture. However, he told me he loves me as a friend and that is as far as it will go. He says he is totally comfortable with me being gay. I have accepted this painful reality. He has told me age is just a number and he has lots of friends different ages. So our 15 year age gap is not even an issue with him. This I know for sure. So, I shift to the friendship part of this. I have put 8 long months into this friendship and thousands of dollars I have given to him and lots of great gifts because I truly love him as my best friend. I even give him a ride home after he gets off work all the time only to drop him off at her apartment. I have spent hundreds on gas just driving 20 miles to see him and 20 miles home. I always text him at least 3 times a week or come in to help him close at work and clean up the dirt and filth of the day while he counts the till. He says all his time goes to his girlfriend and I understand that. He said all he has time for me is to just sit and talk for an hour or so. So we sat down and had a long talk which he told me his heart was not in it to be best friends with me and afterwards I became very emotional and broke down and stormed off angry. Every since then he is ignoring me, not answering calls or texts, or anything knowing how bad I am hurting. My heart is broken and I feel so used and alone. Looking back he always accepted my gifts and money but never called me once to do anything friends do or initiated any texts unless it was a question about her. How can I get over this man who I am so in love with and heal my broken split in half heart? This was not infatuation but true love and man does this hurt. Oh, I can’t get him out of my life because he still has a room at a mutual friend of ours house that he has not completely moved out of and wants to keep it as a place to “hang his hat” as he says if he ever needs to. My life has been turned upside down. I can’t sleep or anything else without thinking of him. My heart hurts so bad and I have cried enough tears to fill a lake. It doesn’t seem like he even cares about me as a friend as his omission of silence is so cruel. I am being punished by him for expressing my true feelings and who I am as a human being and it hurts. I feel like a piece of discarded garbage. Please help...NO HATERS...SERIOUS ANSWERS FOR A HURTING HEART PLEASE!

What body language in a male demonstrates sexual attraction?

Why do people tell teens to wait till older and in 20s to have sex/marriage then complain when they date 16 yr Why do people tell teens to wait till older and in 20s to have sex/marriage then complain when they date 16 yr olds when in their 20s as those are the only ones who can match their Date count rating Their time with opposite rating Their No of times had sexual exp rating. As to have a relatioship you usually need to match it up. and pretty much everyone else would have nearly a 6 years on them. Therefore they could not compete. Ie if a you have 2 guys... one has been dating with some relationships lasting 6 months to a year. Countless kissing, dates, one night stands. & Your kid who you told to be a good boy & abstain & keep pure & study etc. So they grow up with no social skills, confidence with the opposite sex, be shy, needy, usless at kissing let alone anything else. No idea how to chat some1 up or handle body language plus consider themselves ugly & usless as watched everyone else progress. How on earth would they get some girl own age? Would be no different to applying for a job... they have 6 years experience... you have none... the girl would guaranteed go for the experienced guys with all the slick chat up and seduction technique, expert kissing and bedroom skills, knowing just what to say and waht not to. Ergo the one who waited will get birthday after birthday getting older but no more mature as can only mature with exp. Like no job, no exp, no exp no job. Therefore would only connect with somone much younger with same lack of dates... Oh and of course Mr experienced can also use said charm gained from exp with girls to sell cars, sell self in interviews, persaude, be popular, have good parties etc. Whilst other would struggle making frieds and loose in office politics Why would parents be sick and perverted enough to deliberately set their kids up for that? And not see somone older dating daughter was the result of such a policy. And they setting kids up to be the same ************************************ quote you can have a relatiomship when young without sex Only when young... After that you get pigon holded... sort of the psudo gay brother dickness mate who they can discuss their boyfriends with mate who they dont see as a real guy... yeah you have some girl mates but never fall in love, never have affection in life, never seen as sexy, and if you show any feelings for them you loose best mate. ********************************* Quote steff You don't need to have sex in order to gain social skills!! Actualluy you do... its the nurds without girlfriends or girls who cant get a boyfriend who have no confidence then stay self hamring or go annorexi or suicidal. Seen this over and over... if you cant pull or have a girl/boyfriedn the group ostracises you out or bullies you out. You have no infuence or staus in a group especially when then play truth or dare games and you have done nothing which is waht teenagers and those in 20s mainly talk about. Seen as soon as people start to get girlfriends and last or get good at pulling people want to be their mates and they get popualr so therefore gain confidence. Self esteem is purely linked to how many want you as if nobody wants you , you must be dirt. And seen over and over its only those who do get successful with realtioships that gain skills in all theose social areas. Quote parents just want the best for their children, i.e. not getting pregnant at 15, getting STD's etc. NO THAT CALLED GIVING PROPER SEX ED AND STICKING KID ON CONTRACPTIVE INJECTIONS WITH CONDOMS QUOTE These are skills that should be learned by associating with people in general but has nothing to do with having sex. ACTUALLY YOU CANT PULL ETC... PEOPLE DONT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND, INVITE YOU TO PARTIES OR RESPECT YOU. SO YOU DONT GAIN THOSE SOCIAL SKILLS AS YOU GET ISOLATED SARA i take it you encourage your young daugters or son's to sleep around....you are a great parent! NOT QUITE... IT COULD BE WITH THE SAME GUY. AS LONG AS KNOW THAT THEY ARE DOING. Most teenagers will sleep around looking for right guy/girl... its just luck if they find the right one to stay with. More like if they dont balls it up hence more experience more likely to keep somone as wont say yes your bum looks big in that Phantom quote Dont worry. It will alll fall in place. You are NOT ugly. Thats the best age to be. You dont need experience that comes with being in love after a while. You will get a girl and a lovely one too you will see. INCORRECT. IF THAT WAS TRUE YOU WOULD NOT GET SO MANY HOOKERS/PORN SITES OR VIBRATOR SHOPS AS THEY WOULD GO OUT OF BUSINESS. lIKEWISE DATING AGENCIES. PEOPLE SAY THE SAME LIE YEAR AFTER YEAR AFTER YEAR... LOOK AROUND YOU. just as you say it dont make it true and the older you are the harder it gets... less people around. nobody wants a rookie then you get accused of being a perve or something if you try and date somone younger who you have some level of common exp. and its only gets worse. ***************************** Steph every group I have come accross pretty much has same sort of attiudes. its like people only like winners not loosers. And your education gets you nowhere... its all office politics skills and social skills and people skills... nobody cares you can invent a flying car if you cant sell the idea or see who will steal it. no popularity though sexaul success nobody takes you seriously. And it does not matter if in education or work you still need to balance love, social and work life. Had your lie sold to me now hate all that lied... plenty of smart people had the sex and love life from a young age and all got successful. without pregnancy ****************************** quote you should stay away from older guys as the will take advantage. NO NOT AT ALL... IT DOES NOT MATTER THE AGE... YOU GET NICE PEOPLE AND NASTY ONES. THERE IS NO NO NO REASON WHY SOMONE OLDER WOULD BE ANY MORE OR LESS LIKELY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ANYONE. YOU HAVE PLENTY OF YOUNG ASSHOLES ***************************** QUOTE JACKIE but making sure you are safe from all the heartbreaks to come and most of the parents NO NO NNO THEY ARE NOT... IT MEANS YOU ONLY HAVE THE HEART BREAKS AND FAR FAR WORSE... YOU GET NONE OF THE GOOD STUFF ONLY THE PIN ITS LIKE HEART BROKEN EVERY DAY... AND KNOWING IF YOU LIKE SOMONE THEY STOP BEING YOUR MATE AND YOU LOOSE THEM /*************************** QUOTE *most people say don't have sex till you are in your twenties as we know from experience what a mistake it was for us to have sex too early. FAR BIGGER MISTAKE WAITING THEN YOU WILL BE ALONE FOREVER AND IN PAIN... PLUS YOU MISS OUT ON ALL THE BEST POSSIBLE TEEN EXPERIENCES IN FLIFE... IE FIRST FESTIVAL WITH GIRLFRIEND. PUBLIC AFFECTION IS COOL ETC

What body language in a male demonstrates sexual attraction?

What body language in a male demonstrates sexual attraction?

What body language in a male demonstrates sexual attraction?

RANDOM....But please answer.? Im pretty sure this guy likes me (body language, things he says , sexual tension etc) But somtimes i think hes looking at me, should i look to see if he is?? or act cool and collected and let him watch me. or make the most of potential eye contact?

I like him....I think he likes me BUT.......? So this guy i'm crushin on is totally giving me signs that he likes me as well. -eye contact -smiles at me all the time -standing next to me for no reason -body language -teasing/joking around with me -make sexual references when joking But I start to think there is no way he could ever like me because I know a couple of his past GF's. They were petit,blonde hair. I am plus size,dark hair and eyes. Total opposite. We get along so well. I've only known him for about 2 months and we had an almost instant friendship. So what do you think? Could his type of girl he likes change? Is he flirting? Sexual reference was when he said something to me tormenting and i was like i think you need a slap. He said "oh yea thats the way i like it" So is this still just a friendly thing to do....or does it have more meaning?

how do i turn him on? ;-) and really want you? How do I turn on the guy i like and make him want me? Without saying obvious things like "lets have sex" or just real obvious things. Like what to do body language wise? I'm thinkin about "accidentally" touchin his leg when im bendin down to get somethin, like usin his leg for "support" haha. but anyone have any other ideas? like without involving me strpping, or givin him sexual favors lol. just subtle body language/wordss... haha! thanks!!!!!!!!

How to drive this guy wild, without making him think I like him? There's this guy I met recently and I'm pretty sure he's attracted to me. I've read his profile and he seems pretty perverted... well at least open about it. Anyways, I'm just wondering of some ways to casually do things to make him want me more.. it's all in good fun of course! It's also for my Psychology/Human Communications research essay about the effects of body language, physical contact, and verbal expressions have on the male sexual persona.

now what should i do about this guy i like???? ok i posted one not 2 long ago about this guy that i like you told me to find out flirting and it is Flirting is a form of human interaction, usually expressing a sexual or romantic interest in the other person. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated. and i think he is flirting with me he hugs me and talks to me all the time he holds my hand sometimes and smiles alot and makes me laugh or am i just taking it the wrong way cause i like him i am trying to get this right or should i call him and say i will not get mad please just tell me if you like me the same way i like you cause i ill not stop being your friend if you dont like me like that

Advice to Young Men from an Old Man ? what would you take? 1. Don’t pick on the weak. It’s immoral. Don’t antagonize the strong without cause, its stupid. 2. Don’t hate women. It’s a waste of time 3. Invest in yourself. Material things come to those that have self actualized. 4. Get in a fistfight, even if you are going to lose. 5. As a former Marine, take it from me. Don’t join the military, unless you want to risk getting your balls blown off to secure other people’s economic or political interests. 6. If something has a direct benefit to an individual or a class of people, and a theoretical, abstract, or amorphous benefit to everybody else, realize that the proponent’s intentions are to benefit the former, not the latter, no matter what bullshit they try to feed you. 7. Don’t be a Republican. They are self-dealing crooks with no sense of honor or patriotism to their fellow citizens. If you must be a Republican, don’t be a “conservative.” They are whining, bitching, complaining, simple-minded self-righteous idiots who think they’re perpetual victims. Listen to talk radio for a while, you’ll see what I mean. 8. Don’t take proffered advice without a critical analysis. 90% of all advice is intended to benefit the proponent, not the recipient. Actually, the number is probably closer to 97%, but I don’t want to come off as cynical. 9. You’ll spend your entire life listening to people tell you how much you owe them. You don’t owe the vast majority of people shit. 10. Don’t undermine your fellow young men. Mentor the young men that come after you. Society recognizes that you have the potential to be the most power force in society. It scares them. Society does not find young men sympathetic. They are afraid of you, both individually and collectively. Law enforcement’s primary purpose is to suppress you. 11. As a young man, you’re on your own. Society divides and conquers. Unlike women who have advocates looking out for them (NOW, Women’s Study Departments, government, non-profit organizations, political advocacy groups) almost no one is looking out for you. 12. Young men provide the genius and muscle by which our society thrives. Look at the Silicone Valley. By in large, it was not old men or women that created the revolution we live. Realize that society steals your contributions, secures it with our intellectual property laws, and then takes credit and the rewards where none is due. 13. Know that few people have your best interests at heart. Your mother does. Your father probably does (if he stuck around). Your siblings are on your side. Everybody else worries about themselves. 14. Don’t be afraid to tell people to “Fuck off” when need be. It is an important skill to acquire. As they say, speak your piece, even if your voice shakes. 15. Acquire empathy, good interpersonal skills, and confidence. Learn to read body language and non-verbal communication. Don’t just concentrate on your vocational or technical skills, or you’ll find your wife fucking somebody else. 16. Keep fit. 17. Don’t speak ill of your wife/girlfriend. Back her up against the world, even if she’s wrong. She should know that you have her back. When she needs your help, give it. She should know that you’ll take her part. 18. Don’t cheat on your wife/girlfriend. If you must cheat, don’t humiliate her. Don’t risk having your transgressions come back to her or her friends. Don’t do it where you live. Don’t do it with people in your social circle. Don’t shit in your own back yard. 19. If your girlfriend doesn’t make you feel good about yourself and bring joy to your life, fire her. That’s what girlfriends are for. 20. Don’t bother with “emotional affairs.” They are just a vehicle for women to flirt and have someone make them feel good about themselves. That’s the part of a relationship they want. For you it is a lot of work and investment in time. If they are having an emotional affair with you, they’re probably fucking someone else. 21. Becoming a woman’s friend and confidant is not going to get you into an intimate relationship. If you haven’t gotten the girl within a reasonably short period of time, chances are you won’t ever get her. She’ll end up confiding to you about the sexual adventures she’s having with someone else. 22. Have and nurture friendships with women. 23. Realize that love is a numbers game. Guys fall in love easily. You’re going to see some girl and feel like you’ll die if you don’t get her. If she rejects you, move on to the next one. It’s her loss. 24. Don’t be an internet troll. Got out and live life. There is not a cadre of beautiful women advertising on Craigslist to have NSA sex with you. Beautiful women don’t need to advertise. The websites that advertise with attractive women’s photos and claims of loneliness are baloney. All they want is your money and your personal information so that they can market to you. The posts on Craigslist by young “women” seeking NSA sex, and asking for a picture are just a bunch of gay troll pic collectors. This is especially true if the post uses common gay lexicon like “hole” as in “fuck my hole” or seeks “masculine” men, or uses the word cock (except in the context of “Don’t send a cock shot.”) There are women on Craigslist. They are easily recognizable by their 2-5 paragraph postings. Most are in their 30's or older. 25. When you become a man in full, know that people will get in your way. People who are attracted to you will somehow manage to step in your path. Gay guys will give you “the look.” Old people will somehow stumble in front of you at the worst time. Don’t get frustrated. Just step aside and go about your business. Know that these are passive aggressive methods to get you to acknowledge their existence. 26. Don’t gay bash. Don’t mentally or physically abuse people because of who they are, or how they present themselves. It’s none of your business to try to intimidate people into conformity. 27. If your gay, admit it to yourself, your parents, your friends and society at large. Be prepared to get harassed. See rule 14. If someone threatens you or assaults you, call the cops. Have them arrested. You have no obligation to self sacrifice because of who you are. As a gay person, you’ll have more social freedom than straight men. Use it to protect yourself. Be prepared to get out of Dodge if your orientation makes your life unbearable. Move to San Francisco, New York, Atlanta, or New Orleans. You’ll find a welcoming community there. 28. Don’t be a poser. Avoid being one of those dudes who puts a surfboard on top of their car, but never surfs, or a dude with a powder coated fixed gear bike and a messenger bag, but was never a messenger. Live the life. Earn your bona fides. 29. Don’t believe the crap about the patriarchy. More women are accepted and attend college. More degrees are awarded to women than men. Women outlive men. More men commit suicide. Men are twice as likely to be victims of violence, including murder. If you consider sexual assaults in prisons, twice as many men are raped as women (society thinks prison rape is funny). The streets are littered with homeless men, sprinkled with a few homeless women. Statically, women are happier than men. The myth that girls are being cheated by are educational system is belied by the fact that schools are bastions of femininity, mostly run by and taught by women. Girls outperform boys in school. It is the boys in school getting fucked over, and prescribed ritalin for being boys. Real wages for men are falling, while real wages for women are rising. Just because someone says something enough times, doesn’t make it true. You have nothing to feel guilty about. 30. Remember, 97% of all advice is worthless. Take what you can use, and trash the rest. vicioustwist san francisco 02-15-07

101 way to say I love you? What do you think? 101 Most Romantic/Passionate/Sweet Things To Do For Your Girlfriend/Boyfriend (101 steps to having a good relationship) 1. Watch the sunset together. 2. Take showers together. 3. Back rubs/massages. 4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ blacklight. 5. French Kiss. 6. Hold her w/ hands inside the back of her shirt. 7. Whisper to each other. 8. Cook for each other. 9. Skinny dip. 10. Make out in the rain. 11. Dress each other. 12. Undress each other. 13. Kiss every part of their body. 14. Hold hands. 15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other, not sex) 16. One word: Foreplay 17. Sit and talk in just underwear. 18. Buy gifts for each other. 19. Roses. 20. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together. 21. Wear his clothes. 22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars. 23. Incense/candles/oils/blacklights and music make for great cuddling/sex. 24. Kiss at every chance you get. 25. Don't wear underwear and let them find out. 26. Kinky is bad; Blindfolds are good. 27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then whisper I love you. 28. Bubble baths. 29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight. 30. Make love. 31. Write poetry for each other. 32. Kiss/smell her hair. 33. Hugs are the universal medicine. 34. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it. 35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc. 36. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie. 37. Spend every second possible together. 38. Tell her that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to. And mean it. 39. Look into each other's eyes. 40. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly. 41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes. 42. When in public, only flirt w/ each other. 43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets. 44. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking. 45. Clothes are no fun. 46. Buy her a ring. 47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it everyday. 48. Sing to each other. 49. Read to each other. 50. PDA = Public Display of Affection. 51. Take advantage of any time alone together. 52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her name 53. Draw. (If you can) 54. Let her sit on your lap. 55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain. 56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears. 57. Kiss her stomach. 58. Always hold her around her hips/sides. 59. Guys like half-shirts. 60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal. 61. Spaghetti (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?) 62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart. 63. Unless you can feel their hear beating, you aren't close enough. 64. Dance together. 65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love. 66. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with her head in my lap. 67. Carry her to bed. 68. Waterbeds are fun. 69. You figure it out. 70. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it. 71. Break every one of your parent's relationship rules for them. 72. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes 73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you. 74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them. 75. Remember your dreams and tell her about them. 76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours. 77. Ride home and call them. 78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears. 79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you have. 80. Be Prince Charming to her parents. (Brownie Points) 81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual) 82. Brush her hair out of her face for her. 83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them. 84. Hang out with his/her friends. (more brownie points) 85. Go to church/pray/worship together. 86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked. 87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night. 88. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice. 89. Everyone deserves a second chance. 90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her. 91. Make sacrifices for each other. 92. Really love each other, or don't stay together. 93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and give it to them. 94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it. 95. Love yourself before you love anyone else. 96. Buy her a charm bracelet/necklace w/her name on it. 97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio. 98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other. 99. Sleep naked together. 100. Stand up for them when someone talks trash. 101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, "Sweet dreams."

How Can I get over the love of my life punishing me? Ok, here is my problem...unrequited love. I am gay. I met this guy 8 months ago who is a Barista in a coffee shop. He is 15 years younger than me. I am 35. He is 20. When we first met I immediately felt a chemistry of sexual attraction. I have excellent gaydar and always have. After getting to know him I believed he was discreetly gay or Bi. I am intelligent enough that I don’t stereotype people ever. I was in the closet until I met him and chose to come out to him thinking he might do the same and want to do something together. On two occasions when we were alone for a couple of minutes, he sent out signals or body language making me suspect he was gay. It was not flirting. He was pulling up his shirt and telling me to feel his muscles and bending down by me closely wrapping his arms around my legs showing me wrestling moves. This is a guy who does not like other people touching him by the way. Another time he was bending over giving me an *** shot then turning around and just staring at me for a few minutes. SO, we have become friends over this 8 month period and I have fallen in love with him. I was silent about how I felt about him until just a few weeks ago. He told me he was not in love with me because he is straight. I have been stuck with the uncertainty of these signals wondering if he was being cruel or just playing hi and low with my emotions. This is a guy who paints his toenails pink and wears them openly with sandals at work, his mom thinks he is gay, tells me when he sees a hot guy saying ‘dude he is hot’... He also tells me he loves the male physique but not in a sexual way because he is secure in his sexuality and has told me he has ****** two other guys 4 or 5 years ago. I think he could be bisexual, but he says your either gay or straight. So he met this woman who is 25. This woman he met is a student psychologist. I have seen a major change in him as if she controls him like a puppy on a leash. He claims after he had sex with her that he definately knew he was straight after having doubts about his sexuality for years. They have been living together for 4 months now. Him and his girlfriend are the only ones I have told I am gay. He promised me he will never tell anyone I am gay. He is really cocky and arrogant now and neglects all of his friends and family. His whole life just revolves around him and her 99% of the time. Now that he has moved in with her, he brags about the sex marathons and it just kills me. He knows I am in love with him and it pains me to see the two of them together. She also knows that I am in love with him and pours it on thick when they are around me. I have come to know him as my best friend. I feel for him 2 months before she came into the picture. However, he told me he loves me as a friend and that is as far as it will go. He says he is totally comfortable with me being gay. I have accepted this painful reality. He has told me age is just a number and he has lots of friends different ages. So our 15 year age gap is not even an issue with him. This I know for sure. So, I shift to the friendship part of this. I have put 8 long months into this friendship and thousands of dollars I have given to him and lots of great gifts because I truly love him as my best friend. I even give him a ride home after he gets off work all the time only to drop him off at her apartment. I have spent hundreds on gas just driving 20 miles to see him and 20 miles home. I always text him at least 3 times a week or come in to help him close at work and clean up the dirt and filth of the day while he counts the till. He says all his time goes to his girlfriend and I understand that. He said all he has time for me is to just sit and talk for an hour or so. So we sat down and had a long talk which he told me his heart was not in it to be best friends with me and afterwards I became very emotional and broke down and stormed off angry. Every since then he is ignoring me, not answering calls or texts, or anything knowing how bad I am hurting. My heart is broken and I feel so used and alone. Looking back he always accepted my gifts and money but never called me once to do anything friends do or initiated any texts unless it was a question about her. How can I get over this man who I am so in love with and heal my broken split in half heart? This was not infatuation but true love and man does this hurt. Oh, I can’t get him out of my life because he still has a room at a mutual friend of ours house that he has not completely moved out of and wants to keep it as a place to “hang his hat” as he says if he ever needs to. My life has been turned upside down. I can’t sleep or anything else without thinking of him. My heart hurts so bad and I have cried enough tears to fill a lake. It doesn’t seem like he even cares about me as a friend as his omission of silence is so cruel. I am being punished by him for expressing my true feelings and who I am as a human being and it hurts. I feel like a piece of discarded garbage. Please help...NO HATERS...SERIOUS ANSWERS FOR A HURTING HEART PLEASE!

How do I get over the love of my life shutting me out of his? Ok, here is my problem...unrequited love. I am gay. I met this guy 8 months ago who is a Barista in a coffee shop. He is 15 years younger than me. I am 35. He is 20. When we first met I immediately felt a chemistry of sexual attraction. I have excellent gaydar and always have. After getting to know him I believed he was discreetly gay or Bi. I am intelligent enough that I don’t stereotype people ever. I was in the closet until I met him and chose to come out to him thinking he might do the same and want to do something together. On two occasions when we were alone for a couple of minutes, he sent out signals or body language making me suspect he was gay. It was not flirting. He was pulling up his shirt and telling me to feel his muscles and bending down by me closely wrapping his arms around my legs showing me wrestling moves. This is a guy who does not like other people touching him by the way. Another time he was bending over giving me an *** shot then turning around and just staring at me for a few minutes. SO, we have become friends over this 8 month period and I have fallen in love with him. I was silent about how I felt about him until just a few weeks ago. He told me he was not in love with me because he is straight. I have been stuck with the uncertainty of these signals wondering if he was being cruel or just playing hi and low with my emotions. This is a guy who paints his toenails pink and wears them openly with sandals at work, his mom thinks he is gay, tells me when he sees a hot guy saying ‘dude he is hot’... He also tells me he loves the male physique but not in a sexual way because he is secure in his sexuality and has told me he has ****** two other guys 4 or 5 years ago. I think he could be bisexual, but he says your either gay or straight. So he met this woman who is 25. This woman he met is a student psychologist. I have seen a major change in him as if she controls him like a puppy on a leash. He claims after he had sex with her that he definately knew he was straight after having doubts about his sexuality for years. They have been living together for 4 months now. Him and his girlfriend are the only ones I have told I am gay. He promised me he will never tell anyone I am gay. He is really cocky and arrogant now and neglects all of his friends and family. His whole life just revolves around him and her 99% of the time. Now that he has moved in with her, he brags about the sex marathons and it just kills me. He knows I am in love with him and it pains me to see the two of them together. She also knows that I am in love with him and pours it on thick when they are around me. I have come to know him as my best friend. I feel for him 2 months before she came into the picture. However, he told me he loves me as a friend and that is as far as it will go. He says he is totally comfortable with me being gay. I have accepted this painful reality. He has told me age is just a number and he has lots of friends different ages. So our 15 year age gap is not even an issue with him. This I know for sure. So, I shift to the friendship part of this. I have put 8 long months into this friendship and thousands of dollars I have given to him and lots of great gifts because I truly love him as my best friend. I even give him a ride home after he gets off work all the time only to drop him off at her apartment. I have spent hundreds on gas just driving 20 miles to see him and 20 miles home. I always text him at least 3 times a week or come in to help him close at work and clean up the dirt and filth of the day while he counts the till. He says all his time goes to his girlfriend and I understand that. He said all he has time for me is to just sit and talk for an hour or so. So we sat down and had a long talk which he told me his heart was not in it to be best friends with me and afterwards I became very emotional and broke down and stormed off angry. Every since then he is ignoring me, not answering calls or texts, or anything knowing how bad I am hurting. My heart is broken and I feel so used and alone. Looking back he always accepted my gifts and money but never called me once to do anything friends do or initiated any texts unless it was a question about her. How can I get over this man who I am so in love with and heal my broken split in half heart? This was not infatuation but true love and man does this hurt. Oh, I can’t get him out of my life because he still has a room at a mutual friend of ours house that he has not completely moved out of and wants to keep it as a place to “hang his hat” as he says if he ever needs to. My life has been turned upside down. I can’t sleep or anything else without thinking of him. My heart hurts so bad and I have cried enough tears to fill a lake. It doesn’t seem like he even cares about me as a friend as his omission of silence is so cruel. I am being punished by him for expressing my true feelings and who I am as a human being and it hurts. I feel like a piece of discarded garbage. Please help...NO HATERS...SERIOUS ANSWERS FOR A HURTING HEART PLEASE!

How do I get over the love of my life shutting me out of his? Ok, here is my problem...unrequited love. I am gay. I met this guy 8 months ago who is a Barista in a coffee shop. He is 15 years younger than me. I am 35. He is 20. When we first met I immediately felt a chemistry of sexual attraction. I have excellent gaydar and always have. After getting to know him I believed he was discreetly gay or Bi. I am intelligent enough that I don’t stereotype people ever. I was in the closet until I met him and chose to come out to him thinking he might do the same and want to do something together. On two occasions when we were alone for a couple of minutes, he sent out signals or body language making me suspect he was gay. It was not flirting. He was pulling up his shirt and telling me to feel his muscles and bending down by me closely wrapping his arms around my legs showing me wrestling moves. This is a guy who does not like other people touching him by the way. Another time he was bending over giving me an *** shot then turning around and just staring at me for a few minutes. SO, we have become friends over this 8 month period and I have fallen in love with him. I was silent about how I felt about him until just a few weeks ago. He told me he was not in love with me because he is straight. I have been stuck with the uncertainty of these signals wondering if he was being cruel or just playing hi and low with my emotions. This is a guy who paints his toenails pink and wears them openly with sandals at work, his mom thinks he is gay, tells me when he sees a hot guy saying ‘dude he is hot’... He also tells me he loves the male physique but not in a sexual way because he is secure in his sexuality and has told me he has ****** two other guys 4 or 5 years ago. I think he could be bisexual, but he says your either gay or straight. So he met this woman who is 25. This woman he met is a student psychologist. I have seen a major change in him as if she controls him like a puppy on a leash. He claims after he had sex with her that he definately knew he was straight after having doubts about his sexuality for years. They have been living together for 4 months now. Him and his girlfriend are the only ones I have told I am gay. He promised me he will never tell anyone I am gay. He is really cocky and arrogant now and neglects all of his friends and family. His whole life just revolves around him and her 99% of the time. Now that he has moved in with her, he brags about the sex marathons and it just kills me. He knows I am in love with him and it pains me to see the two of them together. She also knows that I am in love with him and pours it on thick when they are around me. I have come to know him as my best friend. I feel for him 2 months before she came into the picture. However, he told me he loves me as a friend and that is as far as it will go. He says he is totally comfortable with me being gay. I have accepted this painful reality. He has told me age is just a number and he has lots of friends different ages. So our 15 year age gap is not even an issue with him. This I know for sure. So, I shift to the friendship part of this. I have put 8 long months into this friendship and thousands of dollars I have given to him and lots of great gifts because I truly love him as my best friend. I even give him a ride home after he gets off work all the time only to drop him off at her apartment. I have spent hundreds on gas just driving 20 miles to see him and 20 miles home. I always text him at least 3 times a week or come in to help him close at work and clean up the dirt and filth of the day while he counts the till. He says all his time goes to his girlfriend and I understand that. He said all he has time for me is to just sit and talk for an hour or so. So we sat down and had a long talk which he told me his heart was not in it to be best friends with me and afterwards I became very emotional and broke down and stormed off angry. Every since then he is ignoring me, not answering calls or texts, or anything knowing how bad I am hurting. My heart is broken and I feel so used and alone. Looking back he always accepted my gifts and money but never called me once to do anything friends do or initiated any texts unless it was a question about her. How can I get over this man who I am so in love with and heal my broken split in half heart? This was not infatuation but true love and man does this hurt. Oh, I can’t get him out of my life because he still has a room at a mutual friend of ours house that he has not completely moved out of and wants to keep it as a place to “hang his hat” as he says if he ever needs to. My life has been turned upside down. I can’t sleep or anything else without thinking of him. My heart hurts so bad and I have cried enough tears to fill a lake. It doesn’t seem like he even cares about me as a friend as his omission of silence is so cruel. I am being punished by him for expressing my true feelings and who I am as a human being and it hurts. I feel like a piece of discarded garbage. Please help...NO HATERS...SERIOUS ANSWERS FOR A HURTING HEART PLEASE!

Dating conversation: how do I stop obsessing over bad dates? My conversations at the last few dates I've been on haven't gone too well. I was at dinner with a girl that I had a massive crush on (who actually has a BF in another city), but she was flirting with me heavily with her body language. But during the date the conversation slowed down and she asked me "Come on, tell me some wild stories, you couldn't have been a good guy all your life". She had already told me about her past relationships and sex life (which I know is a no-no on dates, but this wasn't technically one), so I told her about a wild sexual encounter I had on spring break a year earlier. Later, told her a story about how a girl looked cute in a bar, but wasn't cute when I actually met her for a date later on - I was trying to be funny, but she suddenly thought I was being shallow. Although I don't care about this girl any more (because she was all confusing signals), I can't stop obsessing over how I screwed up and if there could have been a chance with her. How do I move on?

what should i do if i have decided to go further towards her? she is my girlfriend's elder sister who is 37, already married and with 2 kids. i am also 37 and in the relation with my girlfriend for more than 10 years. i cannot tell you what the feelings exactly are towards my girlfriend's elder sister. i can only tell it is strange and becoming stronger and stronger. it could be a eye-contact, a very slight body touch or a body language...... i enjoy every moment she hang around me and in my imaginations, sometimes very dirty, i admit. i don't know whether or not she also has a feeling similar to mine but i am quite sure that she does not have bad impression towards me. i have asked myself is it just a sexual attraction. if yes, why such a feeling could last more than 10 years. i am really afraid it is LOVE .....

How can I get over the love of my life punishing me? Ok, here is my problem...unrequited love. I am gay. I met this guy 8 months ago who is a Barista in a coffee shop. He is 15 years younger than me. I am 35. He is 20. When we first met I immediately felt a chemistry of sexual attraction. I have excellent gaydar and always have. After getting to know him I believed he was discreetly gay or Bi. I am intelligent enough that I don’t stereotype people ever. I was in the closet until I met him and chose to come out to him thinking he might do the same and want to do something together. On two occasions when we were alone for a couple of minutes, he sent out signals or body language making me suspect he was gay. It was not flirting. He was pulling up his shirt and telling me to feel his muscles and bending down by me closely wrapping his arms around my legs showing me wrestling moves. This is a guy who does not like other people touching him by the way. Another time he was bending over giving me an *** shot then turning around and just staring at me for a few minutes. SO, we have become friends over this 8 month period and I have fallen in love with him. I was silent about how I felt about him until just a few weeks ago. He told me he was not in love with me because he is straight. I have been stuck with the uncertainty of these signals wondering if he was being cruel or just playing hi and low with my emotions. This is a guy who paints his toenails pink and wears them openly with sandals at work, his mom thinks he is gay, tells me when he sees a hot guy saying ‘dude he is hot’... He also tells me he loves the male physique but not in a sexual way because he is secure in his sexuality and has told me he has ****** two other guys 4 or 5 years ago. I think he could be bisexual, but he says your either gay or straight. So he met this woman who is 25. This woman he met is a student psychologist. I have seen a major change in him as if she controls him like a puppy on a leash. He claims after he had sex with her that he definately knew he was straight after having doubts about his sexuality for years. They have been living together for 4 months now. Him and his girlfriend are the only ones I have told I am gay. He promised me he will never tell anyone I am gay. He is really cocky and arrogant now and neglects all of his friends and family. His whole life just revolves around him and her 99% of the time. Now that he has moved in with her, he brags about the sex marathons and it just kills me. He knows I am in love with him and it pains me to see the two of them together. She also knows that I am in love with him and pours it on thick when they are around me. I have come to know him as my best friend. I feel for him 2 months before she came into the picture. However, he told me he loves me as a friend and that is as far as it will go. He says he is totally comfortable with me being gay. I have accepted this painful reality. He has told me age is just a number and he has lots of friends different ages. So our 15 year age gap is not even an issue with him. This I know for sure. So, I shift to the friendship part of this. I have put 8 long months into this friendship and thousands of dollars I have given to him and lots of great gifts because I truly love him as my best friend. I even give him a ride home after he gets off work all the time only to drop him off at her apartment. I have spent hundreds on gas just driving 20 miles to see him and 20 miles home. I always text him at least 3 times a week or come in to help him close at work and clean up the dirt and filth of the day while he counts the till. He says all his time goes to his girlfriend and I understand that. He said all he has time for me is to just sit and talk for an hour or so. So we sat down and had a long talk which he told me his heart was not in it to be best friends with me and afterwards I became very emotional and broke down and stormed off angry. Every since then he is ignoring me, not answering calls or texts, or anything knowing how bad I am hurting. My heart is broken and I feel so used and alone. Looking back he always accepted my gifts and money but never called me once to do anything friends do or initiated any texts unless it was a question about her. How can I get over this man who I am so in love with and heal my broken split in half heart? This was not infatuation but true love and man does this hurt. Oh, I can’t get him out of my life because he still has a room at a mutual friend of ours house that he has not completely moved out of and wants to keep it as a place to “hang his hat” as he says if he ever needs to. My life has been turned upside down. I can’t sleep or anything else without thinking of him. My heart hurts so bad and I have cried enough tears to fill a lake. It doesn’t seem like he even cares about me as a friend as his omission of silence is so cruel. I am being punished by him for expressing my true feelings and who I am as a human being and it hurts. I feel like a piece of discarded garbage. Please help...NO HATERS...SERIOUS ANSWERS FOR A HURTING HEART PLEASE!

when a man touches you tenderly what does that mean? What does it mean when a man touches you in a nonsexual way tenderly and you are not lovers but like each other and there is ''sexual stress'' going on? It is like we can't keep our hands off but we musn't touch improperly. I touch his arm and he touches my shoulder. Now and then. What body signals are these. I am interested in body language..what is your take?

wait or ask? I never knew that I become bisexual I never thought of women in a sexual way before I meet my best friend Jane 7 years ago. It was a big shock to me that she is my only first crush I ever had in my life, yeah I had pervious boyfriends in high school but I used them to get over her, I didn’t like the fact I was doing that to them so I broke up with them. I only told my older sister and my friend Josh too. They are supportive to me and try to help me when I ask questions. I told Jane about how I felt about her in our senior year she didn’t say much but was shocked. After we graduated I was busy with work and junior college same with her too, we are good close friends and we hang out with each other and others too. I still like her and I was always reading her body language to see if she likes me back. What I read was mixed singulars she is a touchy person who leans on me some times. Last year she told me some guy in her class was asking her out I sat and listen but inside I felt a bit jealous I ask her what she said to him and she said “no I am not ready for a relationship at the moment.” after that conversation the next day I was trying to recall that day I told how I felt about her, I was trying to remember what she said about it. But nothing Jane didn’t say anything about it So I was struggling to find out how I can talk to her I was tying to speak to her on the phone or face to face about it but I freaked out, I even wrote a letter to her about it but it she didn’t received it cause she didn’t respond. I wanted to ask her “why did you seem okay when I told you how I felt about you?”, A year past and my friend Josh told me to step up and ask her, but I still couldn’t tell her, so in May I ask her to go online the chat room to have a chat, and so she did, I told her everything of myself and how I didn’t like myself for who I am, and when I ask her why did you seem okay when I told you how I felt about you?”, A year past and my friend Josh told me to step up and ask her, but I still couldn’t tell her, so in May I ask her to go online the chat room to have a chat, and so she did, I told her everything of myself and how I didn’t like myself for who I am, and when I ask her “why did you seem okay when I told you how I felt about you?” she said “I am fine with it before I was shock but now I am fine not that I like you in that way cause I don’t know what gender I like but yeah I am fine with it” I was glad to hear her reply and I went on explaining myself to her, I was kind of relief of getting it off my chest. In July I knew I had to move on but then I knew it will be hard for me to get over her cause I liked her for so long but I had to. We still hang out as good friends and with our other friends too. On the 4th of July I went over to my sister’s house party, she told me that her room mate Tiffany was trying to hook me up with her brother Mike. I talk to him and played pool he is cute and nice but I didn’t feel any sparks between us nothing happen at all between us but it was nice of a friend to try to hook me up with someone it was funny and flattering. Next week I told Jane about it on online chat room Jane’s response was unbelievable. She replies “I don’t know if I should be happy or pissed” I reply “what?” Jane “I guess time will tell for the both of us” I reply “what?” Jane “what do you mean what?” she then said she had to go to bed and I said good night, she logged off. I couldn’t sleep that night and I ask myself “was she jealous?” I send her an email and ask her if she was jealous. I was pissed that day because now she was making me confused and was messing with my feelings. She wrote me back and said “I don’t think its right to force someone into a relationship (even if you to did not talk much.) I don’t no if that’s how you saw it or not, but that is what I saw when you told me about it. And I did feel jealousy yes, I felt the same when you were going out with your last two boyfriends.” She explained that she might feel left out if I have a boyfriend and she is afraid that we won’t be close anymore. I didn’t know what to say but I told her that I can’t respect myself and I am not ready for a relationship. Not with the same sex (I didn’t tell her that), I might be moving next year to a different state with my parents and she said she is not happy about that either, but I have no choice because I don’t have enough money to have my own place. I want to clear my head and to help myself to respect myself she said that “people tell me that moving away is not going to help. But if that’s what you think you got to do it then do it and let no one stop you it may let you unwind a little”. She is right about that but I have no choice, if I did I wil I will stay. I told her I didn’t like the fact how she might like me back because I didn’t want her to be mixed with my depression of not respecting myself. Jane didn’t say anything, but I was thinking she might just didn’t want to be the third wheel as I was going out with someone and pay addition to some guy than her. But I will never do that. I do want her and I know I will never forget about her either because I think of her everyday. Now today we are still talking and hang out too. I don’t know what to do now I want to be with her but I can’t respect myself, and I want to know if she does like me back more than a friend. But I cant step up to talk to her face to face I get all red and I studier so I think it be right to write her a note. what do you think I should do?

love! what do you think? 101 Most Romantic/Passionate/Sweet Things To Do For Your Girlfriend/Boyfriend (101 steps to having a good relationship) 1. Watch the sunset together. 2. Take showers together. 3. Back rubs/massages. 4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ blacklight. 5. French Kiss. 6. Hold her w/ hands inside the back of her shirt. 7. Whisper to each other. 8. Cook for each other. 9. Skinny dip. 10. Make out in the rain. 11. Dress each other. 12. Undress each other. 13. Kiss every part of their body. 14. Hold hands. 15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other, not sex) 16. One word: Foreplay 17. Sit and talk in just underwear. 18. Buy gifts for each other. 19. Roses. 20. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together. 21. Wear his clothes. 22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars. 23. Incense/candles/oils/blackligh... and music make for great cuddling/sex. 24. Kiss at every chance you get. 25. Don't wear underwear and let them find out. 26. Kinky is bad; Blindfolds are good. 27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then whisper I love you. 28. Bubble baths. 29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight. 30. Make love. 31. Write poetry for each other. 32. Kiss/smell her hair. 33. Hugs are the universal medicine. 34. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it. 35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc. 36. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie. 37. Spend every second possible together. 38. Tell her that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to. And mean it. 39. Look into each other's eyes. 40. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly. 41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes. 42. When in public, only flirt w/ each other. 43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets. 44. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking. 45. Clothes are no fun. 46. Buy her a ring. 47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it everyday. 48. Sing to each other. 49. Read to each other. 50. PDA = Public Display of Affection. 51. Take advantage of any time alone together. 52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her name 53. Draw. (If you can) 54. Let her sit on your lap. 55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain. 56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears. 57. Kiss her stomach. 58. Always hold her around her hips/sides. 59. Guys like half-shirts. 60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal. 61. Spaghetti (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?) 62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart. 63. Unless you can feel their hear beating, you aren't close enough. 64. Dance together. 65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love. 66. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with her head in my lap. 67. Carry her to bed. 68. Waterbeds are fun. 69. You figure it out. 70. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it. 71. Break every one of your parent's relationship rules for them. 72. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes 73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you. 74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them. 75. Remember your dreams and tell her about them. 76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours. 77. Ride home and call them. 78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears. 79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you have. 80. Be Prince Charming to her parents. (Brownie Points) 81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual) 82. Brush her hair out of her face for her. 83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them. 84. Hang out with his/her friends. (more brownie points) 85. Go to church/pray/worship together. 86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked. 87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night. 88. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice. 89. Everyone deserves a second chance. 90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her. 91. Make sacrifices for each other. 92. Really love each other, or don't stay together. 93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and give it to them. 94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it. 95. Love yourself before you love anyone else. 96. Buy her a charm bracelet/necklace w/her name on it. 97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio. 98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other. 99. Sleep naked together. 100. Stand up for them when someone talks trash. 101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, "Sweet dreams."

What happens when......? a guy is married and a woman is married (separate relationships), but this guy and this woman have an intense attraction to each other? They barely speak but the body language and eye contact tells on them. Neither would ever go any further with it. EVER! They both would love to in their own minds and the sexual part of it would be fabulous because its been burning for a long time, or even just a kiss the passion would be tremendous but it won't ever happen!!! How do you forget if its always there? Just wondering nothing personal

How to casually get her number? she has a boyfriend, but i know she likes me on some level. She always hits me which has to mean that at the very least she doesn't mind touching me. We always spend time alone together at work and usually end up talking about really sexual stuff or really serious deep stuff. I think i had a chance at getting her number because she wanted to trade phones "just to see" what was on there. It's funny how she also comments on how crappy she looks even though i tell her she looks fine. She also does body language stuff that lets me know she might like me at least on a physical level like preen with her blonde hair and touching me, etc. ok sorry for the intro but now i want to know how can i get her number without making it seem like i want to date her

Stringing along or ignorant - Is my girlfriend a lost cause? We’ve been dating for 2 years, at the start I was optimistic, things changed. She hid me from her family because the granny thought she would be pregnant and destroy her career. She couldn’t even dispel these ridiculous perceptions (we’re bloody 19). Soon she revealed her family bonding days, film nights with her brother, her dad buying her season tickets to football and having to go along to every one. This effected when we would see each other. She visits for 2 hours and mostly watches TV. She turns a cold shoulder to anything sexual. She doesn’t wear skirts in my presence and will sit with her arms and legs crossed. Bad body language! Imagine trying to date someone who never stops checking their phone because e.g they may have to pick up their parents from a party because driving means they can’t drink. This dedication has meant that I have NEVER been able to meet up with her during the day - go to dinner or surprise her. You could say she isn’t into me but when she failed to turn up to see me on her birthday I was so annoyed I turned off my phone, she cried for most of the night because she feared it was the end. It’s not as if I give her loads of money, why is she holding onto me? What do you make of this?

A man kissed me today...? I really only want friendship with him, I am not particularly attracted to him. I took him to see a ruin in the city where I live (most people in this city don't even know it exists). While we were there, he grabs my arm, turns me around and makes a move to kiss me. I had not flirted with him, I had not shown any sort of sexual interest in him. As I am not attracted to him, I am quite sure that my body language and unconscious singles would have put that across. This was completely uninvited and unexpected. I told him, "no, I don't think I want to..." And he said, "No, it's okay," then proceeded to kiss me. How can I describe this... a person needs roughage in their diet in order to keep their intenstines healthy, otherwise your breath starts to smell. You can brush your teeth, but the problem is that you are not healthy inside... I could taste his colon... when he kissed me; it was really gross. The only kiss I have had that was worse was from a smoker. Anyway... First, I am totally freaked out by the fact that I said no, and he forced himself on me. Second, I am not attracted to him Third, it was really gross. This cannot go any further, I have to get rid of this guy. How do I let him down gently, with out hurting his feelings? So, if you want to kiss Sly, have enough roughage in your diet and don't smoke!